SUNDAY, JANUARY 04, 2009 08:23 AM, CST
I saw this today at StoryPeople and thought of all who loved Ray and who he loved.
Thousand Moments: I still remember the day the world took you back & there was never time to thank you for the thousand scattered moments you left behind to watch us while we slept.
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
SUNDAY, DECEMBER 28, 2008 09:12 PM, CST
A new year .. winter has come to many parts of the US and the world. I came back here to “see” Ray .. to feel his spirit. It is still inconceivable to me that he is physically no longer with us. 2009 has to bring some comfort to you, Julie, and to the boys. 2009 has to be a year when memories sustain you. I send you all love for this coming year and always. Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 17, 2008 10:48 PM, CST
Have as wonderful a holiday as possible, Julie and team. Keep fresh the good times, and the rest will pass…eventually.
All the best of thoughts to you! Deborah
Deborah Shepard
MONDAY, DECEMBER 15, 2008 10:12 AM, CST
Hi Julie,
Thanks so much for reaching out to all of us to tell us how you are doing. I was just thinking about you all the other day and wondering how you are pulling through. It does “suck”, there is no other way to say it.
The first holiday season is going to be rough but please know that we are all here to support you. You can’t get rid of us!
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
MONDAY, DECEMBER 15, 2008 06:59 AM, CST
I know that the holidays will be difficult at times. just remember, Ray is still here in our hearts. We pray for you and your boys everyday and will continue to pray for you throughout the season. Our golf tournamnet for Relay for Life was delayed until April due to the many conflicts that arose. We will honor Ray in a special way and I will email you. I am sorry I could not get to Atlanta for the memorial, but I was there in spirit! Ray was a special man to all of us and we will always be inspired by the way he touched our lives with his passion and drive. I wish your family love, hope and comfort during this holiday season.
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins jjenkins@cooperhotels.com
Fort Myers, FL
SUNDAY, DECEMBER 14, 2008 09:18 AM, CST
Julie, I’m sure all of the people that knew and worked with Ray would like to create special messages for you and the boys during this time of adjustment of life without you loving husband and the boy’s father.It’s times like this that I wish I had more command of the English language and the ability to capture just the right words to express myself. I hope you know that we all continue to pray for you and the boys as we know that your challenges continue.It can’t be easy to adjust to living without Ray but obviously it has to happen. I can picture Ray looking down on you and the boys and sending you that strength that he so galantly displayed during his lengthy ordeal. His love of life and family will hopefully inspire you during these difficult times and allow you to appreciate all that’s good in your life. If you focus on the positive it will hopefully help you through the tough times. I know that’s easier said then done!! My hope for you and the boys this holiday season is that each day will be just a little bit easier and sunnier.My best wishes.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 13, 2008 10:21 PM, CST
Julie – Kimmie, Derry, Dee,and Doots here – just back from a great dinner at San Antonio’s best italian place – great to see you again on this wonderful web site. We love you and will be thinking about you over the Holidays. Wish I could wisk you down to Texas, – but I guess spending time with your boys is the BEST! We will be in touch and we love you! The Dufours (and Gardners!) Kimmie
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 13, 2008 01:59 PM, CST
It’s now that I think about you, Julie, even more – and wonder how you and your sons are doing. It’s now, after all the attention in the immediacy of a death, that I wonder if you have put up a tree for Christmas and how you will honor the season and Ray’s memory.
I was in Baltimore this past week and rode by the InterCon and thought of the last event there wher Ray was his wonderful self.
You are in my heart and head.
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, DECEMBER 04, 2008 12:28 PM, CST
David and I were sad to hear the news about Ray’s passing. Ray was a wonderful man and we will remember him fondly. Know that his love for you is forever. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this time.
David & Katherine
Katherine Markham katherinem@conventionplanit.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 27, 2008 12:02 PM, CST
On this day of giving thanks and expressing gratitude, I am grateful to have had Ray in my life. He was a friend because of our shared industry and profession and he was a personal friend as we shared our ‘misadventures’ with cancer. My heart is full today and my tears flow in gratitude for having had Ray in my life – and for getting to know Julie a bit .. and for losing Ray (and Steve) far too young.
May we all give thanks for those who enrich our lives and give more to the lives we too can enrich while they are physically with us.
Julie – and “the boys” – may your day be filled with good memories and love .. and tofuturkey?!
With love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 23, 2008 12:49 AM, CST
Kimmie and Derry here – for all of you who could not make it, the Friday memorial was just fabulous! Ray, I’m sure would have been proud! It was a wonderful tribute to Ray and his career. Julie is my cousin, and we are so happy that we were able to be part of all of this! We have spent Saturday with her, and she is pooped with all the company, I’m sure. But I know she wouldn’t want it any it any other way. Derry and I will continue to keep the Shepard family in our prayers.
Kimberly Gardner
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 21, 2008 11:16 AM, CST
Dear Julie and family:
It was an honor to know Ray, and we are so sorry to hear of his passing. He showed so much spirit and zest and will always be remembered. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Warmly,
The Team from Key West
Gloria Szafraniec
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 21, 2008 09:46 AM, CST
Dear Julie, John and James,
Ray is with us in our hearts – I remember my trip with him to Colorado and how much love and respect he has for you and his 2 boys. I thank everyday for the time I was able to spent with him.
Kayce Boettcher
Kayce Boettcher kayce.boettcher@ihg.com
Frisco, TX
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 21, 2008 08:38 AM, CST
Dear Julie, John and James– Please accept my prayers and love in celebration of Ray and his life. While so unimaginably difficult for you now, you will come to only celebrate Ray’s love of each of you, his life, and his Crowne Plaza passion–now a legacy for us all to emulate. May I leave for you today the prayer that … to everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heavens. Ecc 3. May you also find, as you mourn, the time to dance in celebration of Ray’s life. God bless you today and always– Carla Cannonito
carla cannonito carla.cannonito@ihg.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 01:32 PM, CST
Julie,
I regret that due to my work asisgnment here in San Francisco I won’t be able to attend tomorrow’s memorial service for Ray. I feel confident that with the people from CP planning it, it will be a wonderful tribute to a very amazing man. My thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow and in the future. Ray IS in all of our hearts that were lucky enough to get to know him. We are all much better people today thanks to Ray Shepard.
All my best!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 12:51 PM, CST
What a special member of the IHG family Ray has been! I’m so pleased to have had a great conversation with him in March when he was in Chicago to refer to when I think of Ray. All the very best to you and your sons Julie, we are thinking of you.
Jennifer Sommers
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 11:45 AM, CST
Yes…I think Ray has now found a spot in all our hearts & we are all thankful that he touched our lives at IHG.
He is now in good hands & God is taking good care of him…
Tom Losonczy
Tom Losonczy
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 10:42 AM, CST
May you find comfort in your memories of Ray.
Warm Regards,
Alyssa
alyssa smythe
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 10:42 AM, CST
Julie, many of us here in Global Sales look forward to being with you tomorrow at Ray’s memorial. He was a passionate advocate of the Crowne Plaza brand and of IHG and always a sales guy at heart. He will be dearly missed and fondly remembered and I am so glad to have a ‘formal’ opportunity to honor him.
Susan Beadle
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 10:30 AM, CST
Ray has left an indelible imprint one everyone that knew him. He will be remembered for the loveability of his character and charm. IHG and everyone he worked with are better today for having known him. Very few people leave that kind of legacy in this life. God Bless and Keep You, Ray!
Bill James miaum@aol.com
miami, FL
United States
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2008 10:26 AM, CST
Hello Julie, John and James…We are so sad for your loss. The Chicago Crowne Plaza’s will remember Ray with great respect and admiration. We all enjoyed when he visited our hotels and will remember him always.
Diana Dowdy
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 06:43 PM, CST
Julie, unfortunately I will be on the road and unable to attend Ray’s memorial this Friday. I really wanted to be there to honor Ray , his amazing spouse and his two pride and joys. I know there will be many tears of joy as you and the family hear from all those who loved Ray. I’m sure they won’t tell you anything that you didn’t know already but I hope those comments stay with you and the boys for the years ahead and that the love expressed will help get you through this difficult time. As I tell people all the time, what I love about the hospitality business is the people I work with and I am proud to have worked with Ray and more importantly to have called him my friend.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 10:49 AM, CST
Though I only knew Ray for a few years, he was such an inspiration to me. I can only imagine the impact that he’s had on all of the people throughout his life. Ray defined passion and dedication. He welcomed challenges many would have shied away from. He always set the bar so high and then somehow managed to clear it. I am a better person for having had the opportunity to know and work with him.
Julie and family, thank you for sharing Ray with us. Your courage through this hard time has been truly admirable and I’m sure Ray is looking down on you all with such pride.
With Sympathy,
Justin Gammon
Justin Gammon justin.gammon@ihg.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 10:16 AM, CST
Julie, John & James…I know how difficult it is right now. No one was prouder of his family than Ray, and spoke about all of you every chance he could – he will always be there for all of you.
Linda Montgomery
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 09:17 AM, CST
Dear Julie,
I have not had the pleasure of meeting you but I knew and admired Ray and wish to offer my deepest sympathy to you and the rest of the family.
To me Ray was the ultimate cheerleader for the brand and it was wonderful to see his dedication and energy. His enthusiasm for his work has, I am sure, inspired many young people to be sales and marketing prefessionals. The IHG family has lost a great role model.
I wish you all the strength you need to help you through these times.
Channa Perera
Crowne Plaza LAX
Channa Perera channa.perera@ihg.com
Los Angeles, CA
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 09:07 AM, CST
Dear Julie and family,
I was fortunate enough to know Ray for close to ten years. When I headed field marketing for Crowne Plaza, Ray was one of those who stood out at our regional meetings by bringing the participants together, motivating us all with good ideas, and being the first to volunteer his time and effort for the good of the team. When I left that position, I immediately recommended Ray as my replacement. I’ve never been so proud of a peer and colleague as I heard the stories of Ray’s success and his thorough happiness in that role. I’m also glad that it gave so many more people the opprotunity to know and appreciate the type of man he was both personally and professionally. Ray will be one of those people we never forget. My sympathies and prayers go out to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Robert Radomski
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 08:51 AM, CST
Dear Shepard Family,
I found a card this summer when we lost my husbands brother to cancer that I think says everything just right! It goes like this “I have this feeling there’s one more star up in the sky tonight. And even though it’s far away, its brightness and warmth still reach us here to make the night a little less dark”. Ray was definitely a bright star and we were all better for having him touch our lives!
With my deepest Sympathy…..Janice Dailey and the Jacksonville Crowne Plaza Team
Janice Dailey jdailey@cpjacksonville.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 07:55 AM, CST
Dear Julie-
My deepest sympathies to you and your family during this time of loss. May your memories of Ray make each passing day a bit easier than the one before. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rebecca Plaut
New York, NY
United States
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2008 07:35 AM, CST
Dear Julie:
My condolences to you and your family this week. Ray was a wonderful man who was full of energy and enthusiasm for what he did. He was so good at passing that energy to others. He will be greatly missed by everyone he touched. My prayers are with you and your family.
Bill Moore
Crowne Plaza, Charlotte NC
Bill Moore wcmooreiii@hotmail.com
charlotte, NC
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 10:32 PM, CST
Julie and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and will be keeping you in my prayers. Your loss is also our loss – Ray was such an integral part of IHG and his passion and energy will be missed by all!
Kerri Metcalf
San Francisco, CA
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 09:16 PM, CST
Hi Julie, James and John,
My heart was so saddened when I received the news this morning about Ray’s passing. I have known Ray for so many years and just can’t imagine Crowne Plaza life without him there. He was the epitome of kindness and his optimistic outlook on life is something we can all emulate. My church choir (60 strong) has been praying for him “religiously” ever since we heard that the cancer was back. When I let them know this morning, several of the prayer warriors have responded and have added you to their list. The peace that we can all feel is that Ray is in such a good place and his body is free from cancer and pain. Our loving Lord has a way of cradling us all in His loving arms and giving us what is needed when it is most needed.
Although the Crowne Plaza Redondo Beach gals cannot be with you physically on Friday, please know that we are with you in spirit and send all of our love and best wishes.
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill
Crowne Plaza Redondo Beach
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Marilyn Atchue-Zuill marilyn.atchue@ihg.com
Redondo Beach, CA
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 09:10 PM, CST
Dear Julie, I just returned from Montreal and saw the posting of Ray’s passing. I found the only words one can say at this time is “I am so deeply sorry.” His spirit and love will be with you and the family always. I send my love to all of you. May the love of the many who care for all of you surround and support you now. I know Paul greeted him with a large glass of wine.
Jan
Jan Day Gravel
McLean, VA
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 08:23 PM, CST
Julie, James and John:
My sincere condolences and deepest sympathies. May you all find comfort and inspiration in your lives through the wonderful memories of Ray. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Charlene Tierney
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 08:19 PM, CST
Dear Shepard Family,
I have worked with Ray for the past 4 years- he taught me so much and I will always remember him for his dedication to the Crowne Plaza team. I was deeply saddened to hear about Ray’s passing and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Misty Polihronakis and the team from the Crowne Plaza Hollywood Beach
Misty Polihronakis mpolihronakis@hotmail.com
Hollywood, FL
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 08:15 PM, CST
Dear Julie and family,
My deep sympathies for all of you at this time. Thank you for allowing us to all follow along on this journey. Ray was a very special person as is evident from everyone’s thoughts and comments these past months. I will never forget the first time I met him…he was always so full of live and hope and always a ready smile.
He will be missed and not forgotten.
My prayers are with you,
Beverly
Beverly Meehan beverly.meehan@hilton.com
Lake Oswego, OR
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 04:23 PM, CST
I am so sorry to hear that Ray has passed. He was lucky to have such a loving family. He will certainly be missed by so many. All my thoughts and prayers are with you and him today. God Bless.
Carol Gorham
Orlando, FL
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 03:28 PM, CST
Dear Julie and family,
I met Ray briefly in a conference some few months ago in Anaheim Orange County. I have never been as distantly inspired by someone as he, who, inspite of the serious life and death challenges confronting him, has shown the love and the dedication for his work, his colleagues and his friends and family. His cheerful demeanor and zest for life is testimony of his faith and hopes and friendships earned. He has taught me much and allowed me to reflect on life’s precious priorities in our times. I have no doubt Ray has touched many who have had the privileg of meeting and knowing him.
With deepest condolences.
Daniel Tan
Daniel Tan
Fullerton, CA
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 02:42 PM, CST
Dear Julie & Family,
We are truly saddened by the news of Ray’s death. He was indeed a GREAT man whom I had the pleasure of getting to know of the past couple of years. His contribution to the success of our hotel was inspired and greatly appreciated. We wish you our most sincere condolences and peace through this difficult time in your lives. May God pour his blessing on you today in a special way.
God Bless you.
The Crowne Plaza Moncton Team
Darren Murray dmurray@cpmoncton.com
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 01:27 PM, CST
Julie and family, what a struggle it has been for you. Ray certainly fought the good fight throughout. I was glad to have the opportunity to see him briefly when you stopped by on November 7. My heartfelt condolences to you all.
Susan Beadle
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 12:31 PM, CST
Dear Julie –
I only met you briefly at a conference in Ventura Beach in 2007, but I wanted share my thoughts about your wonderful husband. I am so very sorry to hear of Ray’s passing. He was such a GREAT man. I so enjoyed his spirit, quick comments, smirk, laughter and dedication to always doing the right thing. He will be so sorely missed. I miss him already. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Matt Swanson
Matt Swanson matts@wiotel.com
Camas, WA
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 10:08 AM, CST
Dear Julie, James, John, family and friends,
I’ve been struggling with what to say and I thought back to when my mother passed away for what comforted me the most and it was one word. Legacy. Some of us spend many years on this earth and then go without leaving much of an impact. Then there are those that touch so many lives in a short period of time. They leave behind a part of themselves on everyone they touched. Ray has done this. So even if he’s gone from our world, he still lives on in each of us.
To Julie, thank you for loving him, for making him so happy and for taking such good care of him all these years. To James and John, you two gave him more joy than you will ever realize. He was always so proud of you both. It is in you that his legacy lives on the most. To his family, thank you for surrounding him with your love and creating beautiful memories. And to the rest of us who were lucky enough to be touched by him, let’s mourn our loss and then insure that his legacy thrives within us and that we pass it on. He would like that, I think.
Mary Catherine Lamza marycatherine.lamza@ihg.com
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 09:34 AM, CST
Julie-
I wish I had the words to express my sorrow at your loss. There are not enough adjectives to describe Ray and the impact he had on people. I thank God that I had the opportunity to meet him and be reminded that there are truly special people sent here among us. I know that no words can take away your pain. I hope that knowing the love and good thoughts being sent your way will comfort you during this time. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask. Thank you for keeping us informed and thank you for sharing Ray with all of us.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 09:29 AM, CST
Dear Julie and Family,
We are sorry for your loss and wish you strength in your time of need. It was a pleasure to have known Ray. His fight through this difficult time was very encouraging and he is now at peace. Thank you for sharing his journey with all of us.
With heartfelt condolonces,
The team of the Crowne Plaza Philadelphia/Cherry Hill
Romina Magana
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 09:19 AM, CST
Julie and Family, my heart and prayers go out to you for your loss. No one in the industry taught me as much as Ray did. His passion for Crowne Plaza and the people he worked with was inspiring. I found myself motivated to reach his level of commitment and passion, and felt I would always be striving to be that great. I have missed working with him after I left Crowne 2 years ago, but still remember and use the skills that he so passionately taught us all. He will certainly be missed!
Margaret Maggio margaret.maggio@yahoo.com
Austin, TX
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 07:27 AM, CST
I am so devastated to read the posting today. I was always so impressed by Ray’s love of life and easy way of living. Heaven is a better place with him in it but we will sure miss him here.
Shawn
Shawn Maxwell
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 07:27 AM, CST
With love and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time. We will miss Ray. Our deepest sympathy.
God bless you
Crowne Plaza Team Alexandria
Donna DeClementi donna.declementi@ihg.com
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 07:15 AM, CST
It seems a million years ago that Ray whispered into his dictaphone leaving me messages to transcribe in the morning. But I very much remember his impact on me and my life. Will miss knowing he’s still mentoring someone new.
With fond memories,
Donna Lynn (Childers) Eleazer
Donna Lynn Eleazer
Atlanta, GA
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 06:55 AM, CST
Dear Julie and Family,
We here at the Crowne Plaza in Greenville, SC want to send you our deepest sympathy in the loss of Ray. We were saddened to hear of his passing, but hope that you can take comfort in the fact that he is now in a better place and is no longer in any pain.
Take great care and if there is anything that we can do, please do not hesitate.
Allison Roberts aroberts@cpgreenville.com
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 06:06 AM, CST
You are in our prayers and thoughts. Your family’s strength and love is an inspiration, and I know Ray felt that every moment.
Daniel Nelson
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2008 12:15 AM, CST
Hi everybody,
I’m looking forward to being with you and I want to say that you are all so fortunate to have had such a brave and solid person for a father and a husband. He always seemed so at peace and always so grounded and confident about his place in the world. I’m really sad to see him go but I enjoy thinking of him, quiet and sturdy. I remember him taking us out to eat when Pop Pop was in the hospital and we had the martinis together to salute Pop Pop. Big hugs and see ya’ll soon. Liz
elizabeth scott
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 10:56 PM, CST
Ray is a true inspiration! I feel so incredibly lucky to have been able to get to know him and be a part of his life. I will treasure the memories and always remember the man he was: passionate, caring and kind.
Thank you Ray for being so amazing and thank you to Julie, James and John for sharing him – he always talked about all of you and especially about how proud he was of his sons!
Stacey Galbraith
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:51 PM, CST
Julie & Family- My heart goes out to you and your family! Ray was a WONDERFUL man and had a good soul. My husband and I pray for you all and can not begin to tell you how sorry we are foryour loss. Ray will be missed by all. He was loved by so many. May God Bless you and keep you……Sharon & Jim
Sharon Estep saestep@sbcglobal.net
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 05:34 PM, CST
Julie, James, and John, I have been out of town for the weekend and only just now found out that we have lost Ray. Although I know it was expected I’m still shocked. I am so sorry for ya’ll losing Ray who was by all accounts a wonderful husband and father. Just from reading his CaringBridge entries, I’ve never known a man who was so well-liked and admired by his business accociates. I am praying for the three of you in this time of loss and sadness and the days ahead. Love, Patty
Patty Scott
Alexandria, LA
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 05:04 PM, CST
Dear Julie & Family,
You have our sincere and deepest heartfelt sympathy. Words cannot express the sadness we feel and how our hearts go out to you and your family.
Ray was the most genuine person we have ever met. He was the ultimate professional with an enthusiasm and passion that was contagious. The respect and regard he had for others truly sets him apart and we are fortunate to have had the opportunity know and work with him. If there were more Rays in the world, it would truly be a better place. It is our loss. We will miss him.
You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Lefty & Cindy Novotny
Lefty Novotny
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 04:32 PM, CST
There are no words to comfort the loss tht you have experienced. I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. Ray was such a wonderful person who touched all of us in some way.. I am so sorry for your loss.
Kathleen Pettit
Kathleen Pettit kpettit@cplga.com
East Elmhurst, NY
United States
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 01:24 PM, CST
Julie, James, and John,
I realize it’s hard to find any words comforting at a time like this, but I do want to extend my deepest sympathies. You will always have the memories you shared together and that’s the one thing that can never be taken away. Find solace in the peace and comfort that Ray has found and know he is looking down giving thanks for what the great family he has.
Randy Burge
Lafayette, LA
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 12:58 PM, CST
Dear Julie and the Shepard family,
I was deeply saddend to hear about the passing of Ray. I know how difficult this must be for you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ray was such a kind, gentle soul. He would do anything to help someone in need. He saved my life by starting the CP sales team.
I know how much you will miss Ray. I encourage you to draw on your strenghth and the strength of your family.
May god bless you and your family during this time and always.
Sincerely, Christine Mazzoli
Christine Mazzoli christine.mazzoli@ihg.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 11:52 AM, CST
Dear Julie, James and John:
What can we say? Life can be so short… but I am glad you all had many wonderful years together. I can so vividly remember Memere praying for you to find a husband and you did. You and Ray found each other. Then God gave ya’ll James and John. What a wonderful tribute Ray left to you. I know times will be tough for all of you. Remember Ray may be gone from this earth, but he will live forever in your hearts. We pray that God comforts you all and gives you strength.
Our love to all of you. We will see you soon.
Kathy and Hal
hal burge
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 09:03 AM, CST
Dear Julie and Family,
I am so sad to hear that Ray is no longer with us. I will miss him; his professionalism, his determnation, his drive and most of all his passion. He will forever be a part of our lives and we are so fortunate to have known him. I thank God that he is pain and cancer free and at peace.
Thank you and your family so much for sharing yours and Ray’s experiences with us. It has been an honor to be a part of this great man’s journey.
We continue to pray for you and your family as you adjust to your own new lives.
Please let us know if there is anything you need, anything we can do for you and your family.
We will be honoring Ray in our Relay For Life event in April in Fort Myers, FL
Much Love,
Joan Jenkins
Crowne Plaza Fort Myers
Joan Jenkins jjenkins@cooperhotels.com
Fort Myers, FL
United States
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:58 AM, CST
Oh Julie – my jaw dropped and my heart broke .. my fingers can’t seem to get the words out to you and the boys and to the rest of your family.
The tree will now be in Ray’s memory – plant it .. nurture it .. and know that it will thrive because of the love it has.
That said, there is nothing to help you with Ray’s death .. nothing .. but G-d, prayers, friends and time. And even time won’t heal.
My love to you all .. my support in any way I can – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:58 AM, CST
Julie, I have been out of touch for a few days and just now realized we have lost Ray. My heart goes out to you and the family. Stacie D certainly knew Ray well and her comments are shared by all. Ray has touched so many people with his dedication and drive and truly he was a mentor to many. We are all blessed and better people for knowing Ray. True his pain is over and yours will continue, but know this world was a better place because of him. My prayers are with you and the family and thank you for allowing us to be a part of his final journey. God bless you for being so strong and devoted to Ray. We will miss his passion for life and have learned much from this great man we called Ray Sheppard.
Deepest Regard
Don
Don Zimmer dzimmer@astorneworleans.com
New Orleans, LA
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:40 AM, CST
Dearest Julie,
As I sit writing to you with tears in my eyes, I realize how privileged I was to know the Shepards of Texas. Ray was a wonderful person who touched many lives.
I will be getting in touch with MC and DL so we can comfort each other as we grieve. We have lost one of the best bosses, greatest mentors and truest friends we ever had, not only in the crazy hotel business, but life itself. You are in my thought and prayers.
God Bless you all.
Patsy Piner pwpiner@yahoo.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:27 AM, CST
It’s Sunday morning at the ranch – nice and cold in South Texas – a rare thing! Another rare thing – several years ago it actually snowed in Texas while Ray and other cousins went hunting with Derry. It’s that year all the cousins came to Austin for Christmas. We have a picture of everyone bundled up at the deer camp! Julie – we are thinking of you and let us know if we can do anything.
I just read the entry from Ray’s former secretary (I think her name is Mary Catherine) – Wow! I have always thought Julie looked like Ali McGraw – and then I saw Ali McGraw in Santa Fe at a farmer’s market… It’s true! Except Julie is much prettier. Anyway – all our thoughts are with you and we are looking so forward to being with everyone in a few days. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:13 AM, CST
Julie –
You and the boys are in all our prayers.
Thank you for allowing those of us who could not be there in person to share, in a small way, the journey that you and the boys have taken. It has caused me to quietly pause and contemplate all that is important in this world and the next. Again, thank you for allowing me to share a part of your family’s journey.
With deepest sympathies and respect,
Mike McCarthy
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:05 AM, CST
Julie, Boys, Family,
I am sorry for your loss, my prayers and with you and the boys in the days and months ahead. I am so glad I had the opporurtunity to know you and the boys when living in Norfolk and being a sitter with the boys. He was always a mentor and with his guidance while I worked with him is responsible for the Sales Director I am today. I have thought about all of you often and emailed him about two years as I was making sales calls for an advertising agency at the time I was working for. He still after the years was my mentor, leader, and friend.
I am glad he is pain free and in heaven, he will be surely missed by anybody he came in contact with. My heart goes out to you. Thanks for sharing the journey.
If you need anything, please don’t hesitate to email or call me. I love you all.
In my thoughts and prayers,
Lori Wilson- Lowry
Ltd Management Company, Corporate Sales
llowry@ltdmanagement.com
757-769-4633
Lori Lowry lorenelowry@yahoo.com
Norfolk, VA
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 08:00 AM, CST
To the Shepards,
We just want you to know how much we love our Uncle Ray. He will never leave our hearts.
John, Kristin & Wyeth
John Scott
Port of Spain
Trinidad and Tobago
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 07:46 AM, CST
Julie and the Shepard family.
My sincere condolences in your loss of Ray. I kept hoping and praying that he would be better and the pain would go away for good. I know in the end it was God’s decision and I’m glad Ray is in heaven with Him. I was privileged to have had the opportunity to work with someone with so much passion for what he did. He was an inspiration to me and I know those that are still with Crowne Plaza. He will be greatly missed by all who had the opporunity to know him.
Julie, thank you too for taking us on this journey. Many of us who worked with Ray didn’t get to know him on a personal basis and I thank you for letting us into Ray’s world. It further explains why so many people were so crazy about the man.
I know there are some tough times ahead but I’m comforted by the fact that you have such a great faith in God. He never gives us more than we can handle and with Him, your family, and all of the many wonderful people that you have come to know through Ray, you too will get through this.
Please reach out to me or any of us that can be of help!
Thanks again for all you did to make Ray’s last days so wonderful. I wish you all, all the best!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2008 07:20 AM, CST
Julie,
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Although I can’t speak for what everyone prayed for, I know my prayers asked God to give Ray (and our family) the strength to overcome this terrible ordeal. I recognize now that that is exactly what God did. It may have not had the outcome we all would have liked, Ray cancer free and with all of us, but God did give Ray strength like I’ve never seen it before. He was truly an inspiration to me as I witnessed his unfailing determination. I was in awe of his positive attitude, because I’m not sure I could have tackled it with as much grace as he did. I suppose at some point we have to realize that our plan isn’t necessarily God’s plan, so we have to trust in him.
After being with Ray these past few times, I take unbelievable comfort knowing his fight is over and he is pain free. I will continue to pray for all of you as you work through what will be another difficult chapter in your lives.
I hope you have come to feel that it wasn’t just Ray that was part of our family, but you and your boys as well. We are here for you and we hope you will reach out to us for whatever it is you need, even if it’s just to spend some time together.
Again, thank you for sharing your journey. I will always remember Ray with not just for all the things that made him uniquely Ray, but for the inspiration he was to me in his journey.
All the best,
Gina LaBarre
Gina LaBarre
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 11:12 PM, CST
To the Shepard Family,
I’m so sorry to hear of this sad news. Our deepest sympathy for your loss and our dear friend-Ray.
Our loved ones, no longer with us, leave footprints in our hearts. Impressions of kind acts, loving words & happy memories. Ray, built this path for all of us to follow which will lead us to warmer places and brighter days. We will miss him dearly.
Julie, memories can comfort, hope can heal … as for love, it lives on forever.
Anything we, in the global hospitality community may do, please let us know.
God bless you and your family,
Deborah Gardner
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 11:05 PM, CST
I am so lucky to have known Ray Shepard…he was a special man…boss, but most importantly, he was my friend. He taught me so much in the 5 years I worked for him…he taught me just how good Starbucks was when rushing for an airplane…he taught me to always get an aisle seat…windows are “over rated” for us business travelers…and he also taught me how to remember that we work for “our” hotels. His passion for his job will always go unmatched. There is no one out there that will ever have his passion for Crowne Plaza the way he did. Julie, I will forever be grateful for the time I got with Ray…I will forever be changed because he was a part of my life.
Ray, thank you. I am sure Richie is going to show you around up there, make sure you put him to work!
Love,
Stacie
stacie day
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 08:44 PM, CST
Starbucks? Ok, now I’m jealous-heeheehee.
Thanks Cyndi for your wondeful updates. Enjoy your visit and celebrate being together.
Cheers,
Deborah Gardner
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 10:56 AM, CST
Hi
I am so glad Cindy is here. As strong as you are Julie, you too need support. I am coming to see all of you today. My love to Ray.
Julie Borenstein
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 09:48 AM, CST
Good Morning Ray and Julie,
Beautiful day in Northern CA. It’s going to be 85 degrees today. Trees are turning colors and the smell of Fall is in the air and YES, my Meyer Lemon Tree is just producing lemons by the bushel. Sounds like your new temporary home is lovely and serene. Miss you out here and want you to know all the angels are working overtime to send you all the prayers and positive messages we are all sending you.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 09:24 AM, CST
Kansas City checking in here!
Hi Ray, Julie, James & John – We are looking at a Saturday with temps down in the 30’s! The older I get the farther south I want to be. I was so glad to read that Cyndy and Jock are in town, I really wish we that Lori, Megan, Madeline and I could be in Atlanta with you all right now! We love you all so much and although we are far away; all of you are in our thoughts and prayers – every day.
Love,
Michael.
Michael Funkey
Prairie Village, KS
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 07:54 AM, CST
Goodmorning from Chicago. The details of the facility sound really amazing. I am so happy that you are in comfortable and warm surroundings. Not too much to report here…getting ready for a day of house projects…I guess that’s what being a home owner is all about. Thinking of you all constantly. Much Love, Katie
katie funkey
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 01:22 AM, CST
Ray, Julie, James and John,
I’m thinking of you all in Atlanta and I want to wish you goodnight from the West Coast. Mom, I’m glad you arrived safely and thanks for writing. Rest well!
Much love,
Liz
elizabeth scott
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2008 12:59 AM, CST
Greetings from the West….Stacey is soliciting for CP Showcase 09 dates…can’t do it without you cuz we know how much fun you have!
Thinking of you.
Alyssa
alyssa smythe
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 04:25 PM, CST
Hey Ray. We hope you’re feeling well. We know these are tough times for you. We love you so much and we are praying for you every day. You hang in there!
love,
John, Kristin & Wyeth
John Scott
Port of Spain
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 03:21 PM, CST
WOW! That cake looks yummy! Next time, can I be invited over for some cake? heeheehee.
I know you mentioned how proud you are of everyone but reality is we all are proud of you Ray. Seems like this new place is nice. I sure wished I had birds singing outside my window. Instead I have wild coyotes that just stare back at me-heeheehee.
Sometimes, life makes us go with the flow while the universe guides us in the right direction. With all the prayers that I read in your jounal, there is no doubt that the right direction is for you to get better.
Keep the faith as we all are for you,
Deborah Gardner
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 02:35 PM, CST
Hi Ray and Julie –
I just got the note from Julie as a forward from MC today – sorry I have been out of touch.
Ray, you look great in the pictures (well, except the halo thingy, of course) just like the Narc agent looking guy I worked with almost 30 years ago.
Sounds like you are at a great place. I love Julie’s description of it. Enjoy the birds, waterfalls, and great view. Let those hospice people do what they do so well – keep you pain free, comfortable and in control.
Love to all of you – you are in my thoughts and prayers. I will be checking this site regularly for updates.
pp (former Ray Shepard side kick at Adam’s Mark-Houston, Wyndham Greenspoint-Houston and McLean Hotels!)
Patsy Piner pwpiner@yahoo.com
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 12:35 PM, CST
Hi Ray and Julie,
I just wanted you to know that your constantly in my thoughts and prayers – you’re such an inspiration for us all. Am so glad you’re in such a peaceful place so you can enjoy these beautiful Fall days.
Love,
Kristen
Kristen Pardo
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 11:07 AM, CST
Ray, 30 years ago I had to beg you to hire me as your secretary for the opening of the very first Adam’s Mark Hotel ever. So what I knew nothing about hotels??? I could learn! After 4 interviews and 7 weeks, you reluctantly agreed to give me a chance. I look back now and realize you were completely insane to take someone with no hotel experience as your right hand support in preparation to open not only a 604 room convention hotel, but a new brand to boot! Well, as it turned out, your passion for the business, your salesmanship, your relentless demand for perfection and attention to detail and all the other things I learned from you (and on occassion had cursed you for) have served me well over the years and I am truly grateful. We’ve shared so many milestones in our lives! My favorite memory is the day you came into the office and told me you met the most beautiful woman at the Marriott Grand Opening party the night before. “Mary Catherine, she looks just like Ali McGraw only prettier!” ….and I watched as your life became full of love and happiness from that day forward. Thank you, Ray, for being my friend and my mentor and for keeping our friendship alive all these years. Most of all, thank you and Julie for allowing me the privilege of being a part of your most recent and difficult journey. You are forever in my heart and memory and I love you.
Mary Catherine
Mary Catherine Lamza
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 09:48 AM, CST
Ray and I first worked together back in the early early 90’s… I was the GM at the Crowne Plaza Galleria and Ray was the Regional Director of Sales. We had many Regionals during my 11 years at that hotel and Ray is the guy we all remember as being the best mentor and most knowledgable guy when it came to Sales & Marketing. Mary Catherine Lamza, my Catering Director for the past 8 years, is always telling me what Ray would do in this or that situation… thanks Ray, she still bugs the hell out of me!
I have a video of Ray in my Blackberry that I took in Dallas when we were getting our “makeup” on for the CP awards show last year… what a hoot! The gang was all there… Stone, Fredsall, Ladd, Raynor, Swilley… et al. I’ll keep that and remember all the great times!
Al Stento al.stento@ihg.com
Houston, TX
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2008 07:00 AM, CST
Julie, I saw your last note about Ray being a great father and husband and understand that’s where your focus is. However, I want you to know that he’s been a great co-worker as well. I know you know that just by the shear amount of emails that have flown into this site. But, as I think about all of the folks I have worked with in my long career in hospitality, I can’t think of many that have surpassed Ray’s dedication to the job, care for those around him and desire to succeed. It just reminds me of how much time we spend at work and how our families have an indication of how we are perceived by our co-workers but often not the full picture. Ray has always led by example and successful companies are built on the shoulders of folks like Ray. We might not rise to the highest positions but without the Rays of the world the top dogs would look pedestrian.
I always thought I knew Ray pretty well but the two of you have provided so much more insight through these entries into what a special person and people you are. I am inspired to do more professionally and personally thanks to you two. My prayers continue to flow and I hope that they provide strength and peace of mind.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 09:46 PM, CST
This color seemed fall-like and I am guessing Atlanta is at the peak of color.
Ummmm .. birthday cake! I truly think it is one of the 5 food groups! Glad you had this, Ray. Glad too that you are in such a goregous place where you can rest and be taken care of. All this is so important.
Julie – thanks for keeping us updated. Tell us too what you need .. other than our love and support .. and of course, prayers.
Love to you both and to the boys – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 09:16 PM, CST
Hi Aunt Julie, the facility is beautiful. Please know that we are all with you at this time, no matter how far away we are. Thoughts and prayers to you, Ray and the boys. Love, Katie
katie funkey
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 08:03 PM, CST
Hello from Orlando! Just want you to know that we are thinking of you and praying for all of you. Please kiss and hug Ray and boys for me.
Love, Julia, Mike & Anna
julia devault juliadevault@gmail.com
Orlando, FL
United States
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 04:43 PM, CST
Hello, Julie. Thank you so much for the update. Hospice will take good care of you all. I have walked this road, too, and I know that this time will be precious to you.
The love that you share, the love of your family and friends will sustain you both – and that love will be with you forever.
Lu Sadler
Naples, FL
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 03:44 PM, CST
Sending great wishes for a wonderful Thanksgiving! I know you will have a fun holiday with Jock and Cyndy there to visit. Love, Stafford
Stafford Scott
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 03:36 PM, CST
Much love comes your way with this greeting, and many prayers too. Feed some birds for me!
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins jjenkins@cooperhotels.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 02:17 PM, CST
We learn more about you Shepards every day…didn’t know about the love of birds. How peaceful!
If any of us need to be reminded, we are being reminded that each day counts. Thank you for being such a good role model for us,Julie and Ray.
Deborah
Deborah Shepard
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 02:03 PM, CST
We are praying for all of you and sending you much love and support. Our entire team is cheering you on!
We miss you!
Much love and strength to you and your family!
Love ,
Donna, Durwood and the Old Town Alexandria Team!
Donna DeClementi
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 01:57 PM, CST
Dear Ray and Family,
Happy belated Birthday! We just want you to know that we are thinking about you and praying for your wellness. You are an ispiration to us all, keep up the great spirits!
Warmest regards,
Crowne Plaza Philadelphia/Cherry Hill
Romina Magana
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 01:35 PM, CST
Dear Ray,
Great to see the picture of you and your Birthday Cake! What a handsome looking fellow (Julie is a lucky gal!)
Knowing your amazing commitment to your work, just wanted to let you know we have taken the ‘torch’ you passed to MCA for the upcoming Sales Summit and will make certain we fulfill your vision. You are the inspiration for ‘The Crowne Plaza Force’ and we are all very proud of your accomplishments. We will not let you down! Keep the faith and know that we remain behind you and keep you in our daily thoughts and prayers.
All my personal best,
Lefty Novotny
Lefty Novotny
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 01:25 PM, CST
Julie,
Thanks so much for updating us on Ray. I’m so glad to hear he is now comfortable and not in pain. The hospice facility sounds perfect! I just read Joc’s email and was very moved as I’m sure you and Ray were as well. It certainly put things in perspective and gives hope to us all. Seeing all the guestbook comments is also so encouraging. There are so many people that are sending great thoughts and prayers for you and Ray. It is not at all surprising to see considering the impact Ray has had on so many of us. We all want the best for him. Thanks again to you and the boys for being close to his side in this tough time. Stay strong!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:49 PM, CST
Hi Ju, the place sounds lovely and it is beautiful, I pulled it up on the internet last night and took the virtual tour. I’m glad you are there with knowledgeable people all around . I know Ray will be happier because they can keep him more comfortable and make changes to his meds when necessary. I wrote Skid and told him you were there, I also gave him your cell number. I would love for you all to talk if you get a chance to call him back. Love and Prayers, Cyn
Cynthia SCOTT
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:41 PM, CST
My love and prayers go with you all. Keep up the good fight and stay strong.
All of us at the Crowne Plaza Orlando Airport
Shawn Maxwell
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:41 PM, CST
Sending positive thoughts your way during this difficult time….Thinking of you.
Rebecca Plaut
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:39 PM, CST
Hi Ray,
A belated Happy Birthday! David and I are thinking of you and sending you our warm wishes. It’s touching to read the comments from everyone you’ve connected with in your life, (including me), who are rallying for you at this time. God Bless!
Katherine Markham
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:39 PM, CST
Good afternoon from San Francisco,
I’m glad to hear that you all are together and the hospice website looks wonderful. The gardens seem so contemplative and pleasant. I’m moved by all of your brave handeling of your challenges and I’m thinking of you all the time, always with a sense of admiration and poignance. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to ease your transition from afar. No task is too mundane! I wish I could be with you for Thanksgiving but I am encouraging Natalie to get her butt on a plane! I’ll give a call later this afternoon. Please recieve my deepest wishes for peace of mind and fearlessness! I love ya’ll!
elizabeth scott
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:38 PM, CST
Our prayers were answered with Jock’s e-mail to Ray. Derry and I don’t want Ray to fear what may lay ahead for him. We pray that God comforts him with complete security of where he is and where he goes from here. We can’t understand it, but we can ask God to tell Ray and know that He will. How lucky we are to have such a gifted writer in the family! By the way, I bought 6 Natalie Scott books the other day! Good old Amazon.com! Julie – take care of yourself, and if you need to have a few glasses of wine, go right ahead! Love Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 12:26 PM, CST
Ray, Julie and family:
The entire team here at La Concha, Key West have you all in our prayers and thoughts. Your positive energy and enthusiam has always been felt in the Keys, and please know we are there for you in spirit and strength. We will check back again soon. Warmly, the CP La Concha Team!
Gloria Szafraniec
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 11:47 AM, CST
Julie and Ray, I LOVE the pictures! I must have checked in on Tuesday and not yesterday so I didn’t know about them till Sandy told me they were there I didn’t see them till today. You look great, Ray. Do you have any of the party at the house on Sunday? I hear you all had quite a crowd, wish we had been there. We’re still praying hard and can’t wait to see all of you at Thanksgiving. Love and Kisses, Cyndy
Cynthia SCOTT
Alexandria, LA
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 11:00 AM, CST
Ray and Family,
The entire sales team at the Crowne Plaza Nashua which to extend our thoughts and prayers to you all at this time. Ray your energy, enthusiasm and support will always be behind us. Thank you for being such a wonderful mentor. God Bless to you all!
Karen Carlisle
Nashua, NH
United States
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2008 05:47 AM, CST
hi
i found the site again and I loved reading it. My hear goes to you, Ray and the guys. I will came by this weekend. Julie
Julie Borenstein
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 12, 2008 06:38 PM, CST
Hi Ray,
I’m so glad that I was able to see you a couple of times last week.It was also great to meet Julie for the first time. I hope that you liked the orange bag of IHG goodies.
Your presence, your smile, your energy, your talent, your support and your fabulous attitude is greatly missed at Ravinia and in the field. My entire team and your hotels are consumed with thoughts of you. We’re all praying for you and wishing that your pain would go away.
Love,
Mike Fegley
Mike Fegley mike.fegley@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 12, 2008 06:04 PM, CST
Ray,
Thinking of you, Julie and the boys. Keep on fighting! You have incredible strength! Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you pain-free days.
Stacy Bedsole
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 12, 2008 04:13 PM, CST
Hello Ray,
It was great seeing you during one of your recent visits to the hotel. Happy be-lated birthday my fellow November friend. I didn’t realize they were so close as mine was 11/10. Prayers continue to fill the air for you and your family.
Kevin James kevin.james@ihg.com
Atlanta, GA
United States
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 12, 2008 03:40 PM, CST
Hi Ray, just want you to know that I miss you here at work! It’s just not the same without our brainstorming strategy meetings! Know that I have not stopped thinking and praying for you. You are truly a wonderful person, incredibly missed, and I hope to see you again very soon. Warm regards to you and your family. All the best, Karyn
Karyn Sarago karyn.sarago@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 12, 2008 12:30 PM, CST
Hi Ray and Julie, This is Patty Strazzulla from the Crowne Plaza in Cromwell CT. Please let Ray know how much we appreciated him always being there for us here in CT. Without him our jobs would have been a lot harder. We are all keeping your whole family in our prayers.
God bless you all,
Patty
Patty Strazzulla pstrazzulla@shanercorp.com
Cromwell, CT
United States
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 12, 2008 12:13 PM, CST
Dear Ray:
Cyndy and I have not stopped thinking of you and praying for you. I am sure you realize we all face these moments in our lives. Our human weaknesses are a reminder that always the Master is in charge and His love will never fail us. We must surrender ourselves into His hands with full trust.
In addition to our constant prayers for your healing, Cyn and I pray that God grants you peace and understanding, and protects you from fear. Whether your life ends in 2008 or 2038, there is no doubt your destiny will be eternity in the New Jerusalem with Jesus Christ. You are a truly wonderful human being. Those who know you best love you most. Though not one to talk much about religion, your actions in life have consistently embraced the most essential teachings of Christ: you possess a deep love for God and for your fellow inhabitants of earth. Your devotion to Julie, James and John and all of us fulfills God’s will that we each live a holy life. Such tireless and selfless love and devotion is divine. No father is closer to his wife and sons than you are. Not only do we admire you; Our Lord does too. You are highly favored by God. A place has been made for you with Him in the New Jerusalem.
One fundamental fact was made manifest, tangible, and undeniable to Christ’s apostles and disciples 2,000 years ago. They learned that the spirit is divine. Earthly death is an illusion. Our real life begins after death. This eternal spiritual life is what our entire earthly existence is all about. His apostles and disciples, as they witnessed Christ absorb brutal beatings, and crucifixion (his body ripped, torn, stabbed and nailed to the cross), could not see beyond the human horrors of what their eyes witnessed. Fear and doom overwhelmed them. Even though they had witnessed Christ restore the living spirit to others in death, this time it was Christ who had been killed. Fear and doom overwhelmed them. Even when he appeared before His apostles that first Easter, they could not believe their eyes. They had to touch Him, listen to Him, watch Him eat. Ultimately, more than 500 “Christians” witnessed His Resurrection and the Ascension. They were given the realization that mankind is here on earth to prepare for our second birth into our new life with Christ. This is the ultimate Truth proven by Christ in His Resurrection.
Armed with this knowledge, these early Christians devoted their lives to spreading this Truth to all mankind; they experienced more horrors and peacefully accepted martyrdom for the cause of Christ. The ultimate Truth had set them free. This was the source of their confidence and strength.
Cyndy and I pray for your healing. How hard we all pray for your healing! But here’s an amazing discovery I’ve made at this late date. Jesus Christ is close to each of us. His Grace is yours. It was the source of St. Paul’s courage and St. Peter’s courage as they faced death with confidence, calm, and serenity. They had seen the risen Christ. They knew the great Truth. You are His. In your prayers, surrender yourself to Jesus Christ. Accept Him. Let Him fill you with his Holy Spirit. His Grace. Let Christ commune with your Spirit. Surrender to God’s will, while also praying for His healing power. Confess your love for Him. Embrace His love, reciprocate, and your existence will be filled with a new meaning.
You have probably already done all of this. Forgive my presumptuousness. Here is one final request. If you are looking for scripture to guide you, a suggestion is the Gospel by St. John, the fourth book of the New Testament. Please read Chapter 21 and 22 of the Book of Revelation written by St. John when he was a very old man, the only Apostle who Jesus protected from a martyr’s death.
The 23rd Psalm you know well. But also read the 22nd Psalm. Jesus spoke the 22nd Psalm from the Cross, words written by King David 1000 years before Christ’s birth. Also the great prophecy of Isaiah 53.
Ray, I make these suggestions because I pray for your peace of mind and spirit. Nothing is impossible with Christ. Trust in His love, His wisdom, and His will. Amid all that you and Julie are going through, Jesus Christ will perform miracles beyond our understanding.
Your faith is no doubt far stronger than mine. Again, my suggestions are presumptuous. Please forgive me. At risk of presumptuousness, these thoughts are shared with you.
Thanks for allowing all of this to be said.
Your Friend,
Jock
john scott jws1947@msn.com
Alexandria, LA
United States
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 07:04 PM, CST
Ray, happy belated birthday from your friends at the CP Ravinia! You could not have picked a better time to be away from the industry and we all look forward to your comeback. I hope you will stay positive through what I know is a difficult time for you and your family. Please know that all of us are praying for all of you and do not hesitate to let me know if we can assist you or the family in any way. All the best for a joyous Thanksgiving and we look forward to hearing from you and your family on how you are progressing.
Craig and the Ravinia Team
Craig Hillyard chillyard@cpravinia.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 06:40 PM, CST
Hey there Ray and Julie,
Happy Belated Birthday…………….I didn’t know your Big Day was so close to my Mom’s!!! Very wonderful, intelligent and loving people were born the first part of November. Boy, did you need a fire extinquisher to blow out out that Birthday candle????? Tee! Hee!
We miss you and are so very happy that you have taken some time to REALLY spend time with your immediate family. Look around you and give Thanks everyday for the little things……a bright sunshine, beautiful fall foliage, full moon, deer, birds, a simple touch. I think Julie needs a full spa day……..
Anyway, more seriously Ray, you are such a great MENTOR. I have learned so much from you and will continue to do so. You are a MASTER at turning a room of negative people TOTALLY around to your way of thinking with a positive attitude. We continue to work hard out here for you and know you will have the strength to continue. In the meantime, I send you good angels.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 06:08 PM, CST
Happy Birthday, Ray!
Since I entered the hospitality industry 5 years ago, you have always been instrumental in both my development and enthusiasm for our industry. You are an amazing leader. Once again, your courage and strength are a huge influence on me. You are continually in my thoughts and prayers as well as with the entire team here in Irvine.
Stay strong and God bless!
Chris DeDonato chris.dedonato@ihg.com
Irvine, CA
United States
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 04:05 PM, CST
Hi Ray,
I am so happy that you were able to celebrate your birthday and to see so many friends. You have been through so much pain it is nice that you have now received some pleasure. You have many people that love you!! Now I do not know you well but I am glad that I had the opportunituy to work with you a couple of times and experience what a nice guy that you are. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife Julie!!
Blessings,
Denise
Denise Halliwell dhalliwell@cp-sandiego.com
San Diego, CA
United States
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 03:44 PM, CST
Hi Ray Ray,
Happy Belated Birthday!! I am always thinking of you and sending healing thoughts your way!
Love, Anne
Anne Roth anne.roth@ihg.com
Hagerstown, MD
Uganda
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 01:28 PM, CST
Ray and family,
We wish you the very best during this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Your friends at the Crowne Plaza Orlando Universal.
Scott Tripoli
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 01:18 PM, CST
Julie,
Thanks so much for the update. Sorry to hear he’s having so much pain lately. Glad to hear at the moment he’s snoring away… sounds like you do need a nap. You’re a saint for all you do. Please give him my best and let him know we’re all here for him!
Thanks!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 12:36 PM, CST
Hi Ray and Julie! Greetings from San Diego! We have just a touch of fall in the air, so to us, that means it is only 75 instead of 80….We are all thinking of you and praying for you! Hoping you are feeling better! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family and I hope to see you soon.
Cami Beck
CP San Diego
Cami Beck cbeck@cp-sandiego.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 12:26 PM, CST
Julie,
Thanks for this update. That is a good sign if Ray is snoring. Tell him to snore all he wants-hee hee hee. You certainly are a strong woman holding up the fort. You have a wonderful support system all around the world too. We are flowing in many prayers for Ray to get better asap. Now, you get some rest too. Ray may surprise you for another walk to look for dear today.
I’m glad he is having a good birthday celebration with friends and family while looking forward to Thanksgiving too.
God Bless,
Deborah Gardner
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 12:04 PM, CST
Ray-
Excited about sales training in Miami. All of my thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay tough!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 11:58 AM, CST
Hi Ray,
Happy belated birthday, keep that Scorpio mindset. You are in my prayers.Christine
Christine Mazzoli
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:59 AM, CST
Hi Ray,
Just wanted you to know that we’re thinking of you. You’re a wonderful person and a true pleasure to know. Keep up your strength. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Partnership — Irene, David A. Rick, David L., and Jim.
Irene Tee
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:30 AM, CST
Ray, your team in Jacksonville sends their love and prayers! I personally miss your wonderful communication and brilliant sales leadership! I am looking forward to the updates from the holidays, it sounds like you have a wonderful family. Stay strong. JD
Janice Dailey
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:19 AM, CST
Ray,
Happy Birthday! Since moving to NY, I have not written you however, I wanted you to know that I think of you daily. Your have been such an asset to the organization and I value our time working together in Atlanta. All the best with everything you are going thru.
We will keep the thoughts and prayers going from the NE.
Hugh Anderson
Hugh Anderson hugh.anderson@ihg.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:16 AM, CST
Ray–Please know that everyone here on “the rock” is pulling for you. We miss all of your efforts and the huge, positive impact that you make for all of us. Most of all, we just miss YOU!!! –Your pals at CPHHIBR
Joe Kramer joe.kramer@ihg.com
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:14 AM, CST
Happy Belated Birthday from all your friends at the Crowne Plaza in Greenville, SC!!! Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, Julie and your entire family. You work so hard for all of us, it’s time to truly take the time to take care of YOU!
Allison Roberts aroberts@cpgreenville.com
Greenville, SC
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:11 AM, CST
Ray and Julie,
It was so good to see both of you at Ravinia on Friday – how nice that it worked out for so many people to see you at the pot-luck and celebrate your birthday at the same time. You are all in my daily prayers!
Brenda Solley
Brenda Solley
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2008 10:07 AM, CST
Ray,
Happy Belated Birthday,
I just wanted to drop you line and wish you the very best I am pulling for you. Because of you I make sure I wear a tie everytime I go to our call centers. Keep up the good fight. John Stowell
john stowell
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 03:10 PM, CST
Hi Ray and Julie,
We were all so glad you could join us for the holiday potluck. It was also nice we could celebrate Ray’s birthday (Julie, thanks for the wdonerful cake!).
You all haven’t left my thoughts and prayers! I think of you all often, Jen
Jen Franklin
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 02:00 PM, CST
HI Ray and Julie,
A belated Happy Birthday Ray. It is truly beautiful outside and Fall has come into her own. As for loving to rake….weeeelllll, you know there is nothing I wouldn’t do for you…but….:))))
My prayers and thoughts are with you as you know, both of you. Can you tell me Ray if you are tired of hearing the same country music sent to you months ago. If you need a new supply – allow me to be your DJ (I can’t believe I am admitting my love of country music on a guestbook)!!!!
Prayers to you, Julie and the boys….we are all pulling for you and miss you!
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 11:35 AM, CST
Happy Belated Birthday! I’m glad it was a good day for you guys. Derry and I are at the ranch (finally) trying to figure out how the world is going to be with the Obama. I went to a nice Bible Study yesterday and we all prayed for the Shepard family. These girls are all Baptist, so they love to have a Catholic explain to them all or our stuff! We also took a nice trail ride (my friend loves horses…) and then settled in to figure out what the Bible says about times of crisis and how you are supposed to pray. Kind of tough to pray for God’s will, but that’s what we came up with -which is what I am doing. You guys take care and keep us posted. We loveyou all! Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 10:32 AM, CST
Hi Ray and Julie,
Glad to hear you got out for a bit and I hope the wether holds for the ride. I am a bit jealoues about the fall color. I do miss the fall colors from New England…it just is not the same here in Oregon. I hope you get the pain under control soon and as always you are both in my prayers!
Bev
Beverly Meehan beverly.meehan@hilton.com
Lake Oswego, OR
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 08:46 AM, CST
Good morning, Julie and Ray and the boys! The party yesterday sounded like alot of fun, you had quite a crowd there at the house. I know Ray enjoyed it and everyone loved seeing him. I wish we could have been there. We’re jealous of the Fall colors you are enjoying in Peachtree City. Our nights are finally getting cool enough here to turn some leaves to different colors. I took Mom riding yesterday and there are barely hints of color in the trees. We had another busy weekend(my excuse for not cleaning house). Jock had another nice book signing on Saturday. We can’t wait to get to Peachtree City for Thanksginivg. Love, Cyn
Cynthia SCOTT
Alexandria, LA
United States
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 08:15 AM, CST
Ray,
Happy belated birthday! Hope the party yesterday was fun. Glad you got into the office to enjoy the Thanksgiving pot luck, I know everyone was glad you were there. Hope it’s a good week for you and you get your pain under control. You’re on my mind everyday. Hang in the Ray, we’re all pulling for you!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 08:00 AM, CST
Happy Birthday to one of my favorite people! So sorry to hear about the pain and the leave of absense. We will miss you dearly, but at least will be able to stay in touch. You need to concentrate on you and you only for a time. Let us know if there is anything you need aside from the prayers and best wishes.
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 10, 2008 07:27 AM, CST
Good morning Julie and Ray,
Belated happy birthday Ray. Mike and I were thinking of you all day and hope you had a very Happy birthday.
We were raking leaves all day and stuffing them into bags. Last week we put out 6 bags of leaves and this week we have 8 bags at the curb. Mike cuts them up with his lawn mower and then we can get more in the bag. It is a two people job! And it has turned cold here. This am it is 27 and going to 44.
Have a good day and hope its not too cold to ride on the golf cart. I drove one on Saturday at the granite plant. It was fun!
Love & prayers,
Sandy & Mike
Sandy Funkey
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 09, 2008 11:23 PM, CST
Happy Birthday Ray!
Gosh I wish I would have gotten a call in today but keep your eye on the mailbox! I wish I could be there to give you a big hug (and do some leaf-raking!)
Best wishes and much love, Liz
elizabeth scott
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 09, 2008 10:35 PM, CST
Ray,
We’re sending birthday wishes your way. Hope you got to eat a big piece of cake!
The LSU game was a big cliff hanger. At least we gave them a run for their money. The noise in the stadium was unbelieveable. The traffic was unbelieveable too.
We love you! Your Cajun Cousins! (Hal and Kathy)
hal burge
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 09, 2008 09:37 PM, CST
Happy Birthday, Ray!!
Wishing you pain-free days, filled with lots of sunshine, love, laughter and warms hugs. Hugs to Julie, too!!!
Charlene Tierney
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 09, 2008 09:09 PM, CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Presents are still on their way!
BOO about the pain .. and boo, for you, about the leave of absence, Ray, but it is needed so you can concentrate on HEALTH and WELLNESS.
Julie – share the recipes with us.
Sending love from schvitzy Cancun (at FICP), Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 09, 2008 07:00 PM, CST
Hi Ray,
I’ve been keeping up on your progress through IHG friends, but finally got the information for your site. Since I left IHG, you have been on my mind often. I use many of the things you’ve taught me everyday. I like my new hotel family, but still miss my old friends like you. I have no one to have those stimulating discussions with anymore! I’ll bet the co-op meetings go much more smoothly without me. They probably finish in half the time. I am glad to hear that you are fighting the fight. Don’t give up or give in…I know you can do it. Take it one day at a time and draw near to God…he will draw near to you.
Julie, we’ve met only once or twice, but I feel like I know you and your family well. I’ve heard some great stories over the past ten years that Ray and I have known each other. There is no one that can challenge me to think like he can. I know I am a better person because of it. He means a great deal to me. I am in Dallas and would be honored if there is ever anything I can do for you and your family.
I’ll be checking in again soon.
Sincerely,
Robin Farrell
Robin Farrell robin.farrell@hyatt.com
Flower Mound, TX
United States
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 06:06 PM, CST
Nothing like Thanksgiving every/any day! Enjoy more turkey and goodies for all of us, then we can join you (even virtually) on Thanksgiving day.
Keep up the incredibly great fight, both of you! Deborah
Deborah Shepard
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 06:01 PM, CST
Dear Ray and Julie: We are a little short of news around here. We just learned that Natalie and Michael may be moving home next month due to big changes they may make on the Oklahoma job.
Cyndy and I are so eager to visit with you all at Thanksgiving…wish it was now. I hope the presentation went well this morning. I have been grading book reports most of the afternoon…two classes this morning. So a long quiet day. I have to attend a meeting in 20 minutes so I’ll check back later.
I understand there is a birthday party Sunday. Save me some cake…a big piece please.
I want you to know that Radio Maria is praying for you with its listeners regularly every day. Keep plugging. We love you guys and can’t wait to see you…Jock
john scott jws1947@msn.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 02:21 PM, CST
Hi Ray!
I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you and that you and your family are definitely in my prayers! You are incredibly strong and I know you are going to beat this!
Kiki
Kristin Lundquist
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 01:13 PM, CST
Ray,
Kudos on your IAHI presentation. When I heard you were presenting, I thought what the heck is he doing??…he needs to take care of himself! But, you’re the judge. Do whatever you need to do to keep your mind and body sharp!
All the best my man!!
Robert Radomski
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 12:36 PM, CST
Ray, so good to hear some quality time with you today. As always when you present I learn something from you. Take care of yourself, get some rest and don’t push youself.
Julie, you are amazing…it was really great to see you today too. Make sure you are getting some rest too ok?
Love to you both, see you tomorrow…
stacie day
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 11:45 AM, CST
Hi Ray and Ju, I’m sitting here eating Ezekial bread and purple grapes and thinking about what you all have done to my culinary habits. They’re actually both delicious. Regular bread now tastes like hay to me and green grapes are bitter! I’m glad to know that Ray is at work this morning, I wish I weren’t—I can’t get rid of this hay fever attack. I know everyone I talk too goes straight home to disinfect. I have already had it 10 days and Jock doesn’t have it so I’m obviously not contageous. Although… Elizabeth came down with it the day after I talked to her in San Francisco…hmmmm. I fully support your decision to do more Temodor it’s the only one that has’t had a negative effect. I had a good visit with Mom last night, we went through the mail and watched FOX. She looks good and is very happy. I’ll be back over there tonight to pay the sitters and maybe we’ll see if she wants to go to dinner. Monday night we went to Shoney’s and she ate a big salad, a plate off the hot line and 2 desserts! You can’t complain about her appetite! Here comes an unscheduled patient…I’ll be right back. Lve, Cyn
Cynthia SCOTT
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 09:39 AM, CST
Kimmie and Derry here – nice to hear all that! We are just working and trying to imagine what it will be like to have an Obama in the White House…. little worried about how much of our own money we can keep after we work so hard for it….. and YIKES! Did you see the dress that Michelle had on….. Oh no! As someone on the news commented “she has a lava lamp on her body!” – this should be fun! Ray – take care and keep up the positive thoughts. I am addicted to carrot juice with celery and tomato. It’s so good. Always thinking of you guys! Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 09:30 AM, CST
Oooh a cane .. how distinguished! Maybe a pipe (tobacco-less) to add to your air of distinguished.
Most of all, am thrilled the pill and cream are helping.
I truly do know how frustrating it is to ‘not be yourself’ – and I send you energy – mental and physical – to help you get through this.
Julie – take care of you too!
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 08:49 AM, CST
Ray,
Good to hear about the miracle pill. I will pray that it works quickly because that is what it’s supposed to do.
Wishing another good day. All my love,
Deborah Gardner
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 08:24 AM, CST
Ray,
All good thoughts your way.
Carol Gorham
Orlando, FL
United States
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 07:39 AM, CST
Hang in there Ray, We continue to pray for you and send them good vibes!
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 06, 2008 06:17 AM, CST
Hi Ray,
Last time I saw this, you were having a seizure. I see now you’re eating and have a lot of great care. Hope you’re feeling better. I’m praying for you and sending you happy thoughts. Hang in there!
Katherine Markham
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 04, 2008 04:12 PM, CST
Julie,
Thanks for the updates. Though we haven’t met I feel I know you well. Many thanks for the great care you’re giving Ray. So glad you’re there for him. It was great to hear his sons are there now to help out as well. I can imagine how much Ray loves having all the family there.
Ray, hang in there tough guy. I’m convinced you’re going to beat this thing. You inspire us all everyday! My thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 04, 2008 02:44 PM, CST
Ray and Julie, so glad ya’ll got past the seizure. I’m glad James was there to help out. Hope you are feeling better, Ray. And what a surprise to find out what a baby you are…only 56. I just assumed you were the same mature age as Julie and me. Good thing you have someone so ‘mature’ to take care of you even though she can’t type.
Voting takes place at the schools so we are off today. Yea! Time to go Christmas shopping at Target! Take care of both of you andd I pray for you to feel good as much of the day as possible, Ray. Love, Patty
Patty Scott pattybscott@gmail.com
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 03, 2008 11:20 AM, CST
Ray; I hope and pray for you, knowing what you are truly going through. Elaine told me about your caring site and I wanted to pass on my wishes for a speedy recovery. Hope to see you soon!
Kirk Shearer
San Diego, CA
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 03, 2008 09:03 AM, CST
Hey Ray! It was good to hear your voice yesterday!! I know you are hanging in there, and good for you for getting some chocolate! I know you know I am excited you also ate some turkey and dressing!
Stacey G and I are going to come down there this Sunday! We wouldn’t miss a chance to watch you grow old or really to eat cake and ice cream. BUT, no SALES SUMMIT or work talk while we are there!! It is a day to celebrate!
Rest and take it easy when you can!
stacie day
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 03, 2008 07:51 AM, CST
Julie and Ray-
Thinking about you today and everyday. Hang tough.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 09:56 PM, CST
Glad to hear that Turkey and Dressing, green beens, tasted wonderful. I was so worried last night but I know that the angels are with us. You are so very special Julie. Thanks so much for all that you are doing. I know it’s a very hard time for all of us because we do support all of Ray’s efforts.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 07:40 PM, CST
Ray/Julie, so glad your boys are with you to help you through this tough time. Hopefully Emory was able to give Ray some relief for the effects of the brain radiation. Hang in there and know there are lots of prayers coming your way.
Susan
Susan Beadle
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 06:46 PM, CST
Julie & James – Thanks so much for posting. I am so sorry to hear of the seizures. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers – every day. Please tell Ray we say hello from Kansas City. I hope he enjoyes those chocolate chips & carrot juice – hopefully not at the same time. We wish we could be there for the birthday party.
Love,
Michael
Michael Funkey
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 05:47 PM, CST
Thanks again Julie for all the updates. Extra prayers and support are coming your way today! Hang in!
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 01:11 PM, CST
Julie,
You are doing a beautiful job keeping eveyone updated. I know I really appreciate all your typing. I must get it as I’m the same era as you too. So, keep typing away.
Ray, I’m praying for you my dear friend. You are young, strong and a great mentor to us all. Hang in there!
God Bless,
Deborah Gardner
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 11:35 AM, CST
Dear Ray & Family:
We are sorry to hear of continued complications. You are in our Prayers today also.
Kris & Tom
tom gale tom.gale@ihg.com
racine, WI
United States
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 09:40 AM, CST
Thinking of you…pls stay strong.
Alyssa
alyssa smythe
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 09:05 AM, CST
We are praying for both of you. So sorry to hear the bad news. We will keep you in our hearts and prayers.
Carlos and Monica
Carlos Quinones
Atlanta, GA
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 08:37 AM, CST
Julie and Ray, sorry to hear the news about the seizure. You guys have been through so much!! I’m not usually at a loss for words but feel that way now. I admire you two so much for your love for each other, your strength, your willingness to constantly fight whatever comes up and most of all your faith. All I can say is that I will join all of your other friends in praying for your well being.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 08:13 AM, CST
On this Fall morning, prayers are being sent to Atlanta for Ray .. and hope that today is a much better day.
Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 07:54 AM, CST
Julie,
How is Ray doing this morning? You all remain in our prayers. I know how head strong Ray is and I know he can beat this. Please keep us posted when you can.
Gina LaBarre
Gina LaBarre gina.labarre@ihg.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 02, 2008 06:08 AM, CST
Our prayers are with you. I couldn’t agree more with the comment that your health is all that matters. Ray is great at what he does. We want him healthy first, at work second! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Daniel Nelson
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 01, 2008 08:45 PM, CDT
Thank you Julie for keeping us up to date.
I was very worried last week as I had tried to contact you several times. Please know that you are in ALL of our prayers and we know you can beat this thing. We need you out here Ray and learn from you even more now.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 01, 2008 08:44 PM, CDT
Just saw the other note about the seizure. Damn.
Sending prayers and strength.
Let us know.
Take care of you, Julie, and Ray – get through this.
Love again and always – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 01, 2008 08:43 PM, CDT
Julie – thanks for letting us all know. What hell this is – thinking you are doing well and then BOOM! it gets bad again. From your note, I wasn’t sure if Ray was in fact on diff. meds and feeling better .. in the hospital or at home .. and how he was feeling.
Sending energy to you BOTH for some better days again. Ray: work is important and I so ‘get’ that it keeps your mind off feeling lousy. When you can’t work, give in to it and stop ..just STOP and feel better.
YOU and your health are all that matter. Got it?!
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, OCTOBER 28, 2008 12:30 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I figured out how to use this…can you believe we run an Internet Co? It’s ironic, I know.
Ray, it was so nice to hear your voice last week. I’m glad we talked and I learned what was going on. When I didn’t see you at the last tradeshow, I thought it was odd. You sound great and it’s obvious your faith is strong. I see you have great support from friends, co-workers and family. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Glad you’re keeping busy with work. To that end…I’m planning to send you a proposal and forgot to ask if you’re working with MMG for Ad placement. I have a call into them, just in case.
Thanks for including me in your guest book. I’ll check in with you again this way!
Take Care!
Katherine
Katherine Markham katherinem@conventionplanit.com
Gaithersburg, MD
United States
TUESDAY, OCTOBER 28, 2008 11:41 AM, CDT
Mornin Uncle Ray,
Just thinking of you and hoping that your day has gotten off to a good, pain-free start. Thinking of you and Julie and the boys all the time! I’ll work on the carrot juice!Much love, Liz
elizabeth scott
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 10:23 PM, CDT
Ray,
If carrot juice allows me to sleep more, I’m going to down it-hee hee hee. I’m so glad you are feeling better. You are such an inspiration to all of us. I admire your strength and courage throughout this entire process. I’m very proud of you.
God Bless,
Deborah Gardner
Phoenix, AZ
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 09:52 PM, CDT
Hey Uncle Ray, glad to hear you’ve had a good week healthwise! Keep up the good work. Lots of prayers and love from Chicago…Love, Mike and Katie
Katie Funkey Skoglund
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 06:29 PM, CDT
Ray, you are too funny! Why are you sleeping on weekends? Why do any of us try to recover on the weekends we are off– after all the stress of budget changes and business declines, no less our own portfolios going into “who said you’d ever retire”-land…
SO, no carrot juice for me, yet; but I love the weekends where 8 hours of sleep is a welcome surprise to the normal 4-5!
You are definitely working hard, not for us to say “too hard”- you be the judge. Rest up and keep the faith!
Deborah Shepard
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 11:27 AM, CDT
I am still reading through the Hallelujah diet – I am now addicted to carrot juice – I like carrot, tomato, and celery, all together. I love this way of eating, and it’s so easy to do! Glad to hear you are still doing well – let’s all pray for November 4th – More later. Kimmie & Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 09:34 AM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie: Enjoyed your new entry…Cyn had told me some of those things. Now I understand it even better. Cyn and I have been out of town so much on weekends that the lawn, dogs, etc all are neglected. Saturday we drove to Lafayette for a book show at Barnes and Noble; we had lunch with ancient friends that date back to junior high/high school days. Then on Sunday after getting the Scripture study organized, we took off for Shreveport at 9 am in order to make an 11 am Mass at my cousin’s church…you know Father Pike Thomas. Sid (Pike’s sister) and John McDaniel went with us. So beautiful…Pike is a very special priest, So many spititual and loving extra touches to the service, the musical selections so moving, Pike’s homolies never fail to absorb, teach and inspire, and he does the eucharist more beautifully than any priest I have ever witnessed. And this was a typical service. Just a dynamic minister.
We went to lunch afterwards at a private dining club called the Cambridge House in an old mansion on Fairfield avenue. Lots of talk, fun and lots of eating. So we had a great time. Then we took a scenic route out of town then finally jumped back on the interstate and came home.
So the weekend was not very productive…the clothes still need ironing, the yard needs mowing, kitchen needs mopping…otherwise a very nice weekend. We look forward to seeing you two for Thanksgiving….the dogs say hello. Love and kisses to all of you, Jock Scott
john scott
Alexandria, LA
United States
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 09:08 AM, CDT
Ray~
I am so pleased to hear that you are feeling better and in good spirits. Hopefully, these pills will eliminate the arm pain completely. Thinking of you often!!!
Charlene
Charlene Tierney charlene.tierney@ihg.com
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 08:54 AM, CDT
Ray and Julie,
You are in my prayers every night. Keep up the fight! Can’t wait to see you in Miami in January!!!
JJ DeBrosse
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 08:18 AM, CDT
Dear Ray,
Good to hear you are feeling better. Keep up the good fight. All the best!
Carol Gorham
Orlando, FL
United States
MONDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2008 06:40 AM, CDT
Ray, I haven’t written in a while but glad to hear that your pain is reduced and you’re feeling better. With all that you have put your body through, I’m not surprised you are tired…last time I checked you were not the Everready bunny. Keep up the fight. Keep the faith. And, we’ll keep our prayers coming.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26, 2008 08:55 PM, CDT
SUCH good news! And the sleeping, Ray, is because your body is on some different meds and they just do that. AND it sounds like you are keeping up the same schedule you did before you were sick .. so .. my dear, as has been said to me, no wonder you are pooped on weekends!
The news is so good. Keep going in this direction.
Love to you and Julie.
Joan Eisenstodt
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26, 2008 08:32 PM, CDT
Ray,
Glad to hear it was a productive week for you. Having lunch with Mike Hartnett tomorrow at CP Burlingame. I’ll tell him you said hello and how all is progressing. I sent him the link to this site so he could keep up with you as well. Have a nother great week and my prayers are with you for sure. Go get ’em!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26, 2008 07:34 PM, CDT
Ray, I think of you often. Mike said he’s seen you in the office a couple of weeks ago following your radiation. I’m so sorry I missed you! You sound terrific and I’m very glad for that. I’ll be praying and hoping that the steroid pills work well on your arm pain and that the chemo does it’s job as well. Best to you and Julie.
Susan Beadle
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 24, 2008 08:23 AM, CDT
Not sure how it got to be Friday – after a wonderful weather week – FALL! The most spectacular season .. and the cooler weather helps. Hoping your week, Ray, was great – that things are relatively ‘normal’ with how you feel and with work. Julie – hope you are feeling well and have less tension. Sending love for an uneventful and easy weekend – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 07:00 PM, CDT
Ray and Julie: Well you should have gotten the steroid shot by now….better I hope. Cyn and I took a day off on Saturday. We left here around noon. Beautiful day to explore. We passed through Leesville so Cyn could find a BIG bathroom. Did that at Mc Donald’s. Next stop was Hodges Gardens. We had the 2 dogs with us. They loved Hodges Gardens…so did we. The rental cabins are really nice and quaint with such beautiful settings and views on the lake at different spots. Peeked in all the windows. We stopped many times to enjoy the scenery and flowers and occasional piers and picnic areas. Ultimately we had a modest shopping spree at the gift shop…great sale and found very useful items perhaps as xmas presents. Fun to do.
Then we headed for Toledo Bend and found the place we’ve been members of for 25 years. It is in disrepair and a mess though a lovely location on the lake. We finally ended up at a place called Cypress Bend Resort…beautiful golf course along the water with lots of hills etc. Its an Audubon Trails Course and the hotel and restaurant was just perfect as we watched the sun set magnificently across Toledo Bend. We had seafood and white wine, explored the patios etc all around the hotel and even saw a little of the LSU game before we finally hit the road. Got home before midnight by taking the route back thru Natchitoches. LSU won the game as we pulled in the driveway.
Aren’t you jealous? We really had a truly lovely day in cool spectacular weather. Maybe we can get you guys into the Georgia mtns above Atlanta over thanksgiving. Actually just being a bum will be fun there too. Well its suppertime so I’m going to run. Love you guys>>>>Jock Scott
john scott jws1947@msn.com
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 04:28 PM, CDT
Ray,
What great news to start the week! Look forward to hearing more positive reports like this one! Have a great week!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 01:31 PM, CDT
Outstanding news Ray!!! Keep up the great attitude and keep up the fight!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 12:56 PM, CDT
Wow! Great news! I ordered the Hallelujah diet and a few other things from that web site… snack bars, lavendar soap, and something they call coffee. We will see what it tastes like! Thanks so much for introducing Derry and me to the vegan way. I can’t give up cheese, but Derry actually likes the rice milk! Wow! Take care and keep us posted. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 07:44 AM, CDT
That is FANTASTIC news…you go Ray Shepard !!
You are the Poster Man for the Power of Positive Thinking !!
Shawn and the rest of the crew at the Crowne Plaza Orlando Airport
Shawn Maxwell
Orlando, FL
United States
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 06:57 AM, CDT
Thank God for positive news. glad you are feeling better enough to work your hinney off as usual. Take care and keep up the positive attitiude!
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins
MONDAY, OCTOBER 20, 2008 06:39 AM, CDT
Ray,
That’s great news! Good luck with the new treatment! With your determination and positive attitude, I know you’re going to beat this!
Stacy Bedsole
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2008 10:37 PM, CDT
Hi Ray- It was great to read your good news tonight. I admire your strength and courage. I hope you have a great Doctors appointment tomorrow and get on those steriods! Please give my best to Julie, James and John. Love,
Michael
Michael Funkey
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2008 09:38 PM, CDT
Dear Ray & Julie,
I look forward to reading your entries, and I’m in awe of your positive attitude and drive to beat this “thing” no matter what. You are an inspiration, and I’m sure your outlook and determination is having a lot to do with your recovery. Every time I hear someone complain about the little things in their life and I think of all you’re going through, I don’t know whether to hit them, or cry.
I think about you often, and pray for your speedy recovery. Wishing you all good things…I’ll call when I’m in Atlanta next, and hope for a visit!
Karen Smith, Meetings Media
Karen Smith karen.smith@meetingsmedia.com
Fort Lauderdale, FL
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2008 09:13 PM, CDT
WOOOHOO!! A bright color to reflect the good news. WOW..this is so wonderful, Ray! I imagine we are all very happy to learn this. Keep it up .. and keep getting better. Just don’t work so much, ok?
With love and to health – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 17, 2008 01:13 AM, CDT
The sky in Seattle today was pretty grey but there were patches of this wonderful blue. From my hotel window, I could see the water and it was calming.
I hear you are working like crazy! It’s good and I hope that means you feel pretty good. Let us know!
Sending love and blue sky, Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 16, 2008 08:41 AM, CDT
Ray,
Hope all is well with you. Long time no hear. Hope that means you’re too busy at work to write. Keep up the good fight big guy!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 12, 2008 09:18 PM, CDT
Today, the sky was this color – and cloudless. The weather forecast called for ‘abundant sunshine’ and so it was.
I hope the same blue sky was over you and Julie, Ray – and that there will be good news soon.
Sending love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 10, 2008 10:30 PM, CDT
I’m going to pretend that the sky is a VERY dark blue .. since it’s late.
Haven’t seen or heard from you in more than a week .. and of course we all are anxious to know how you are .. and sending prayers and love and hope. ~~~ Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
TUESDAY, OCTOBER 07, 2008 02:24 PM, CDT
My little friend, Rylee, who is now cancer-free after a horrible time with leukemia, has the pumpkin backdrop on her page. It made me want to write in orange .. a cheery, fall color .. for you, Ray.
If you have not tried steamed pumpkin yet, do. It’s nutritious and yummy.
Sending love and hope, Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
MONDAY, OCTOBER 06, 2008 11:27 AM, CDT
Mornin Ray!
Just checking in from San Francisco and eager to let you know that I’m thinking of ya’ll all the time. You four have a steady stream of love comiing to you from the West Coast! Your pictures are pretty wild but I’m glad to know they took that halo OFF your head. I had a nice talk with Julie on Friday evening. Next time I’d love to say hello to you too! xoxo, Liz
elizabeth scott
San Francisco, CA
United States
MONDAY, OCTOBER 06, 2008 10:30 AM, CDT
Ray: I’ve never used one of these before. I’ve been reading your journal entries…the first hand accounts are so much better than Cyndy’s version. You sound great and busy. Great perseverance. Cyn and I had a big weekend in Baton Rouge…both grandsons were there. John’s sister in law’s wedding was the attraction. Kristin was maid of honor and Wyeth was ring bearer. Cyn and I were the babysitters for both Wyeth and William.
Natalie and Michael arrived in Lafayette by air on Friday for a different wedding there, so we met them at the airport to deliver Nat’s car to them and to take William with us to Baton Rouge. We then tookover Wyeth from the rehearsal dinner so we had both William and Wyeth back at the hotel. It was lots of fun with the two of them playing so beautifully. William follows Wyeth everywhere and is so entertained by him; Wyeth is the big brother and so protective, holds his hand as they explore the hotel…they play chase, play with toys together, lie side by side to watch a movie together etc…we ordered Chinese, great feast in the room. They spent the night with us…along with the two dogs from Alexandria (Hirsch, John’s giant lab, and Nelliebelle) until Wyeth woke up missing his mom and dad and told us: “I miss my family.” So we called his “family” and John came down from the 3rd floor and took him back to their room. He was back early to play with William and go down with us for breakfast.
Nat and Michael arrived Saturday afternoon and were in the next room to ours. Wyeth had to be dressed up in his tux so there was a rush to get him dressed and off with John for 4 pm…all rushed because running late and he wanted to keep playing with Wm. Any way, in the rush, we put him in his back seat car seat, then turned on the engine and A.C. That was our mistake. Turning on the engine automatically locks the doors but we didn’t know it. Wyeth was locked in the car, engine running and AC on but we were all locked out.
Panic ensued…John coaxing Wyeth to unlock his car seat, calling pop a lock, the hotel calling emergency numbers etc…15 minutes later Wyeth had finally extricated himself and opened the door so John took off to the wedding, we later joined them and all was well.
Another great night and everyone flew off in the morning, Cyn and I delivering each group to the airport. William and Nat also went to see Wyeth off. So much fun in the airport with the 2 boys exploring everything…the shops etc. Cyn gave Wyeth a doctor’s coat and stethoscope. So we put them on the plane with big hugs and kisses. John tells me they have been much more home sick this year so this weekend was a welcome reprieve from the studies and the absence. A relief for all of us. A really precious weekend.
We returned to the hotel to pack up Nat and Michael and William, then another trip to the airport and more goodbyes. But no complaints here. Such a memorable few days,; we packed ourselves, the dogs and headed home. Church and a birthday party at a friend’s house followed. Exhausted, we fell into bed. Now back to the grind.
Cyn and I want to know when would be a good time to come to Atlanta. We can talk about it at MeMe’s birthday party. Deb just called; must run to court. I’ll check in again later…Jock
john scott
MONDAY, OCTOBER 06, 2008 09:26 AM, CDT
Hi, Ray and Julie, I loved this latest journal entry. Ray, you sound great and I know how much being back at work and able to go into the office means to you. Your pictures are spooky, I told you they’d make me faint and they did, it took 5 people to get me off the floor! I think you’re just trying to compete with Sarah Palin and her new, popular glasses! We had a great weekend with both of our grandchildren, I’ll try to send some pictures. I know you all have loved having James and John both there for the weekend. How was the golf game on Sunday? Can’t wait to see you and give you a squeeze and kiss! Love, Cyn
Cynthia SCOTT
Alexandria, LA
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 04, 2008 10:46 AM, CDT
Hey Ray,
I can’t even imagine what that would feel like. You are TRULY a survivor. Here I am at my nieces wedding in San Antonio staying at our CP San Antonio Riverwalk and sending you weekly reports! HA! Anyway met with the GM and the NEW DOS so lots to share. I hope you and Julie are enjoying this weekend together. Sending you lots of encouragement.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 10:57 AM, CDT
Ray,
You are so brave.
Your handling of this whole situation is nothing less than spectacular. So admirable.
– Still always keeping you in my prayers.
Love the halo 
Andrea Cook
CP – Edmonton
Andrea Cook
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 10:37 AM, CDT
Ray,
Hard to believe, but I think that is a good look for you:)!! Keep the great attitude!!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 10:23 AM, CDT
Hi Ray
I was thrilled to read your latest journal entires. And if anyone can pull off the helmet look…it is you and the smile is the cincher! May your continued news and good spirit continue to make the rest of smile along with you.
Bev
Beverly Meehan beverly.meehan@hilton.com
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 08:50 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I like the new look with the helmet- maybe it will start a new trend! It’s great to hear that you are feeling well- we’re all thinking of you down here in Hollywood.
Misty
Misty Polihronakis mpolihronakis@hotmail.com
Hollywood, FL
United States
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 08:43 AM, CDT
Great Look !!! I love the smile you have on your face…you are such an inspiration to us all. Keep working and we will all keep praying. Have you tried wheat grass….just heard about it…check it out. I met someone here in FL that grows it…www.drelichwheatgrass.com
All the best from all of us here at the Crowne Orlando Airport !!
Shawn
Shawn Maxwell
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 08:30 AM, CDT
WOO HOO FOR YOU!!!!! (Your get-up looks like the head gear for braces one of my classmates had…..)
You’d think with modern medicine, they wouldn’t still use something from the dungeons of the Spanish Inquisition….. Bizarre! Oh well, on you it looks good.
You look great in spite of your awful ordeal! Good to have you back in the trenches full time…… I know you’re glad to be there! Drink your carrot juice and have a fabulous weekend—hope you’re spending it at home.
Hugs and love,
MCL
Mary Catherine Lamza marycatherine.lamza@ihg.com
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 03, 2008 06:38 AM, CDT
Ray,
Great report. Glad all is going well. We are off to Tech this weekend for KRistina’s 21st birthday celebration. Hard to believe our baby is 21. Your baby will be 23 this month. There is a game against Western Kentucky too. Charles has his civil defence meeting so he will join us on Saturday. Beautiful weather. Make sure to make time to smell the flowers. They are probably THRILLED to have you back at work.
Love ya. Tina
Love all around
tina bonner
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 02, 2008 09:53 PM, CDT
Ray,
I hope you know what a smile you put on so many faces when you have news like that. We are all sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. With the downer that’s been gripping the country this past week, it has to take a back seat to the happiness you and Julie must be feeling and all your many friends that are pulling for you! Keep up the good work Ray!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 02, 2008 09:07 PM, CDT
Ray,
That is such GREAT news! You made my day! Keep it up as you deserve the best. I’m reaching thru this message with a big hug for you. Enjoy your weekend with blue skies all around you.
Cheers,
Deborah Gardner
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 02, 2008 08:58 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
It was wonderful to read your last entry Ray. I am happy to hear that you are feeling great after the last treatment. I really am simply in awe of you both.
Are you ready for new Country music yet…just give Anne and I a holla’ and we know what to send. Glad to see you are back working full time and doing what you so love to do. Just remember to please continue to take time for yourself and reaching out to those around you for help and support. We will all always be here for you.
Love,
Danielle
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 02, 2008 08:46 PM, CDT
This is the color the sky was over Denver today. Seeing your note, Ray, made me feel so good – that you are feeling well is such a gift.
Please continue .. and keep those photos coming.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 30, 2008 07:23 AM, CDT
I am leaving shortly for morning services for Rosh Hashanah. Last nite, at evening services, I said special prayers for you. This year, 5769, has good meaning .. and I took heart in it .. for both of us: as translated using the Hebrew words for the numbers, it means that it will, in the end, be a good year. The Rabbi repeated that a few times and I closed my eyes and asked that it be G-d’s will.
To a year of health, Ray! .. tho’ you are not Jewish, wishing you a sweet year seems appropriate. L’Shana Tova .. Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 03:54 PM, CDT
Julie and Ray, Cynburger keeps me updated on your situation. Your spirit and attitude seems so unbelievable. Could any of the rest of us face such a challenge so bravely? I’m afraid not. You’ve raised the bar to a considerable height. So glad you’re not suffering ill effects after that horrible halo thing. Ugh!! School is going along nicely and as I’m sure you’re enjoying, we’re having some nice fall days and nights at last. Stafford is 34 today..I can’t believe it!! Steele was in town Sat. for a golf tournament and that was fun. Love and kisses and prayers to ya’ll and John and James, too. Patty
Patty Scott pattybscott@gmail.com
Alexandria, LA
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 12:16 PM, CDT
Ray,
It is truly unbelievable what you have gone through. Your strength and emotional disposition are an inspiration to me.
We will continue to keep you and Julie in our prayers.
Gina
Gina LaBarre gina.labarre@ihg.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 11:56 AM, CDT
Congratulations Ray,
We will start calling you the BIONIC man pretty soon. You should write a book on all these procedures because I know you could educate alot of people that will face the same challenges that you and Julie have. I hope you received my little “care ” package and are listening to the Austin City Limits CD’s. So I know you mentioned the next treatments will be to stay at home and take the pills orally BUT then what? The angels do fine work and I am glad to see that they have broght in reinforcements. Keep the faith going and we all wish you and Julie the very best out here. You are in our daily prayers.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 11:49 AM, CDT
Ray, I was delighted to read your journal today and hear the great news. Continue your brave battle…you are an inspiration to so many. Enjoy the birds and the blue sky today…you deserve it!
Don/New Orleans
Don Zimmer
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 11:21 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Your spirit continues to amaze me! It was so very good to hear the news this morning. And you are a very brave man indeed.
Bev
Beverly Meehan
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 10:14 AM, CDT
Ray,
Glad to hear the proceedure went well and that you got through it! You are a fighter and will beat this crazy disease. You are in the CP Northshore’s prayers. Keep your spirits up, even through the toughest of times. You are an insipiration to many. Keep smiling!
Jennifer Fanara sales03@cpcns.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 10:09 AM, CDT
Good morning sunshine! You are totally amazing, I know I keep telling you that….but, WOW, how impressive you are Mr. S.! I totally freaked out last week during my MRI and they only put a helmet on my head…had to have 2 valium (just in case I drank a glass of wine too), you can never be unprepared! I was happy for 3 days straight….
You are my hero, I printed your picture off of your link here and have it taped to my computer…you give me strength to get through tough days. I pray that our prayers are giving you strength to continue to fight with all you’ve got my friend! You are a very loved man that means so much to so many people. Enjoy that gorgeous patio, I wish you a wonderful pain free day.
Lisa Barham lisa@hotelresources.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 09:47 AM, CDT
Good morning, Julie and Ray. I nearly fell out of my desk chair when Ray called me on the way back from Emory on Friday. Your spirit is divine, you had just had your head haloed and you were in a great mood on the phone! You didn’t need another hole in your head but you got it! Some of my sinus headaches make me want to open a hole there! I’m glad to hear that it has been healing well over the weekend with no complications. I love hearing about you sitting out in your beautiful garden; that’s a great place to heal and re-center. The butterflies are all there to cheer you both on. We can’t wait to see you all at Meme’s birthday! Could I ask you to clean up Pop-Pop’s workroom? Just teasing!!! God bless, Cyn
Cynthia SCOTT
Alexandria, LA
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 08:16 AM, CDT
You are constantly in my thoughts, Ray, and I marvel now, as I have always done, how you are always positive, no matter the situation. You are absolutely amazing! Dying to hear the stories from Julie! I’m sure they are too funny! When John came out of surgery, he was obsessed with a spoon! (??!!??) Hugs and love,
MCL
Mary Catherine Lamza marycatherine.lamza@ihg.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 07:58 AM, CDT
Ray….love your spirit – that is a huge part of your recovery as you know. Lots of prayers are flowing for you daily – and a few candles are also buring for you and Julie at my church. Continue to be you – it’s working!
Linda
Linda Montgomery
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 06:41 AM, CDT
So glad to hear the proceedure went well. I would be scared too with someone putting more holes in my head. Like I need anymore. Stay positive as we continue to pray for you to get through this!
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 28, 2008 09:34 PM, CDT
Ray,
After learning of your prepration for Friday, I have been thinking and praying for you so much. Sometimes fighting the most scariest moments in our life tells us just how strong we can be. You are amazing! It’s proven that your strength and courage can conquer all.
I’m glad you are home now enjoying your beautiful weekend. We are still over 100 degree days here in Phoenix-yuk!
Keep it up Ray! You are going to WIN!
Deborah Gardner
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 28, 2008 01:49 PM, CDT
Ray, glad to hear the brain procedure went well. I’m wondering if you will be a little smarter now????? Just a little levity, buddy. Rest up and we’ll continue our prayers.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 28, 2008 01:08 PM, CDT
Ray,
What great news to read to start my day! The process did sound really scary and so glad to hear it all turned out so well. You’re right that there are so many out here saying prayers for you and proof it does work! Glad you’re enjoying this great day and hope there are many more to come. I look forward to many more uplifting reports like this one! All the best from Texas!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 28, 2008 12:59 PM, CDT
Dear Ray,
Greetings from Manchester, England. Cindy and I arrived here this am (Sunday) to work for Barclays Capital and London 2012 (Olympic Organizing Committee), here on Monday, in Newcastle on Tuesday and the rest of the week in London.
You keep amazing us with you being you – already out enjoying the beauty of nature the day after your procedure! Glad to hear it. Your positive attitude and faith give all of us strength. We cannot wait to hear your stories about some of the things you did while on the heavy meds. Please know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Cindy & Lefty
Lefty Novotny
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 28, 2008 12:47 PM, CDT
A pretty blue to match the blue sky you are seeing. (Here in DC it’s cloudy on and off and during the off, the sky is lovely.)
You are remarkable, Ray! I admire your ability to find the good in all this – and to remain so positive. So glad you and Julie are managing this as best it can be managed.
Sending you love for a relaxing day – for a day of normalcy ..whatever the new normal is.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2008 01:13 PM, CDT
Ray,
Jerry and I are thinking of you today. Stay strong and know everything is going to be fine today.
Rest thru the weekend and wear that helmet as if you entered the boxing ring to fight the enemy-cancer.
All our love,
Deborah Gardner
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2008 10:35 AM, CDT
Ray and Julie,
The Mount of Olive Lutheran Church Choir in Mission Viejo, CA is full of prayer warriors and they are all (60 members) praying for you and a successful outcome to Ray’s treatment. God is good and he certainly hears our prayers!
Love and best wishes,
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill marilyn.atchue@ihg.com
Rancho Santa Margari, CA
United States
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2008 09:16 AM, CDT
Hi Ray! Just wanted to write and tell you I am thinking of you everyday and sending positive energy and lots of prayers.
You are an inspiration to me, fight the good fight.
Cami Beck cbeck@cp-sandiego.com
San Diego, CA
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2008 07:51 AM, CDT
Julie-
You are amazing. I only know you through what Ray has told me and your journal entries. Ray is a lucky man to have you by his side. Keep the positive attitude and know that we are all here pulling for you.
JJ DeBrosse
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2008 07:38 AM, CDT
Julie and Ray, sure hope everything goes as planned today. I search for the right words in these challenging times and come up with but a few….the love of family and friends is powerful medicine. If you combine that with your faith you can battle with the best of them. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 09:24 PM, CDT
Sounds good! I feed everything in sight – cats at the office, my hounds at home, livestock and my perfect horse Lucy at the ranch – they are all angels in my mind. All of those precious animals are surrounding Ray with their support! Kimmie
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 09:10 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
Wishing both of you tons of angels tomorrow. Take a moment and smell the crispness in the air, have a juiceman, continue watching the local wildlife as you are puckering up with those fresh lemons!
When you get back home you will have LOTS of ROI reports to sift over. Wishing you well.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 08:47 PM, CDT
Lots of love being sent .. lots of serenity .. lots of healing.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 12:44 PM, CDT
Good words to remember. We are praying for you Ray.
Daniel Nelson daniel.nelson@cprockville.com
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 12:31 PM, CDT
Kimmie and Derry here – thanks for the update! Take care and we are praying for you and the family. Just keep us posted! Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner
San Antonio, TX
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 10:42 AM, CDT
Ray, hang in there….keep fighting and we will keep praying!
Rosa Garza rosa.garza@jqh.com
San Antonio, TX
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 09:56 PM, CDT
Ray,
Never give up. We will defeat this. You are my hero.
Michael Joseph
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 08:49 PM, CDT
You know how to bring chills down the spine, my dear Ray. Your update is being shared with our team, and everyone is sending out HUGE hugs and positive thoughts. Deb
Deborah Shepard
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 05:02 PM, CDT
Damn.
Prayers of many sizes and kinds.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 03:50 PM, CDT
Ray, my family and I have you and Julie constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Josh adores his Julie!
Lynn Dorris lynn_dorris@yahoo.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 11:58 AM, CDT
Ray, your attitude and resolve are beautiful. You and Julie have shown such good faith and common sense throughout this entire ordeal. I’m in awe and so proud of both of you. We will all continue to pray and eat better in support of both of you. God Bless, Cyndy
Cynthia SCOTT
Alexandria, LA
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 11:16 AM, CDT
Ray,
I’m so disappointed to hear the latest news. I hope you know how many people are sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. We all pray that you beat this. I also know that God is going to take care of you and I’m thankful that you know and believe that as well. You’ve been such an inspiration to me and I know many others.
Hang in there my friend.
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
United States
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 10:41 AM, CDT
I know it is difficult right now. Keep praying and we will too. Prayer is by far the best we can do in addition to whatever course of treatment you decide.
The hotel is having our 1st fundraiser of the year for Relay for Life on November 14, a golf tournament here in Fort Myers. Our goal as a team here at Crowne Plaza Fort Myers is $6000.00 this year.
We will honor your continuing fight as we work to raise funds for more research and services. We love you Ray!
Joan Jenkins
Joan Jenkins jjenkins@cooperhotels.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 10:34 AM, CDT
Hello Ray, you and your family are definately in my prayers. As you know, Hurricane Ike hit Houston on Sept 13. We are mostly fine at our hotel but many have lost their homes or have been temporarily displaced due to damage. The upside to a hurricane is the amount of business that it brings. Houston is booming. I know your mind is in many places but I also know that you have your “working” cap on most of the time and thought you might appreciate an update on your Texas area. Again, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family Ray.
Debbie Hollier
Holiday Inn Select Houston/Crowne Plaza River Oaks
Debbie Hollier
Houston, TX
Uganda
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 10:31 AM, CDT
Ray,
This is not the expected news to hear but this is more reason to bring on our fighting spirits for you.
May the power of our prayer comfort and lift your fighting spirits too. And … may the heavens speed your recovery. We are thinking of you.
Deborah Gardner
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 10:12 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
It was good to hear from you. You haven’t heard from us because I was digesting your last entry and thinking what this all means to you. And after difficult news, how to best write to you. Sometimes I find it difficult to write when everyone can read my email. Some things are more personal than others. We talked to Cindy about something recently and she said that you were busy working. I think it is good to continue working. I found staying busy , a good remedy too. But now, as you said in your last entry, how are you going to proceed. Our church is called St. Paul’s. It is the Pauline Year. Big celebration for St. Paul so we are having a lot of speakers come in etc.. Last night I went to one on prayer. St. Paul said to pray unceasing…Huge believer in prayer. We discussed what prayer means to everyone and then concluded with around fifteen minutes of centering through prayer. Centering has been around for a long timebut we were just learning the method. During my fifteen minutes, I did not have a conversation with God ( which to many people prayer is) but rather a time with you and your healing. HOpefully, spirtually you could feel this. God is present all the time with us.
As you make decisions, sometimes difficult ones, like you said, Jesus is the rock. I know you will find comfort from him.
STay strong , physically and spirtually.
We think of you often.
Tina
Family update: Kristina is coming home this weekend. She turns 21 on the 7th of October. When I went out to visit her last for her sorority ‘s Parent’s weekend, she had made a chain ( like the one’s kids made to count the days off until Christmas) to count off the days until she turns 21. Her party is sort of last minute so we are going out the 4th to celebrate. She is having her own party at her roommate’s mountain house on the 11th. ( they have that weekend off from classes). I don’t think she wants parents at that party. Our weekends continue to remain full. I think she is coming this weekend so we can buy her some clothes!!! What else are parents good for?! She got accepted to the program at the University of Belgrano in Buenos Aires for next semester so she is excited and nervous!!! She has an Argentinian woman tutoring her in Spanish so she can learn the Argentinian dialect.
Charles is busy with Sailing now. Every weekend and after classes every day. He is in the midst of all his sea exams. The exams they give after his sea term. So far so good. He sails in Annapolis on the 18th so we are going to meet him there. Charles is going to motor over with Gene in his motor boat from Baltimore. I am going to DRIVE with the dog!!!!
Work is hectic. Medicare driving us crazy but besides that, all o.k. We won’t mention the stock market though…Crazy times.
Love all around.
tina bonner
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 10:08 AM, CDT
Good Morning Ray & Julie,
It was good to see your journal this morning when I got here. I have been thinking about you and saying my prayers for you. Your faith and determination are inspiring.
Beverly
Beverly Meehan beverly.meehan@hilton.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 09:58 AM, CDT
Ray, I never knew what “being on your knees in front of God” meant until 2 1/2 years ago when I was faced with the hardest struggle in my life. You just have to keep praying becuase the power of prayer is amazing and awe inspiring. I am at conference and last night at the reception I can’t tell you how many people came up to me to tell me they are praying for you and keeping you in their thoughts. You have so many friends in this company and industry…a testament to your dedication and friendship.
Keep up the fight and I will keep supporting you in every way possible.
Love,
stacie
stacie day
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 09:46 AM, CDT
Ray-
You have a lot of fight in you! Stay strong. Know that we are all thinking about you and wishing and praying for the best.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 09:41 AM, CDT
Hi Ray –
Just checking in. It was good to see your journal entry eventhough the news was not so great. I will keep praying for you. Give my best to Julie, James & John.
Love,
Michael
Michael Funkey mike.funkey@gt.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 09:37 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
There’s definitely power in prayer…and you have lots of friends who are praying for your health.
Jen Franklin
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24, 2008 09:33 AM, CDT
hi ray—
just wanted to let you know i was thinking of you and sending tons of positive thoughts and energy your way. keep your spirits up!
best…rebecca
Rebecca Plaut
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 23, 2008 11:24 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and your family and you are in my prayers. With your great attitude and God’s help you will win the fight. He will give you the power beyond normal to bear up.Take care.
Junice Bell junice.bell@ihg.com
Atlanta, GA
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, 2008 12:56 PM, CDT
Hi Ray Ray,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and Julie. We are all hoping that Plan B gives you the positive combination to fight this!
Stay strong and lean on us whenever you need to!
Love, Anne
Anne Roth anne.roth@ihg.com
Hagerstown, MD
United States
SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 20, 2008 05:43 PM, CDT
Beautiful blue sky today! Taught a class for UGa in Lawrenceville – a certificate program in meetings management. Had two neat women from IHG in the session – one who works with the owners assn. They were fabulous as were all the students.
Being so close, I apologize for not seeing you both – but it’s an in and out trip and I’m not close to your home.
Thinking about you .. hoping for some news this coming week – want it to be good/better .. know it’s not an easy time.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 19, 2008 01:26 PM, CDT
Hi, Ray and Julie, it’s your seeester-in-law, Cyndy. I know I’m bad about writing but I do talk to you all 5 times a day! I hate to hear the latest news but am delighted to see your high spirits and determination to beat this thing, Ray. We all know what faith and resolve you have. Attitude is a huge part of dealing with cancer and you’ve got the perfect attitude. I don’t believe the report anyway. You feel too good, sound too good and look too good! XXXOOO, Cyndy
Cynthia SCOTT
Alexandria, LA
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 18, 2008 01:37 PM, CDT
Kimmie and Derry here – I don’t know what we’ve been doing, but I haven’t posted a message in a while! We are at the ranch – dove season begins Saturday. It sounds like a war zone when the sun comes up! I hope dove are okay to eat – they are natural – and they have no perservatives or chemicals! I call them flying livers! We are going to try and go to Alexandria for Irma’s birthday – it would be fun just to get together! Take care and we of course are thinking and praying for all of the Shepards. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17, 2008 05:39 PM, CDT
Ray,
I was saddened to first hear about your condition last July. You are clearly an example of faith and strength. As discussed earlier today, life’s challenges only serve to make us better people and no doubt you are treating this immense challenge as such. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betty Schnaufer
Betty Schnaufer bschnaufer@mpiweb.org
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17, 2008 12:41 PM, CDT
Hi Ray:
Today we gave a big “TEAM WEST” Hug to you on our conference call. Pls know we are sending positive thoughts your way…stay strong.
Alyssa, MJ, Won, Kerri, Sherise, John, Ana & Rolisa
alyssa smythe
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17, 2008 10:52 AM, CDT
Ray,
Sorry to hear the latest news, but with your strength and determination none of us have any doubts about you beating this thing. We’ll keep thinking positive thoughts for you. You keep fighting and we’ll all be celebrating your recovery soon!
Best Wishes,
Justin
Justin Gammon
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17, 2008 05:45 AM, CDT
Ray and Julie,
Your courage, faith and determination is remarkable. Your strength rejuvinates me everyday. Prayer will take care of all the worries and decisions. Let go and let God and you will win the peace and the fight.
Hang in there as I pray for you and Julie and the boys everyday. All my love to you, family and your friends as you fight this fight. Always in my thoughts. God bless!
Lori Wilson Lowry lorenelowry@yahoo.com
Norfolk, VA
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:47 PM, CDT
Put off reading your message until now (5:45PM) as I hoped, like you and everyone else, to read some good news to close out the work day. Ray, we all marvel at how you can give out a huge dose of ‘yukky’ news and seem like you are smiling beneath it.
Your strong spirit rebounds not only you, but all of us. It probably makes us realize that being knee-deep in our favorite task (Market Tracker/ ’09 plans) is nothing compared to having our health. Keep it up, little bro!!
Deborah Shepard
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:38 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I may have left Crowne Plaza but I think of you often and you are always in my prayers. I admire your determined spirit. Keep up the fight knowing you have many friends who sincerely care.
Bev
Beverly Meehan beverly.meehan@hilton.com
Lake Oswego, OR
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 06:05 PM, CDT
Ray – Please know the Crowne Plaza Little Rock team is praying for you and your family daily. You are inspiring to us all.
Jeananne Hawking
Jeananne Hawking jhawking@sbcglobal.net
Little Rock, AR
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 03:01 PM, CDT
Dear, dear Ray,
We’re really saddened to hear today’s news. Of course the chemo doesn’t work.!Only poisons your system.The overwheming evidence is that trusting the medical route just does not lead to cures, it only subverts your body’s attempt to heal itself through nutrients. Drugs and radiation (MRIs create more cancer) are proven miserable failures.
We are praying that you will choose to help yourself with God’s way to heal. We love you and Julie, and are glad your spirits are up. That indefatigable will of yours could propel you to a much better quality of life and chance to heal the cancer by setting your focus on giving your body what it really needs to heal.
Hope you are not offended by our comments!
Much love and great blessings,
Tim & Anita
TimAnita Koch
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 02:12 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Just wanted you to know I am thinking about you daily.
My heart is with you.
Denise
Denise Gaines
34983, FL
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 12:35 PM, CDT
Hey Ray,
I just read your message from your latest results, just know, God has a plan and it just takes all of us and the doctor’s a while to figure it all out. They will because prayers work! We can all do our part by constantly asking for God to give the doctors the answers to heal you.
If there is anything else I can do for you, please let me know. I loved visiting with you last week, your strength amazes me. If you can wake up with a smile on your face every day facing what you have to face, I can certainly do the same. Our visit changed my outlook for the better!
Hang in there my friend!
Lisa Barham lisa@hotelresources.com
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 08:32 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I wish you all that you wish for yourself. Your positive sprirt is uplifting..keep it up.
Channa Perera (Crowne Plaza LAX)
Channa Perera
Los Angeles, CA
United States
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 08:20 AM, CDT
Ray,
All best wishes and good thoughts for a tough fight ahead of you. You can win.
Carol Gorham
Orlando, FL
United States
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 08:10 AM, CDT
Ray, like others have said, this is just another challenge…and we’ve faced many in our times together. I truly believe in the power of prayer, there is no way I would have gotten through losing Richie if I didn’t. Sometimes we just have to let go and put it all in God’s hands…there just sometimes is no other answer but that. I am thinking of you, Julie and the boys constantly and I hope you know that you have so many of us here in CP and at IHG praying for you and continuing to keep you in our prayers.
Love always,
Stacie
stacie day
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 08:06 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I’m so sorry the news wasn’t better…you are a fighter and with your great attitude, I know good things will come. You and your family are still in my thoughts and prayers, Jen
Jen Franklin
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 08:06 AM, CDT
Ray, true to form you are on to “Plan B”. The good news is that you have fantastic faith, an indomitable spirit, the support of family and friends and an excellent medical team. Hang in there my friend!!!
Susan Beadle
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:42 AM, CDT
Ray, Greetings from Key West!
Team La Concha is pulling for you, and sending prayers
Your spirit is an inspiration for all of us !
Sunny days ahead, Gloria and Charles
Gloria Szafraniec
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:31 AM, CDT
Hey Ray & Julie:
There isn’t a better fighter! Keep your spirits up, and our prayers are with you.
Daniel
Daniel Nelson daniel.nelson@cprockville.com
Rockville, MD
United States
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:22 AM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
Of course I was hoping for better news as I am sure you were. KEEP FIGHTING RAY! We are all here supporting you and praying. You are in my thoughts and I am ready for another roadshow…..
My thoughts and prayers continue to be sent your way.
Danielle
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:19 AM, CDT
Ray,
That news sucks, but it is just another speed bump. Keep your incredible attitude and fight hard. Take strength from all of us thinking and praying for you.
JJ DeBrosse
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:09 AM, CDT
God is your friend Ray and I know he has a plan. You will do well my friend. Prayers to you and your loved ones…..fight hard and as long as it takes….we are never given what we can’t handle.
Shawn
Shawn Maxwell
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:09 AM, CDT
Ray, the first thing I thought of when I read the crummy news was Lance Armstrong….his initial news wasn’t good either but somehow he came out on top. I’m sure there are plenty of other Non Celebs that don’t get the press and have had similar success. So why not Ray Shepard (I know you are a celeb within IHG)??
I don’t consider myself to be a super religious person but I do know the power of prayer and hope that all of your friends will join me in a few extra ones for you. I pray that you and Julie keep up that positive attitude and that this nasty cancer will leave your body once and for all. Hang in there, buddy.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:00 AM, CDT
[This is a family site, Joan .. do not put in writing what you said when you read Ray’s post!)
Challenges are good, Ray .. but this kind is not such fun and it’s a tough one. It’s not that you aren’t up to it – it’s the rest of us! So .. we will take cues from you and send prayers (I watched ABC News and a story about prayer and how it DOES work and work well) and positive thoughts to make these awful cancers BE GONE.
Sending love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2008 07:00 AM, CDT
Dear Ray,
Without a doubt you are a fighter and we are right there with you. I am saying my prayers for you and will keep my positive thoughts with you. You are so strong to be able to go through this, keep working with us and having such a great attitude….you rock! Your Friend, Cindy Novotny
Cindy Novotny cindynovotny@masterconnection.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 15, 2008 08:40 PM, CDT
Hi Uncle Ray!
Just wanted to write you a short note and tell you that I am thinking & praying for you. I’ve enjoyed reading through your journal and guestbook tonight, and I hope this week brings you more good news and continued strength to keep up the fight. This past weekend my thoughts have drifted to Houston, Galveston and many fond memories of my Henderson past. So many good times pulling crab traps up from the murky waters of the canal, eating crabs and shrimp off newspaper spread out over Meme’s picnic table. Good times laughing with James, John and John Scott. Hours of humor, so much fun. I hope this note finds you in good spirits. I was impressed to see your laptop close by in your picture. I always enjoyed talking about business with you over the years and I am looking forward to catching up with you very soon.
Be Strong.
Love,
Michael
Michael Funkey mike.funkey@gt.com
Prairie Village, KS
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 15, 2008 04:39 PM, CDT
Been trying to find a cool color to go w/ the colors of your site and it’s not easy! This, I hope, can be easily read.
Ok.. so here’s what is on my mind: YOU, Ray, are a fabulous human being. I’ve known that from the first time we met and will always believe it. You are good (ok.. fab!) at what you do for work, you have a wonderful sense of humor and are caring. Thanks for being in my life and the lives of many.
Onward! Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 15, 2008 03:17 PM, CDT
Ray,
I just received the link for your site and I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was at HSMAI Affordable Meetings and so many times we thought of you- Stacie kept reminding us to make you proud at the booth and I think we did a pretty good job!
When you’re feeling better, we’d love to have you down here for a little sunshine and relaxation with NO WORK ALLOWED!
Best Wishes for a speedy recovery!
Misty Polihronakis mpolihronakis@hotmail.com
Hollywood, FL
United States
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 14, 2008 09:14 AM, CDT
Thinking about you and Julie and your ‘kids’ – thinking about health – thinking about a bright blue sky – thinking about life – wishing you a good day. In our house, I’ll close the door to my office while Joel and a friend watch football. HOW did these Sundays get here so quickly. Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2008 04:48 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I do not know you but my heart is with you. One thing I want you to remember is that this is not your battle it is the Lord’s. My prayers are with you and your family. You beat it once and you can do it again.
Many Blessings,
Tonita Thomas
InterContinental San Francisco
Tonita Thomas thomastonita@yahoo.com
San Ramon , CA
United States
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2008 10:47 AM, CDT
Ray,
Thinking of you today and praying every night. Have a great weekend!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2008 10:39 AM, CDT
Good day Ray
Praying that your treatments next week are seamless and anxious to hear the good news afterwards!
Love and prayers,
Andrea
Crowne Plaza, Edmonton Alberta
Andrea Cook
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2008 08:58 AM, CDT
Ray,
Just wanted to let you know that you are in all of our prayers and thoughts. We appreicate all that you do for Crowne Plaza’s and wish you good news today from your doctor.
Christine
Christine Mazzoli christine.mazzoli@ihg.com
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2008 07:33 AM, CDT
Hi Ray.
Sorry for the silence, but the ol computer has not been working. We have been on a hectic pace since Labor Day. Home for a short three days ( after a week off ,work was H…)and then off to Parent’s Weekend at Kings Point. We had a fun time. Saw a lot of Charles who looks great and is trying to decide what to do with his life. He will have to go to sea for five years but after that… He of course feels too old to do anything. Hard to tell a 23 year old that you have a lot of years ahead of you. Starting at 28 is not old… It was quite warm on Long Island, actually very hot and humid, which was a bit unpleasant because we came prepared for cooler weather but still fun. Went to Oyster Bay, Theodore Roosevelts’s home town) on Saturday night ( in Hanna’s rain showers) and ate at Canterbury Pub which was filled with T. Roosevelt memorabilia. Of course, we ate oysters!!!! It was fun. Took a friend of Charles, actually his sea buddy from last year and was entertained with tales of their sea year. Fun was had by all. On Sunday, we took Charles into the city to Katie’s apt. and then headed home. Made it in five and half hours. Not bad…
GO HOKIES. I am off this weekend to Va. Tech for KRistina’s sorority parent’s weekend. They are playing GEORGIA TECH. I know who you are rooting for!!! Charles is off to Kings Point this weekend. He has a meeting there. I dropped him off at the airport at 5:32 a.m. this morning and they would not let him on his 6:00 flight!!! DELTA no more… They said it was a law but we had never heard of it. He is on the ten o’clock obviously missing half of his meeting. Such is AIR TRAVEL.
Keep up the good work Ray. Glad they have ongoing treatment for you. You are always in our prayers.
Love all around. Tina
tina bonner
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 11, 2008 09:06 PM, CDT
Ray,
Was just thinking this afternoon, long time no hear and with that means no news is good news. Hope this issue is resolved quickly and painlessly. Glad you’ve had the regional co-ops to distract you. Having attended a few, I know the work you do to put them together. My thoughts and prayers wil continue to be directed your way. Hang in there, Crowne and a lot of other people need you to win this battle!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 11, 2008 08:50 PM, CDT
Well, ick! Was hoping for better news. IF the radiation is anything like I had, it is truly painless! You can probl. even stay clothed for yours.
Keep us posted, Ray – and please don’t over-do it with work .. said the pot to the kettle!
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 07, 2008 09:12 PM, CDT
Thinking about you .. hoping the weekend was a good one .. that you feel pretty good and were able to be outside.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 03, 2008 09:14 AM, CDT
Ray,
Thank you for your update. Reading your journal really tells me the courage and positive spirit you have throughout this beatable process. YOU are an inspiration to all of us. I’m continuing my prayers for you along with all those in New Orleans too. I have to start that diet now to catch up with you-hee hee hee.
Deborah Gardner
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 02, 2008 02:01 PM, CDT
Ray,
I wanted to say hello and send you all the best in thoughts and prayers for you and your Family! I have not worked with you in awhile, but have just started at the Crowne Plaza Orlando Airport. Carol Gorham, you remember me from the Crowne Universal- always the trouble maker and jokster. I missed working in the CP Booth for awhile. I am back at a Crowne Plaza now and glad to be.
I hope that all good things come your way. It sounds like you are juicing and eating healthy. Good for you – too bad for Starbuck’s!
All the best!
Carol
Carol Gorham carol.gorham@columbiasussex.com
Orlando, FL
United States
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 02, 2008 08:05 AM, CDT
Hey Ray!
Yeah, for you!! So glad you and Julie are walking the walk. You are a true light. And wouldn’t it be wonderful if CP DOES have a new menu for employees AND guests! Be a pioneer!
Much love to you and Julie,
Anita & Tim
Anita Koch
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 02, 2008 07:12 AM, CDT
ALWAYS glad to get an upbeat note from you, Ray – and to hear that you are generally feeling good. Do want you to be able to manage any other pain .. that cuts into how you feel generally.
So far, all my Gulf Coast friends have evacuated and will know more about their homes when they get back in the next few days. We were all very lucky that Gustav did so little damage relative to what it could have done.
Here’s to a FABULOUS week! Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 01, 2008 04:58 PM, CDT
Hey Ray! That was a great meeting Thursday and it was great seeing you back to work! I know Stacey and I both felt like we got so much done just sitting with you a few hours…it seems I always learn something when I see you!
Just got back from a great vacation in HHI. I have to admit the best part was that my blackberry didn’t work at the house we were at! I truly took a “break” and now I am rested and ready for the calls this week!
Enjoy the rest of today’s holiday and I am sure we’ll be speaking quite a bit tomorrow!
stacie
stacie day
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 01, 2008 07:59 AM, CDT
Ray,
You sound incredible!! Keep the great attitude, don’t work too hard and enjoy the holiday.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
SUNDAY, AUGUST 31, 2008 01:40 PM, CDT
Ray,
What great news you’re back at the office doing the things you really are passionate about. I can’t imagine how uplifting it must be for you! I know EVERYONE was glad to see you back there stirring things up. Look forward to many more positive updates like this one. Your hardwork and lots of prayers from everyone are obviously paying off!
Keep it up!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
SUNDAY, AUGUST 31, 2008 12:43 PM, CDT
Ray,
So glad you are feeling strong and having some great days! I know it makes all the difference. Enjoy the Labor Day weekend. Keep up the fight!
Stacy Bedsole
SUNDAY, AUGUST 31, 2008 11:58 AM, CDT
Good to hear from you both and love the pics. We are at the ranch recovering from 5 days in Mexico – gee! Kristin and her husband Austin are in Austin today, tomorrow and will come to SA on Tuesday. Dr. Hill finally got a week off and they are making there way to Texas and visiting friends along the way. Of course, I can’t wait to meet their yellow lab “Mattie”. In the meantime, I got appointed to a really bizarre case in federal court, this 20 year old girl who worked at a bank down here in SA got talked into walking into the vault and stealing $100,000. She and her cohort left town, 24 hours later she had second thoughts, took half the money, came back to SA and turned herself in. I have spent the last week trying to explain to her parents (who live in New Mexico) that she can’t “undo” the crime. They tell me she is “easily influenced”, and just think that the federal prosecutor should realize that, and simply pretend it didn’t happen. I always get cases like this! I have been preparing her for being a guest of the federal prison system for a few years. So – I have to get back to that on Tuesday! Take care and glad things are going well. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
SATURDAY, AUGUST 30, 2008 10:13 PM, CDT
Ray,
Charles and I were just out on the beach for two hours after dinner and watched Sailor chase sand crabs endlessly…. I came up and turned on the computer and got your message. WOW. It is like a new you. Keep it up. It has made our day. What kind of doc did you get for your spine?
Enjoy the rest of Labor Day. You must feel like a million bucks. It is wonderful!!!
Happy Labor Day. Tina
tina bonner
SATURDAY, AUGUST 30, 2008 08:20 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
So happy to hear you are home and feeling good! We just finished two more programs, and are about to enjoy a week of “R&R”, and working on our recipe project. We tried some new dishes out the last two weeks that folks really enjoyed, so they’ll be keepers.
We were happy to see the photo of you and your “new family” at Hallelujah Acres!
How are you doing with the H. Diet at work and on the road? Hope we prepared you and Julie to handle that easily. Let us know how it’s going.
Our love to Julie. Keep the updates coming.
Endless blessings,
Tim & Anita
Anita Koch whollyalive@bellsouth.net
Lake Lure, NC
United States
SATURDAY, AUGUST 30, 2008 11:31 AM, CDT
LOVE the photos! What fun to have those up there. Thanks for posting.
And WOW.. you ‘sound like yourself’, Ray and THAT is good to hear. Walking, being home, AND doing some work is good for your heart, soul and brain .. yea you!
I think we’d all like to know how you will stay on the “fresh” diet when you work – if you will bring your own food or … if CP hotels will have new menus for us all.
HAPPY HAPPY! Love to you both – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
FRIDAY, AUGUST 29, 2008 06:21 PM, CDT
Ray and Julie, glad you are home. Ray, sorry your arm is giving you so muchc trouble. We are prepping for Hurricane Gustave. Steele is here with 2 cats, Sta is here with her new weenie dog Sadie, Steele’s girlfrind Katelyn is on her way, and I have my own weenie dog, Bella, and have missed 3 days of work due to a severe sinus infection. Should be busy for awhile.
Cyn and Jock went to N.O. and treated Liz and Sta to dinner at Galatoire’s which Sta said was fabulous and sooooo much fun. Now Liz is off to Trinidad.
Please feel better, Ray. I am praying real hard for you every night. Love, Patty
Patty Scott pattybscott@gmail.com
THURSDAY, AUGUST 28, 2008 12:37 PM, CDT
Hi Ray, glad you are home and feeling better. I pray for you everyday and hope that it helps. Talk to you next week for the Regional Conference calls. Take care Ray, You know we all love you very much.
Joan Jenkins jjenkins@cooperhotels.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 03:17 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Glad that you are home and feeling better. We are at the Shack for the week and have been very busy. We have gone out on the boat twice at night and have been asked out to dinner . We are presently having a dry Noreaster. No rain which we desperately need. Charles left today for Richmond. He has to give a lecture tomorrow so he thought it best to get up there tonight. Sailor and I will hold up the fort. We rent the Shack on the 2nd so we have been busy getting repairmen in to do certain repair jobs.
Glad things are going well for you. Charles is an expert on your type of pain if you wish to run anything by him. What do they have you on for the pain?
Hi to Julie and the boys.
Our special healing love to you.
Tina
tina bonner
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 01:16 PM, CDT
Ray…my calendar is beginning to look like your’s! I have to go in and put in a meeting just so I remember to do things!! I’ve learned from the best…
I am glad you are feeling somewhat better. I know the treatments take such a toll on your body but get back to your veggie diet and I know you will start to feel much better!!
I look forward to our catch up tomorrow…it will be good to see you out and about!
stacie day
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 01:05 PM, CDT
Ray-Just wanted to say hello and hope you enjoy the Labor Day weekend. Stay strong and know that you are thought of often. Looking forward to hearing the positive updates!
Best,
Ashley
ashley james ajames@meetingadvice.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 11:48 AM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
Just been thinking about you two and wanted to check in. I’m glad that the treatment is getting a bit better on you both. Am saying my prayers that the meds are helping and that you start feeling better soon, Ray – take good care of yourself! You too, Julie!
Love,
Kristen
Kristen Pardo
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 10:49 AM, CDT
A few days without phones and internet…sounds so…peaceful.
Glad to hear that Ray’s feeling better and hope that you’re able to really enjoy the holiday weekend! Thank you both for keeping us all updated.
Justin
Justin Gammon justin.gammon@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 09:28 AM, CDT
Ray and Julie,
Sounds like a nice weekend at home. Rain all weekend? No phones or internet? Not a bad trade off. Dallas could use a rainy weekend. Glad to hear Ray is able to eat better and only mild discomfort. The positive outlook you both have is so uplifting to me and I know all who read the daily journal. I’m hoping the holiday weekend will be a good one for you both.
It’s the beginning of college football season, my favorite time of year. Hopefully getting to watch some great games will help keep your minds off of things.
You both stay in my thoughts and prayers.
Keep up the good fight!
Mike Tilley
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 08:45 AM, CDT
Because we are guys, I can ask this question…so how much weight have you lost?? Sorry to hear about the pinched nerve and while I’m sure that’s no piece of cake, compared to everything else you’ve been through lately, I hope it’s minor in comparison and a nuisance you can overcome quickly. As we approach Labor Day Weekend, I hope your strength and energy levels are such that you and Julie can enjoy some quality time.I guess you probably won’t be able to drink, so since I’m such a nice guy, I will have a few for you. Hang in there buddy.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 08:36 AM, CDT
So does this mean you are at home or at Emory? I think I missed a step! YEA about the weight dropping .. that has to feel better. BOO about the pinched nerve. It’s pain that keeps us feeling less than ok. Glad you (literally) survived the rain – what a mess Fay has made of so many places. BUT you did need the rain and I am glad.
Maybe it also washed away any bad stuff for you, Ray!
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 27, 2008 08:07 AM, CDT
Ray, we are taking good care of Stacie at the shows. Crowne Plaza has been represented very well at all of our last three shows. We are ready to make it happen at Nationals in DC.
Julie, I wonder why you can always read a doctor’s bill and you can never read his prescription:) Stay strong!
Carlos Quinones
Carlos Quinones carlos@displayamerica.com
Atlanta, GA
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 26, 2008 02:59 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
Did you ever make it home?
Sorry it has taken me some time to write, I usually try to after each posting but I have been busy leaving prayers all over Israel for you! I was in Jerusalem today and left a prayer, hopefully it will send a bit of relief to you both.
Send my love to Ray and take care of yourself too Julie. I hope to meet you one day and celebrate Ray’s recovery.
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 26, 2008 12:05 PM, CDT
Hey Julie and Ray – thanks for the birthday greetings – San Miguel was great – we just had a few problems with the threesome we went with – I think I will write a little book on our adventure – it will take your and Ray’s mind off the bad food! Stayed in a great bed and breakfast – anywho…. glad to be back in the US… whew, we are lucky to live in this country! Take care and we are thinking of you. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
MONDAY, AUGUST 25, 2008 03:36 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie – just wanted you to know i am thinking of you and wishing you a uncomplicated and restful day!
Love, Anne
Anne Roth anne.roth@ihg.com
Hagerstown, MD
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 25, 2008 12:18 PM, CDT
Stay strong Ray and Julie!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
SUNDAY, AUGUST 24, 2008 06:47 AM, CDT
8-24-08
Hi Julie & Ray,
We think of you both all the time, and have been praying for your complete healing, and blessings galore as you walk forward in the path that God has laid out before you. We certainly pray fervently that it does not include ANY MORE HOSPITAL VISITS, CHEMO, OR ANY OTHER POISONOUS CONDITIONS to assault you both, and set you back. Your experiences should be confirming that. When you walk in His way, God can do His healing. Trust what you learned, from His word, as validated by scientific research.
We love you two, and will stay in touch.
Be well and be blessed,
Tim & Anita
Anita Koch
NC
United States
SATURDAY, AUGUST 23, 2008 10:21 AM, CDT
Good Morning Julie and Ray,
Thanks so much Julie for the update. I think you are a true Angel for doing what you do each and every day.. You know, I think Hospitals make you sick. Your body keeps saying STOP poking me, you wake up all hours of the night, the food is horrible, the smell is toxic……I wish there was a way to get these treatments at home. It’s a very cool morning here in Northern CA. 58 degrees. The high today will be 89! That’s quite a degree spread. I am hoping that you and Ray are at your home now enjoying the birds singing and sleeping in your own bed for a change. I’m off to the local Farmers Market to get boxes of fruits and vegetables as now my husband and I have started juicing again. I know you will both feel much better away from there. I wish you and Ray a very restful weekend. Ray had a great month so far, may even go over my goal!!!! I will e-mail you my weekly on Sunday. Didn’t want to send it yet because it’s pretty big. Maybe we can at least say hi next week. I know you will be most likely working on the Regional Tele-conference agenda. I have told your sales team to please help and get in all numbers no later than Aug 30th so you have time. Hope this was OK! We all miss you but I feel your spirit. Have a wonderful weekend. All the best!
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SATURDAY, AUGUST 23, 2008 08:45 AM, CDT
I want you to go home and relax and eat well and watch the Olympic closing ceremony and spend time just being, away from the drama of hospitals. Thank you for updating us and ensuring our hope goes with yours.
I’m flying home today from Las Vegas (have I mentioned how much I dislike this town?!) and hope to have a better flying experience after Thursday’s 7 hour delay!
Here’s to health! Here’s to HOME!
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
SATURDAY, AUGUST 23, 2008 07:33 AM, CDT
Ray and Julie– GOODMORNING!!!!! Great news to hear you are packed and ready for home– Home is where the healing continues. I am conveinced in my heart that treatment 5 as strong was a go with you because IT MAKE SENSE TO YOUR BODY. Its the right thing to beat the cancer (little “c’s as its not important). You, your diet and the chemo are working together– now that makes sense! I’ve even taken the advice of raw and veggies for my famly. That they liked them anyway is a HUGE advantage. Even in your journey Ray, you are teaching and giving to others! We are settled into our new home– I am finally off the road for a while. I await your next entry and each morning pray to our Blessed Mother for her to hold you and Julie up in prayer to her Son. My favorite prayer each day– usually while driving (haha)– ‘there go I but for the grace of God”. Truly you are in his Graces! Awesome Day– Awesome healing– Fall is around the corner to prepare us for a new year and new beginnings! Hugs!
carla cannonito
FRIDAY, AUGUST 22, 2008 03:56 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
It’s Friday afternoon and I haven’t seen anything on your site so I am thinking good news. I know you can beat this horrible bug that has attacked your system.
Working on Weekly Report. It’s a big one…….4 pages. Yikes! Lots to do. Are you heading home this weekend? Looking forward to an update. Take care to both of you and just know that the angels are working overtime so you can do what you do best and that’s work! We miss you out here.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
FRIDAY, AUGUST 22, 2008 02:33 PM, CDT
Ray,
You are my HERO! I’m so happy to know you are pulling thru and taking charge. You are extremely strong and have faith that the hard part is over now. My prayers for you tell me so.
God Bless you, Deborah Gardner
Deborah Gardner
Phoenix, AZ
FRIDAY, AUGUST 22, 2008 09:46 AM, CDT
Ray-
Just a minor set back. Listen to that body and get strong. We all believe in you. The prayers will continue. Have a great weekend!!!!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
FRIDAY, AUGUST 22, 2008 07:41 AM, CDT
Hi Ray-
I’m in Orlando at the HelmsBriscoe ABC Show and wanted to let you know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many people down here who all wish you a very speedy recovery.
All the best Ray and I’m looking forward to seeing you in the very near future!
Chris O’Donnell
Chris O’Donnell
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 08:46 PM, CDT
Hi Julie and Ray
I figured this thing out. I hope you get out soon. I am sorry about the treatment but your body is speaking. Keep us informed. Love from David too.
Julie
Julie Borenstein
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 02:10 PM, CDT
Phew! Good day to rest. Hope you are feeling better today. Think about you every day.
Heard from the sales office at the CP HHI this morning. Marlo Willis, the So Carolina rep, is a new mommy. Baby boy born last night at 8:04 p.m. No name yet. I hope she knows they won’t let her take him home until she names him.
No problems for the west coast of Florida with TS Fay. Sure am glad I’m not on the east coast – 20+ inches of rain. Hope your hotels on that coast are doing well.
Hey – for a good chuckle, go online to Good Morning America’s site and watch the interview with my cousin’s mother-in-law, Leda Smith. It’s called “Held at Gunpoint by a Senior Citizen.” GMA wanted to fly Leda to NYC from her home in southwest PA (very close to Morgantown, WV) but she wouldn’t fly so they sent a limo. Nothing like a 7-hour limo ride up – and a 7-hour limo ride back to NYC! And you thought some of your road trips were h*#@.
She’s pretty fed up with the attention. “Inside Edition” has called her so many times she has threatened to have them arrested. Don’t mess with Granny!
So here’s hoping you’re getting a good enough dose of “Granny” grit to kick those cancer cells smack out of your body. I know this is silly, but I have this mental picture of a whole bunch of us stomping on cancer cells.
Best to you and Julie!
Lu Sadler
l.sadler@naplesbeachhotel.com
Lu Sadler l.sadler@naplesbeachhotel.com
Naples, FL
United States
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 11:49 AM, CDT
Ray,
Good job. It must be the diet giving you that extra strength to fight the cancer. You are amazing. I hope you are getting out soon. Perhaps for the weekend. Keep up the good work. We are rooting for you.
Hi Julie and the boys. Tina
tina bonner
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 08:30 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I think about you often throughout the day and enjoy reading your journal entries. Yours and Julie’s strength encourages me daily. Our prayers are with you. Julie — stay strong! You are the true definitioin of what “SUPERWOMEN” ‘really are!
GOD BLESS!
Tanya Taylor
Tanya Taylor ttaylor@cpdowntown.com
Houston, TX
United States
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 08:27 AM, CDT
Hi Julie & Ray….I’m inspired by your determination and teamwork. Your past and future success is certainly due to this. My prayers are with you both all through the day!
Linda Montgomery linda.montgomery@ihg.com
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 07:27 AM, CDT
Julie and Ray, I hope you got some sleep last night and that the kidneys will be ready for the a.m. treatment. Julie, I noticed someone told you to take care of yourself too…boy, Ray is so lucky to have a partner and cheerleader like you. You guys make a great team and it takes team work to beat your adversary!! I will say a few prayers as I wade through my mass of emails today. Wishing you increased strength…
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 02:45 AM, CDT
Good morning Julie & Ray. The only one Ray pushes harder than us is himself! Naps are a wonderful thing and I recommend them highly. The team here has starting taking walks (naps are not recommended!) to get some of that energy Ray has shown us with everything he does. Keep your spirits up, and we will keep you in our prayers.
Daniel Nelson
THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 02:25 AM, CDT
HOORAY .. about last night’s news. Hopeful about today’s. Keep talking to your kidneys, Ray .. encourage them to do their job well. Sending love as I leave for the airport. .. Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 11:32 PM, CDT
Hey Ray and Julie,
The Barham family are PUSHing for you. And for those stubborn kidneys to listen up and do their job! You are on our prayer list at church (8,500 members) and the power of prayer works as you well know.
I’ll be coming to Atlanta Sept. 8th and I’m coming to see you if you are up to it. Hang in there my friend, you mean so much to everyone that knows you.
Lisa Barham lisa@hotelresources.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 09:50 PM, CDT
Just read your latest update. Great News. Keep it up Ray. As always let us know if you need something. Hal &kathy
Hal Burge
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 09:42 PM, CDT
Hi Ray….Been thinking about you and reading your updates daily…Hang in there with those stubborn kidneys….all the good food choices will have its effect on them as well…Keep PUSHing….
We’re talking about weekly meeting planner news next year…video…live on-site…and you are there!! See you soon, Karen
Karen Smith
Fort Lauderdale, FL
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 08:59 PM, CDT
Way to go team Ray with the 5th treatment and I am praying that in a few minutes you will be starting the 10pm one. Hang in there, I know its hard but I am so glad you are able to get some treatments each day. Kidneys- get in line already!
Thinking and praying for you all every moment I can. PUSH!
Julie, please call and let us know if we can bring you anything there or at the house when you get to go home.
Love and Prayers always,
Stacie
stacie day
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 10:35 AM, CDT
Thanks Julie for the heads up on his Blackberry!!!!All kidding aside it’s great to hear that the kidneys are getting alittle better.I filled up our hummingbird feeders over the weekend and they are just buzzing around our backyard and my office window. They are so small but so powerful. God does work in mysterious ways. Sending good angels to help both of you get over this week and get back home where you can relax and really speed up that Juiceman. Sending you all the Best!
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 09:33 AM, CDT
Late getting to email this a.m. – work gets in the way! – and am THRILLED to read your post, Julie. WHAT great news! I’m doing my RAH RAH KIDNEYS cheer!
Love and PUSH – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 09:30 AM, CDT
Julie,
Good hearing from you this morning. That is GREAT news that he could have his treatments, Amazing.. Remember to take care of yourself too.Oftentimes, the caregiver ends up sick so be mindful of your limitations. I hope the diet is giving you added needed energy.
Give our love to Ray. Keep up the good work.
Tina
tina bonner
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 08:15 AM, CDT
Wow – great news! I went to Adoration last night and prayed for the will of God – it’s all you can do…. maybe he was listening. I was also reading there (the church provides all kinds of reading material) about prayer and how it never gets answered the way you think it should be, which is God’s way of telling us that he is in control! I’m so glad someone is. Anywho….. Mom came into town yesterday and took me and her great friend Anita to lunch – we managed to get Derry away from the office and he joined us. Anita’s birthday was August 15th and mine is Thursday. I am leaving my 40’s and going into the 50’s – oh well. Derry has two little basil cell things that he has to get removed next Tuesday – yikes! But the doc says not to get concerned…. easy for him to say. We are off to San Miguel de Allende tomorrow – we are looking forward to it. We are also equipped with antibiotics! I imagine the Hallelujah diet does not like antibiotics. Take care and we are thinking of you always. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 07:50 AM, CDT
We are PUSH-ing for you in Williamsburg! Your Great Attitude is contagious! Thank you,
Julia Raftery
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 06:51 AM, CDT
Great job Team Ray! Keep up the good work.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 06:17 AM, CDT
Ray/Julie, great news on the kidneys! Way to go! Sounds like you all and your medical team may have a ‘formula’ for success. Keep it going! We look forward to more positive updates saying that the IL2 is doing its job.
Susan Beadle
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 04:02 AM, CDT
Dear Ray,
I apologize that I have not written in for a few days…more like 10-14 days but it is not because I am not checking your journals…I look forward to receiving updates from you and from Julie and am happy to hear that it seems your kidneys might be giving you a bit of a break and will allow you to continue with your chemo.
We are actually in Israel right now (our annual family trip) and I will make sure to put in special prayers for you and your family both in the Old City of David as well as in Nazareth. You can write a message or a prayer on a piece of paper and you put it inside the Western Wall of the Old City, it is an amazing site to see. Is there anything that I can send you from here?
My prayers and love are always with you, Julie and the kids.
RAY – PUSH and we will all PUSH with you!
Love,
Danielle Baruch and family
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 09:30 PM, CDT
Ray, hang in there with the kidneys. Things are going well as I’m sure you’ve seen some emails. I got the Co-Op calls up and ready on Centra, am working on cleaning up the FM site contact list so we have a good list to send out with the Sales Summit registration site. Already have the Event Recap ready for Affordable and will send it with the pdf of the drive to booth promtion when I approve it tomorrow, we’ve also got a lot of interest from our Sponsorship site that went out, I will email you those details seperately, but as you can tell things are going smoothly and I think you would be proud! Keep thinking positive and make sure you are getting rest and taking care of yourself.
Julie, let me know if you need anything! I can bring some things by if you need them.
Love to you both,
Stacie
stacie day
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 06:46 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Don’t want you to think that we have forgotten about you, life has just been busy. Really pleased to hear that you took that long walk when you were home. Amazing… Now back to treatment and not so much fun. If it is destroying the cancer cells too that will be a plus. Hope the ol kidneys don’t object too much.
Last Friday was Charles birthday ( thanks for the email Julie). He took off from work so we had a long weekend at the beach. Kristina blessed us with her presence Thursday night, Friday and part of Saturday. It was fun because none of her friends were close by so she had a captive audience. It was nice just being with her. Friday was a beautiful day. Charles spent some of it at his boat. Around 6 p.m. we had what seemed like a mini hurricane so it was the three of us in the Shack with the rain and wind howling outside. Very quaint. Charles’ birthday dinner is always lobsters, so we had lobsters and all the fixings. It was a fun, quiet evening. After Kristina left on Saturday, we had four Scottish medical students ( they are doing a rotation at Johnston Willis Hospital in Richmond) come stay and another friend came with his daughter but they stayed at the hotel. The Shack was hopping that night. Sunday everyone just collapsed on the beach. Monday was our 37th wedding anniversary so we went out to dinner with Kristina and two of her friends. Her friends are off in a few days to study in Paris and London so Monday was the only day we could treat them to dinner. It was fun. A great local Italian restaurant but it was noisey. Kristina leaves on Thursday for Tech so today we shopped until we dropped!!!!! All the styles seem reminiscent of”. . Jackie O”. It was not a successful day…
We keep you in a special place in our heart. I hope this treatment is not too bad.
Give our love to Julie and the boys.
Tina
tina bonner
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 06:41 PM, CDT
Hi Ray & Julie,
Thank you for keeping us posted…it reminds us to keep praying and praying again!
Julie…you are a trooper!
Team here in Lake Oswego
Beverly Meehan sales@cplakeoswego.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 05:58 PM, CDT
Ray, I’m reading this everyday and just want you to know everyone in Texas is pulling for you! You’ve done so much for us over the years we owe you that and much more. Hang in there big guy. We’re all praying for you to get back here soon!
Mike Tilley
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 05:16 PM, CDT
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO .. not fair.
OK.. Ray’s Kidneys .. listen up: You have to cooperate. Got it? We are ALL depending on you. You have to figure out how to work well and allow Ray to get this treatment. Ray’s been good to you .. it’s your turn.
Love to you all .. which includes the kidneys!
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 05:10 PM, CDT
We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers Ray.
Daniel Nelson
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 01:16 PM, CDT
Until you, I had never heard of P.U.S.H. or Caring Bridge. What an education!
Have a comfortable (at least, more comfortable) week- catch up after vacation. Deb
Deborah Shepard
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 11:50 AM, CDT
Hi Ray:
We have been thinking of you often, as you are going though the treatments. It is so great to hear through this site how things are doing, and I can just picture the “Blackberry” tale. Please, stay focused, stay strong and you are in our prayers! Remember, Key West is a great recovery spot for the whole family…see you soon.
Sunny Tropical Wishes.,
Gloria and Charles-CP Key West FL
Gloria Szafraniec gloriaszafraniec@remingtonhotels.com
Key West, FL
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 09:38 AM, CDT
The things Ray will do for Crowne Plaza! Julie, you are now an honorary member of our team!! My thoughts and prayers are with you guys and I am so glad the first treatment got you guys off to a good start. Ray, hang in there…I know you hate not feeling good but you got to fight!
Prayers,
Stacie
RAY SHEPARD
Peachtee City, GA
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 09:28 AM, CDT
Good morning, Ray.
You probably won’t remember me but I wanted to send you holy thoughts. I attended the Seasonal Spectacular with you year before last in Sacramento when you were there supporting the PCMR program. I moved from CP Downtown San Jose to The Cabana little over a year ago.
Anywho – thats more than enough about me!
I believe that prayer changes things, and moreseo, prayer can result in infinite miracles that we cannot begin to imagine. My thoughts are with you! And please work less, and rest more!
Michelle Williams
CP Cabana, Palo Alto
Michelle Williams
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 08:38 AM, CDT
Ray/Julie,
Thanks for keeping the journal updated. It’s nice to be able to check on Ray’s progress without bothering him.
You shouldn’t have to go through all that to get online. Now, let the record reflect that I don’t think Ray should be working but instead resting, but if he insists, and knowing him, I’m sure he does, I will ask Brenda to order him an AirCard so he stands a better chance of connecting within the hospital. I’ll ask her to coordinate with you where to send it.
You guys remain in my prayers.
Gina
Gina LaBarre gina.labarre@ihg.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 08:31 AM, CDT
7 is a good number! Take care and is it really called the Hallelujah diet? I’ll google it. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 07:54 AM, CDT
Am chuckling about you, Julie, running downstairs and outside to post email! I’ll pray for no rain so you can continue.
LOVE the PUSH acronym! And that you schlepped all the carrots to the hospital. Also the 7th floor which I am guessing is the really nice one w/ perhaps better service. Only right for you to have an upgrade, eh?
Here’s to a great week of your body accepting all this treatment and to lots of carrot juice. I confess I am w/ Don on this – better you than me – tho’ I AM trying, Julie, to give up my fage yogurt!
Love to you both, Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 07:46 AM, CDT
Good morning Ray!! Lots of prayers and lots of positive energy heading your way from Baltimore. So happy I had to chance to talk with you last week and talk shop a bit. Your going to have to pass along some of those new dishes you are trying to me … might have to give them a whirl here at the Park house!!
Nathan Park
Baltimore, MD
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 04:20 PM, CDT
Ray and Julie…not sure about this new menu…better you two then me…Not sure I could handle the rice milk!! Good luck this week and stay strong.
Don
Astor CP New Orleans
Don Zimmer
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 01:28 PM, CDT
Ray, mile and a half walk on Saturday? That’s Great! It seems like the diet is working well for you. I have heard some very positive things about the Hallelujah Diet. It sounds like you’re doing well. I changed my eating habits myself in April and you wouldn’t recognize me now. Can’t wait to see you! Continue eating organic foods and don’t forget to exercise or your daily dose of sunshine! A little bit of sunshine is always good for the soul! You’re in our hearts and prayers! May God bless you and your family always!
George Garzzoria
Dallas, TX
George Garzzoria
Dallas, TX
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 01:18 PM, CDT
When you get a minute – tell us what you learned about Vitamin D – I’m not a milk drinker and I don’t get 30 minutes of sun a day! Take care and keep us posted. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 10:49 AM, CDT
Ray, you truly are amazing!!! I love your spirit and I would love to meet Julie some day. She sounds like a gal you just want to know and hang out with! I don’t remember if I told you earlier but we currently know 9 people with cancer and I try to keep up with everyone, I constantly learn new things each day reading these journals that can be shared with each other.
You, Julie and your boys are in our prayers and are here for you if you ever need anything. I will be coming to Altanta in September I’ll check to see if I can swing by to see you. Perhaps it will be a good week and we can all take a walk together. I just had back surgery I have to walk 2 miles each day and you are right, it makes you feel so wonderful to be outside!
Hang in there dear friend, you are in wonderful hands!
Lisa B.
Lisa Barham lisa@hotelresources.com
Southlake, TX
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 09:15 AM, CDT
Ray, I used to work at Crowne Plaza at the San Antonio Riverwalk. I remember doing my first training (Brand Training) with Crowne in Dallas. You were inspiring. Your dedication to providing us with brand knowledge was awesome. So I am not surprised you are accepting this challenge in your personal life with the same vigor and determination! You rock! My prayers are with you and your family. I will keep in touch. You do the same!
Rosa Garza
Rosa Garza rosa.garza@jqh.com
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 08:21 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
We met when you visited Maritz a month or two ago. I was the guy that couldn’t keep quiet. Anyway, Danielle recently told me about your challenge and directed me to your web-site. I’m inspired by your strength and hope that anyone that finds themselves hearing that dreadful news meets it with the same intensity and attitude that you have.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
David Mikitz david.mikitz@maritz.com
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 08:01 AM, CDT
What great news to start off our week!!! You’ve inspired me! I just happen to have some sunflower kernals in my desk drawer and I’m walking the dog twice around the block when I get home!
I’m so happy you’re feeling better and having some fun!!!
Mary Catherine Lamza
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 07:57 AM, CDT
Ray, you sound great! Sounds like the Hallelujah Diet is having a huge impact. That is really good news. I’ll be thinking of you this week and look forward to hearing that you are tolerating treatment well. My best to you both.
Susan Beadle
MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 07:28 AM, CDT
Ray and Julie,
What a great attitude! Although, I am not sure if I expected anything less!!! We missed you in Vegas Ray, but Stacie did an incredible job. I am glad to hear the new diet is going well (you are making me feel guilty for eating that bag of potato chips on the way into work!). We are all thinking about you and including you in our nightly prayers.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
Indianapolis, IN
United States
SUNDAY, AUGUST 17, 2008 06:10 PM, CDT
Ray & Julie: For you and Kimberly, I have an email going out to my neice asking for the best recipes- whether vegan or veggie. Like Nancy, I also have been feasting on a mix of greens:parsley for Vit C (?) and calcium, the kales, mustard greens, collard- stuff I NEVER in a million years thought was eaten by anyone outside of the very deepest ‘south’.
Throw in garlic with a little high end olive oil (not frying-just light sauteeing) and washed greens- stir, add a bit of herbs (basil, mint, mustard, balsamic, even apple or orange juice) and saute. Doesn’t need to be mush-in fact, if you like things fresh- just saute or lightly cover for 3-5 min. Beacause I get home so late and am famished, that is dinner along with a small amount of fresh fish or chix/turkey and even a bit of beef for variety and for us non-vegetarians (a few strips feeds the craving).
Walking over a mile is very impressive! Keep it up whenever you can, Ray, and please don’t get discouraged on the days where it just doesn’t feel right.
The ‘guestbook’ crowd obvously loves you, and I think this format is the most amazing therapy ever! Will be thinking of you all week, but will be out of email commission as of Thursday- vacation til the 1st. Deb
For Vit. D- come on out to Cal-e-for-ni-ah, folks! We are in a crazy, broke state- but not true of our state of mind…We love being “aired” nearly 365 days a year.
Deborah Shepard
SUNDAY, AUGUST 17, 2008 05:17 PM, CDT
WOW Ray and Julie,
You sound so much stronger and brighter. I think you’re right Take That Time To Think About Yourself.
TTTTTAY……….!HA! Eating healthy really makes a difference. Greens are also so full of nutrients. Kale, Collards, Swiss Chard and Beets are great for you as well. My grandma used to put cut up potatoes in the bottom of a pan with LOTS of torn kale leaves on top and then fill the pot with water. Like your making mashed potatoes. When the potatoes are done, drain the water and mash it together and add butter and salt. YUM! That was always a favorite. I often watch the Food TV Network and if you have noticed all the “old”, I mean seasoned stars like Emerill, Paula, Tyler, etx have all gained so much weight. Try watching Ellie Krieger, she is so motivating and has some great ideas that I have never tried before.
Ray, you are our prize Olympian. The angels know you love what you do, you love your Family, and you have so many people that are wishing you well. So next week, when you see the wind blowing that’s just all of us out here sending you good wishes.
All the best!
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SUNDAY, AUGUST 17, 2008 03:08 PM, CDT
Ray, I was wondering if you and Julie had heard about cancer antibody treatment. I personally don’t know about it but my brother in law who lives in Germany is fighting Ewings cancer and has heard about a test over there that involves a drug that’s used as a delivery system for antibodies that attacks cancer. Evidently it has been used for various forms of cancer and has had some good success. My wife googled cancer antibody treatment and found some info on it, if you are interested in learning more.
Glad to hear you were active yesterday and got out to enjoy some good weather. I’m sure that was good therapy before beginning your next round of treatments. I’ll be thinking of you this week and looking forward to the updates. Hang in there buddy.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SATURDAY, AUGUST 16, 2008 06:14 PM, CDT
Julie and Ray, Ive been thinking and praying for your healing. I admire both of you for your strength and positive outlook. I cannot imagine eating so much raw food but with the right motivation, I guess I could manage!!I just left Cyn’s. Jock’s got his first copy of his book and is so rightfully proud. It is beautiful. Then he left to mow the yard. Cyn was in the pool with Wyeth and John/Kristin were upstairs ‘napping’!! They leave for Trinidad on Tuesday. Wyeth is growing taller and so Cyn said she was going to put bricks on his head. Naturally he took that literally and much explaining had to take place!! School has started and all is well. Love and prayers to you both. Patty
Patty Scott pattybscott@gmail.com
Alexandria, LA
United States
SATURDAY, AUGUST 16, 2008 09:51 AM, CDT
Hi Ray – Kimmie and Derry. I wonder if “Deb Shepard” could point me to a good intro web site on “vegan” stuff… I’m not sure I would like vegan, but I like vegitarian, so, I might like that. Also, I know you and the Jewels have a lot to do – but could Julie send me the Asparagus soup recipe that Julie told Mother she made yesterday? The thing I like about eating vegitarian is that you are never filled up, so you just eat a little all day long, which is supposed to be better for you anyway! I have a suggestion….. adopt a dog (preferably a greyhound) from your local pound… he/she would be forever grateful, AND they know when their masters need support. I hope no one else reads this one, but I firmy believe pets (especially adopted ones) are angels in disguise, and we all need angels. Whoa… I’ve had too much coffee this morning! Anyway, we are praying for you and the family, keep us posted. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner
FRIDAY, AUGUST 15, 2008 08:45 PM, CDT
Ray~
I just read your last entry and it made me feel so good to learn that you had a pain free day and got a good nights sleep. And the sun was shining. How wonderful!! It’s raining, again in Boston. I just returned from MPI, myself and your team would have made you proud. The booth looked great and team looked professinal and enthusiastic. You have trained Stacie well. Enjoy your weekend of funny movies, hopefully more sunshine and let that pain medication keep doing its thing. Thinking of you often and praying for you even more than that. Stay strong Ray. Hello to Julie.
Charlene
Charlene Tierney charlene.tierney@ihg.com
Boston
FRIDAY, AUGUST 15, 2008 02:00 PM, CDT
Hello Ray,
Imagine my surprise when I went to the MPI booth to look for “Uncle Ray” and you were not there. Tammy Williams filled me in.
Ray, I am so sorry you are having to continue to struggle with this horrible thing. The last I saw you (Aug 2007 ASAE CP booth) I thought it would be gone. Again, I am so sorry, but know I am sending positive thoughts your way !
I have moved on to Hyatt, but will not forget your dedication to your sales people and to the brand. Always a professional! You are a pleasure to work with and a great representation of Crowne Plaza.
Will keep in touch, Ray! You take care of yourself
Nancy Kilpo
Nancy Kilpo nkilpo@hyatt.com
FRIDAY, AUGUST 15, 2008 11:11 AM, CDT
My two favorite movies are National Lampoons Vacation – no matter how many times I’ve watched it, it just makes me laugh. Perhaps you could watch it and laugh also…as they say, “laughter is the best medicine”. But my favorite movie is “It’s a Wonderful Life”. Obviously, life can deal some tough cards, but as I read through your pages today, it reminded me of the message of the film – “No man is a failure who has friends”. Ray, to call you a successful person would be an understatement. You have touched so many people over the years and are in the hearts, thoughts and prayers of many. What a beautiful circle of family and friends! Circles like yours don’t just happen, they are made. It’s an inspiration to love and to give like you clearly have. Please know that our Prayer Warriors in Texas and beyond are praying for you as well.
Additionally, I have recently returned from the MPI – WEC in Vegas and wanted to share what a great job Stacie did. The booth looked great and was in an awesome location in the center near the entrance. Thanks to you and Stacie for a successful show!
Tammy Williams tammy.williams@ihg.com
FRIDAY, AUGUST 15, 2008 07:16 AM, CDT
Ray, just saw your last entry and if I could be so crude…the news sucks! That said, I agree with all your friends that we all need to pray that much harder with hope that your competitive spirit stays strong and the chemo knocks the stuffing out of all the cancer, no matter where it is. I know I have said this before Ray, but you are an inspiration to me and so many others. Your desire to stay positive and battle no matter how you are feeling is beyond belief. Please continue to draw on the strength of all your friends and family…I’m sure if we could each take away a little pain from you, we would!!
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 07:49 PM, CDT
Only you could keep such a wry sense of humor giving news about the benefits of showing how wrong a chiropracter can be..ah, sweet medical profession..
Given the vegan way of life and input from so many, do you want any tried and true recipes? My neice has been total vegan for years and my sister has learned incredible cooking skills to keep her coming back to visit. Now they are the family that cooks together, eats together, stays together (sis lives in suburbs of NYC, kids live in the city). Anyway- if you want any, shout it out.
Please keep focusing on the good stuff and our love for you and Julie. I delighted in the suggestion to get a funny movie, and just laugh. You and NetFlix can become “THE FORCE” to better health.
Til next time, Deb (Shepard)
Deborah Shepard
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 07:41 PM, CDT
Hi Ray & Julie,
We are so glad to hear they found it and your current treatment is what is needed.
Thank you for keeping up with the journal…it helps to know what is going on as we continue to pray and hold a good thought for both of you.
Beverly and the team here in Lake Oswego
Beverly Meehan sales@cplakeoswego.com
Lake Oswego, OR
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 05:50 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
I am so very sorry to hear the news about your arm. These guys just won’t leave you alone……I hope the new vegetarian diet has given you some energy. I know you are busy preparing all of the co-op presentations and hope that this has helped you not think about the process. I know that Angels have surrounded you but they need to work harder for you.
August is a very strong month….your Regional Sales Team is working hard to make you Proud! Wishing you The Best under these conditions.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 05:45 PM, CDT
Ray, I just wanted you to know I am really praying for you tonight. I will help you and Julie in any way I can, I just feel so helpless so I hope that my prayers will lift you up and help you as you continue to fight this with all you have.
Love to both of you,
Stacie
stacie day
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 05:25 PM, CDT
Okay – well! At least it got found! Just means more prayers – which is what I love to do anyway. It’s so calming…, Derry and I are going to San Miguel de Allende (this really neat place in Mexico) for my 50th birthday…. Yikes! I am looking forward to it – I have never been, but I do know that if you like to pray – it has some of the most beautiful churches…, as does the country of Mexico generally. Take care, we love you and keep us posted. Kimmie
Kimberly Gardner
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 05:18 PM, CDT
Palo Alto is sending their thoughts and prayers to you and your family. We know you can beat this.
Carrie Jaron carrie@cabanapaloalto.net
Palo Alto, CA
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 05:11 PM, CDT
Is this an upbeat color? I am not feeling upbeat at the news .. tho’ I AM glad they found it and will do something. That IS the good news.
Danielle – safe travels.
Ray & Julie – watch a funny movie – laugh as much as you can. You must!
Love, Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 05:04 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Receiving your updates really means a lot to me, to all of us.
I am leaving tomorrow to Israel for vacation and will make sure to say all my prayers in the Holy Land for your recovery.
I am taking my laptop with me for work but it also will allow me to see how you are doing. I remember that you told me about your arm when we were on calls a few months ago…good thing that this treatment will also take care of the tumor on the spine and that you won’t need to alter the treatment or add to it.
I don’t know how you do it, but you continue to amaze in your positivity and outlook.
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 10:15 AM, CDT
Ray,
I found out about your cancer returning from Paul a couple of weeks ago. My entire family has added you to our prayers each day. Our 10 year old, Christian ask the Lord for your body to heal each night. He wanted to know about you and I told him you were a wonderful man with more energy than his mom! He said that’s not possible, I said he would agree if he ever got to spend 10 minutes with you!
If I can do anything for you please let me know. I have 2 employees going through cancer treatments right now and 6 friends or relatives. Our hearts are with you, please let me know if we can help in any way.
Lisa, Paul, Alex, Taylor and Christian Barham
Lisa Barham lisa@hotelresources.com
Southlake, TX
United States
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 13, 2008 12:19 PM, CDT
Very glad to hear you are in such good spirits! Very inspirational! Keep following the doctors orders and get a few extra winks in for me. 13 hours…that is gold medal sleeping. Feel better soon!
Julia Raftery
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 13, 2008 11:47 AM, CDT
Ray, so glad to hear you are having a relaxing week at home. Enjoy the birds and don’t work too hard. I know Julie will be a great veg. cook. Our thought and prayers are with you.
Margaret is home this week, a busy time for shopping and catching up. She is now thinking of graduating in August.
Love Malou, Sam and Margaret.
Malou Craven
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 13, 2008 08:32 AM, CDT
Ray Shepard not drinking COFFEE????? Unbelievable! You’re the man who turned me into a coffee hound! Enjoy your birds and back porch! Yup! I’m jealous!
Mary Catherine Lamza
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 13, 2008 01:57 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Thanks for including me in this journel! Stay strong and get lots of rest- I am pulling for you!!!
Sincerely, Denise
Denise Jacobs djacobs@starcite.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 05:53 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I too look forward to your e mail. I find I get excited to open your journal. It is wonderful that you keep us all updated. Sorry your kidneys need a rest but I think probably “all of you” needs a rest which it sounds like you are getting! We were at the Shack this weekend and we had sudden storms on Sunday so I remained in the Shack catching up on bills. I must say, your deck with the sound of the birds is definitely more tempting.
Had a rather routine day at work. Every summer Johnston Willis Hospital has foreign medical students come on an externship. The hospital gives them a condo in which to live, a van to drive , free meals at the hospital and a small stipend. Tonight Charles is going out with them with another doctor. This weekend they will come to the Shack. Kristina and I decided to do our annual summer dinner at Nordstrom’s cafe tonight since the girls are on their own!!!
I hope your day( weather wise that is) was as wonderful as ours. Almost seems more like a September day than August. I can almost hear the call of the school bell. But it is not supposed to last.
Thinking of you and glad you are getting a good rest.
Love all around. Tina.
tina bonner
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 04:21 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I read your entry over the weekend and as I was driving home Sunday I thought how wonderful it is that you have your wife joining you in your new vegan ways. And then…no coffee! You are a brave man! And many good thoughts are sent your way. Enjoy the porch and the birds. What a great office to have.
I had my laptop on the deck Sunday and was getting a few things done for clients. That is when I really like technology. Checking e-mail all day…I could do without!
I look forward to your next entry and keep getting stronger before your next round.
Beverly and the rest of our team here in Lake Oswego!
Beverly Meehan sales@cplakeoswego.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 04:06 PM, CDT
Hi Ray, I was thinking about you today and wanted to know how you were. I am sure Starbucks’s misses you as one of their best customers! We are thinking of you and can’t wait to hear you beat it!
Marka Graham
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 03:55 PM, CDT
Hi Ray….I did happen to drive by Starbuck’s in Peachtree City on Sunday, and it was empty, and the service team looked very lonely. You are not just missed by them, but by all of of us. I so respect your determination, and I know how focused Julie must be now as well. You have lots of prayers floating up from me daily…thanks for sharing your experiences with all of us. I hope you will stay positive knowing how many of us are with you in spirit! Stay strong and keep us jealous with your sleep habits!!!!
Linda Montgomery linda.montgomery@ihg.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 12:49 PM, CDT
Thanks for the updates – “You don’t eat Meat”( My big Fat Greek Wedding) looks like I may heading down that path too. Hang in there and stay strong – you have a lot of people who care about you and are in your corner!
Tom Mathews tom.mathews@ihg.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 12:47 PM, CDT
I’m a semi-vegi person too, but I just can’t stay away from that vension – we have so much of it, and it’s the humane thing to do for us hunters! But tell me where you get your protein from….. you’ve gotta have that protein for energy! Let me know. Kimmie
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 12:38 PM, CDT
Mr. Shepard!
I just found out about this site and I am thrilled to be able to receive your updates on here. I’ve been thinking about you so much since the news of your returning ilness. I was completely taken back by the news. You are in my prayers every day.
You are such an incredible person. Reading your journal entries amazes me. You are still so “Ray” through all of this. So patient, so strong, and so positive about your situation. You are a true inspiriation
Smiles, thoughts & prayers,
Andrea
Andrea Cook
Edmonton, AB
Canada
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 12:28 PM, CDT
All this is wonderful .. your body is resting and adjusting to new ways of living. You will be healthier and stronger and ready to get addl. treatment eventually.
In the meantime – take time out from preparing presentations and put your head back and just listen to the birds. Listen for a bit of Gershwin – there was a bird that used to sit outside my parents’ house who sang the first few notes of Rhapsody in Blue.
With love and strength – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 12:22 PM, CDT
Hi Ray…I am a lazy semi vegetarian. I don’t eat red meat….I need to drill it down further though and you are inspriring me to get busy and cut out all meat. I am jealous of your work environment I must say and of your 13 hours of sleep….just can’t seem to get more that 6 or 7 even when I am off…I just wake up !!! I just wanted to say “hey” I think of you everyday.
Shawn (CP Orlando Airport)
Shawn Maxwell
TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 12:05 PM, CDT
Dear Ray,
Sounds like you are catching up on rest – which is a good thing and working on your porch is out of this world. I am enjoying reading your journal everyday and keeping up with all the innovative treatments and diets you are exploring. No Starbucks for 13 days is amazing….I should probably follow your lead. You are an inspiration to all of us and we think of you daily. Take care.
Cindy Novotny
Orange County, California
Cindy Novotny cindynovotny@masterconnection.com
MONDAY, AUGUST 11, 2008 02:43 PM, CDT
What a great experience Ray and Julie,
Do you have a Juiceman? I would love to send you one if you do not have one. It is absolutely the best for smoothies, and healthy juice drinks. It has a wonderful cookbook that has all kinds of recipes in it. You can use whole apples, carrots, grapes, ginger, etc and make really delicious drinks that are healthy for you. Let me know as this could make your life easier.
I would love to attend this camp and thanks for sharing the website. Keep us posted as to the outcome of this week. Possibly it would be good to wait and rest for an additional week before you start your next treatment. As always, our prayers and good “Healthy” angels are with you both.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 11, 2008 01:48 PM, CDT
Ray,
I just learned you were out sick last week. With you traveling so much, I never thought twice about not seeing you for so long! I want to let you know that I’m pulling for you, and I think it’s great you are taking the food/diet so seriously. I’m not a big health freak, but there’s enough evidence out there to show that the things you put into your body can have a huge effect on your overall chemistry. Unfortunately, very few in your situation give this a chance. I really admire you for that. I don’t want to overload you on health theories, but all the stuff on Ph and alkaline/acid balance in the body is pretty compelling too. There’s list of recommended foods all over the internet, including this: http://www.angelfire.com/az/sthurston/acid_alkaline_foods_list.html
and there are Ph strips you can buy at the drug store to monitor your balance. All the best for your next round of treatments!
Rob
Robert Radomski
SUNDAY, AUGUST 10, 2008 07:45 PM, CDT
Ray, you sound so much better! I’ glad to hear it. There’s alot to be said for healthy living. I hope it will be a big help to you as you continue ‘the battle’. Good luck tomorrow and the rest of the week. I’ll be thinking about you.
Susan Beadle
SUNDAY, AUGUST 10, 2008 04:46 PM, CDT
Ray,
MPI is just not the same without you!!! Keep your head up and good luck with this week.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
SUNDAY, AUGUST 10, 2008 02:50 PM, CDT
Happy Sunday Ray,
Charles and I came down to the Shack yesterday afternoon. Kristina and her friends headed back to Richmond. We met with our investment banker ( who comes to Sandbridge for holidays from Ohio) at Aldo’s Ristorante for dinner last evening. They had a piano player which is unusual these days. The food was o.k. but the olive oil ( good Italian olive oil must have some healing powers) and foccacio were scrumptious! That is how I judge Italian restaurants. Charles is over at the boat now closing up and we are having quite a storm now. Just blew in suddenly. This morning when I walked Sailor , the dolphins were back. You know it is getting cooler. We have had tons of sea weed this week. That is a very strange occurence.
Your stay at the healing center sounded interesting. Since I have been a vegetarian for 30 years, being a vegan is VERY TRICKY getting all one’s nutrients so be careful. You might feel better but the insides might not be so happy. I mean bones, muscles etc.. I hope your kidneys are up for another treatment. Please explain to me how interleukin effects one’s kidneys. I don’t quite understand it. A patient of ours is really into Acia (sp?) juice. Supposed to be the source of the highest antioxidant. A little too sweet for my liking. I prefer pomegrantes!
Not much else happening. Just work and thinking of you a lot. I feel a part of your healing process with your nice emails. It is good to hear from you.
Give Julie and the boys our greetings.
Hope all goes well with the next treatment.
Tina
What is Julies email address?
tina bonner
SUNDAY, AUGUST 10, 2008 10:57 AM, CDT
I’m seeing all these emails recommending cranberry juice and it reminds me of the old movie The Graduate when Dustin Hoffman is at a party and his father’s friend comes up to him with the Big Secret…Plastics.
I’m wondering how much weight you have lost now that you’re on the vegatarian diet?? Please don’t spread that around Corporate HQ as they might make all of us do it since they are on an expense cutting move. I hope your kidneys will hold up and support the next round of treatments. Good luck with it and stay positive.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SATURDAY, AUGUST 09, 2008 08:01 PM, CDT
Hey Ray! I am so glad you are feeling good, I can hear the energy in your writing and also in the emails I am getting!
Got to Vegas this morning, all is great. Had the Pre-Con and again, I have such a great team. JJ, Deborah and the others all send you much love and well wishes. I got to chat with Danielle earlier too and she, as always, asks about you.
Its 103 here today…so believe me, you are better off at home! I will let you know how the booth goes but if its like last week we are going to do great!!
Love to you both,
Stacie
stacie day
SATURDAY, AUGUST 09, 2008 07:58 PM, CDT
THIS is good news .. and being vegans (no more soup from me!) will make you much healthier in general. It may also lead to some great changes in the CP menus – which would also be terrific – and a new marketing campaign.
I am thrilled!
Keep us posted as you can from the hospital. Will they let you go home if you aren’t going to get treatment?
Sending love and hope and faith in this newness – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SATURDAY, AUGUST 09, 2008 05:54 PM, CDT
Hey there Ray and Julie,
It’s Saturday afternoon and I’m preparing dinner for some friends that will stay with us tonight. Last night was the opening night of the Olympics and all I kept thinking about was Ray deserves the GOLD! I hope you are able to have a few days without the pain and fatigue. How was camp? Try eating pickled beets and drink alot of Cranberry juice that will help those mean kidneys. Wishing you and your family love and a ton of support for the next two weeks. We miss you out here. But just want you to know that YOUR sales team is keeping in touch with each other and trying to get those numbers up just for you. Still sending you those good angels.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
FRIDAY, AUGUST 08, 2008 01:14 PM, CDT
RayRay: I just learned of your blog, and wanted to reach out to say hey to my old IHG buddy. It has been a long while since our last chat, but I wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. Be well. – Rob
Robert Bezner
THURSDAY, AUGUST 07, 2008 04:05 PM, CDT
It’s a hundred trillion degress in Vegas – ok.. a slight exaggeration! .. and I’m glad we are both staying in our respective homes. I wish it were otherwise that you were able to go and decided not to.
Thinking good thoughts .. sending positive energy .. and lots of love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, AUGUST 07, 2008 08:28 AM, CDT
Dear Ray, It’s been a while since we talked…obviously too long. Sorry to hear you are in pain……I hope the new diet approach will make a difference…what do they say, garbage in garbage out…it’s just as true for our bodies…we don’t pay enough attention to what we eat, and what it does to us. Cranberry juice…great for the kidneys!!
Know I’m thinking about you, and wishing you good things…back here, just the same old thing, trying to get the magazines out each month…in most cases, we are succeeding!
You take good care, and I’ll stop in at your booth at MPI…make sure they’re all behaving themselves!! All the best, Karen
Karen Smith karen.smith@meetingsmedia.com
Fort Lauderdale, FL
United States
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 06, 2008 07:55 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
Glad to hear from you and about your new found knowledge. Keep up the good work.
Love Sam and Malou
Sam Craven
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 09:04 PM, CDT
Thanks for including me Ray. We will miss you in Vegas this weekend. I’ll bet $20 on a hard 6 for your charity, we’ll see. You will be on our mind in in our hearts take care and rest.
Dirk Thomas
Dirk Thomas dthomas@mpiweb.org
Fort Worth, TX
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 07:06 PM, CDT
We love Tina,eh-Ray? Great joke. talk about value platforms!
As you can, tell us more about the wellness center you’ve found. I gather it is not the one I mentioned as it sounds more encompassing.
Perhaps give all your avid listeners a health tip of the day from one who is really living in the thick of it versus our Los Angeles anorexic Hollywood or Golds Gym types who preach the good life and then get nabbed for drugs!
Bye for now. Deb
Deborah Shepard
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 02:04 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I am so sorry that you are going through this but I know that with all the support you have, love from friends and family that we will help pull you through this. We are all here for you, Julie and the boys but you already know that.
A more holistic approach and the wellness center is very interesting. They are finding a lot of validity to that with other forms of cancer such as Pancreatic Cancer and I think we will find that our own bodies and what we put in them can boost a damaged immune system and help fight disease.
I am always thinking about you, talking about you and I always have a smile on my face when I am the only one on the NJ Turnpike singing country music LOUDLY from the inside of my car. I can’t wait to do that again with you. Lots of good memories.
I think that the fact you are writing to us shows your resilience and strength. Nothing is going to beat you Ray!
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 09:46 AM, CDT
This is Kimmie and Dee at the beach – although Galveston is getting wind and rain, it’s beautiful here in North Padre Island. Good to hear from you – tell us what we should be eating….. take care and keep up posted. Kimmie and Dee
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 09:13 AM, CDT
Ray,
It was good to hear from you. I am sorry to hear that you went into decline when you got home. Hard to be out of the hospital when one’s body reacts so to medication. I know not unexpected but challenging nonetheless. Glad to hear that you are looking into alternative treatment. A friend of mine who had breast cancer did a totally organic diet as treatment and that was twenty years ago. I think it is easier now with more available. Keep up the research because traditional medicine is not always the answer. I am interested to learn more about it. Is there a website? At least you were home with your family.
We had a quiet weekend at the beach. The weather was beautiful. Hot but a breeze. I went to the antique Show at Virginia Beach. Thought of Julie a lot when I was looking at all the beautiful linens and TEAPOTS. I found a great 1859 Coast Guard chart of the mouth of the Bay where our house is so I got it for Charles for his b day which is coming up on the 15th of this month. ( of course the framing cost more than the chart)It was a huge show at the convention center. Frank Bonner was celebrating his retirement. He sold his rehab hospital in Vineland to HCS for 14 Million Dollars. Some of the Bonners should have been business men and not doctors!!! His health has not been good. He had a stroke last October so he needs to retire. Bill’s son is looking at colleges. He hopes to play lacrosse in college. They were just up in Providence R.I. looking at Providence College. Dennis’ decided to start sailing Flying Scotts after his son Patrick died in February and he has been busy every weekend on the sailing circuit. That is about all the news from the Bonner clan.
As Norman Cousins believes,humor is a great healer. So I am sending you a joke!!! Thought you would enjoy the comparison to hotels!!!!!
A Florida couple, both well into their 80s, go to a sex therapist’s
office. The doctor asks, ‘What can I do for you?’ The man says, ‘Will
you watch us have sexual intercourse?’
The doctor raises both eyebrows, but he is so amazed that such an
elderly couple is asking for sexual advice that he agrees. When the
couple finishes, the doctor says, ‘There’s absolutely nothing wrong
with the way you have intercourse.’
He thanks them for coming, he wishes them good luck, he charges them
$50 and he says good bye. The next week, the same couple returns and asks
the sex therapist to watch again. The sex therapist is a bit puzzled, but
agrees.
This happens several weeks in a row. The couple makes an
appointment, has intercourse with no problems, pays the doctor, then
leave.
Finally, after 3 months of this routine, the doctor says, ‘I’m sor ry,but
I have to ask. Just what are you trying to find out?’ The man says,
‘We’re not trying to find out anything. She’s married so we can’t go
to her house.I’m married and we can’t go to my house. The Holiday Inn
charges $98. The Hilton charges $139. We do it here for $50, and
I get $43 back from Medicare.
Thought you might like that.
We keep you in our special prayers. Hope you continue to be on the mend. It is amazing that proteins can be so destructive to one’s kidneys.
Love all around.
Tina
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tina bonner
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 08:37 AM, CDT
…Still have you and your family in my prayers.
Kevin James
Kevin James kevin.james@ihg.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 08:27 AM, CDT
Hey Ray Ray- another quiet day here in the office…I’ve been catching up and working on some thingsfor us. Nothing major has come across so right now things are quiet as we head toward the Co-Op meetings.
We are ready for MPI and as Deborah said below, we got her in with a last minute cancellation so we have a great group going- I am in good hands!
I am glad you are getting the rest you need and its good to hear about the new diet. Do they let you have coffee??? Jen will be so proud that you are eating so well!! Maybe you will inspire me to put my hamburgers down??
Take care, rest, follow what they are telling you up there and give me a call if you need anything at all.
Love to you both,
stacie day
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 06:56 AM, CDT
Ray, sorry to hear that you’re going through so much pain. It must be tough to keep the morale up when you’re fighting that kind of stuff. The holistic approach sounds very interesting as does the diet. Since others are giving you advise on this, I thought I would too. I stay away from anything green and focus on wholesome foods like huge steaks, donuts and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. As you can tell from my fine physique, it has worked wonders for me. Ray, we’re getting into revpar targets and marketing plans now, so just think back a few years when you had to do 3 of them at one time and you’ll feel better !!
Sure hope these coming days will bring less pain and some healing. We miss getting all those Ray Shepard emails….I can get through my in box in lightning speed these past few weeks !!
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
TUESDAY, AUGUST 05, 2008 06:31 AM, CDT
Hey Ray, sorry to hear that recovery has been so difficult. I’m glad to hear that you are out there exploring all options. Although I agree that a holistic approach is very important don’t rule out all of the great hospitals and research that is going on around the country and world with new and innovative drugs and therapies. If you get a chance I would highly recommend that you listen in to the Jimmy Fund Telethon next week. This is one of the oldest organizations established by the Boston Red Sox to raise money to find a cure for all kinds of cancer. They work in conjunction with one of the best cancer research hospitals in the world; Dana-Farber in Boston. You can listen in by typing in www.weei.com and listen to the streaming audio; lots of inspirational stories and so much you can learn in just 48 hours. Keep fighting!
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dan morreo
MONDAY, AUGUST 04, 2008 09:09 PM, CDT
That you wrote at all, Ray, is remarkable. And my frustration and anger that all this is happening is .. well, high. Rhetorical questions: Did Emory not realize that your body was failing you? How did they not notice? And your neck and THAT pain .. ugh .. enough.
Glad about the wellness center (we have one here and I promise to find out more) – and that it may be helpful. I want you to have better treatment. NOW!
Glad the chicken soup and bread were a good thing.
Sending love to you and Julie and “the boys” – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 04, 2008 02:48 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. You are so gracious to come see me in DC. Now, it is time for me to turn that attention to you.
I’m looking forward to reading your journal and staying close by on all updates. I’m thinking of you and will pray of good news coming your way.
Again, thank you Ray for sharing. I’m enjoying getting to know you more each time we converse. I’m here for you always. I treasure our friendship, Deborah
Deborah Gardner deborah@deborahgardner.com
Phoenix, AZ
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 04, 2008 11:08 AM, CDT
Reasonably beautiful day here in DC – not as hot as it has been or it will be (tomorrow I hear) – and thinking about you.
Sending strength .. and sending love and laughter. I concur w/ the post about the Wellness Center – they have lots to offer.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
MONDAY, AUGUST 04, 2008 07:59 AM, CDT
Hey Ray, Julie & “the boys”,
I have been thinking about you and praying for all of you. I hope you are regaining your strength and spending some time resting. I noticed you have not updated your journal since Thursday which I hope is a sign that you are getting the rest you need.
God Bless,
Tina
Tina Lyle
SUNDAY, AUGUST 03, 2008 09:54 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
Hope being at home these last few days have made you both feel better.
Keep us posted on your treatment and your MRI.
Our prayers are with you both.
Love Sam and Malou
Malou Craven
SATURDAY, AUGUST 02, 2008 10:36 AM, CDT
Know that we who are in a place of caregiving or the victim pray for our patience and strength to do today what we must do One Day At A Time with Love.
Marlene Sandvig marted51@aol.com
FRIDAY, AUGUST 01, 2008 10:30 PM, CDT
Ray and Julie,
It is a Friday night and I rather jot you a note than go to my dance class. You are constantly on my mind, as with all the wonderful folks entering into this journal.
On the ‘any hints’ side of things: One of the holistic ideas that Bart loved the most was a patient oriented Tai Chi and/or Chi Kong (Spelling is wrong, I’m sure) class if you can find one. The organization he found wonderful for such programs is The Wellness Community (thewellnesscommunity.org). In Atlanta:
5775 Peachtree Dunwoody Road
Suite C-225,Atlanta, GA 30342
Ph: 404.843.1880,Fax: 404.843.1780
It seems we’ve discussed this, but just in case. Please keep up your wonderful drive and energy to continue to fight. Will miss you at MPI Las Vegas (yup, I am back in). Will check in again soon. Deb (‘little sis’)
Deborah Shepard
FRIDAY, AUGUST 01, 2008 09:50 PM, CDT
Hey Ray Ray- I hope you are enjoying being home tonight as much as I am…I am so glad to be out of earthquake territority! Julie updated me today and I am glad you are looking at all options. Open mind, that is the way to work through this.
The call today went great, we are all set for MPI. I can tell I’m going to have another great group and I can’t wait to work the booth with them.
Rest this weekend and don’t overdue it, ok? You too Julie!!!
Love,
Stacie
stacie day
FRIDAY, AUGUST 01, 2008 05:33 PM, CDT
Will be curious to hear what the MRI reveals and what’s next.
Glad to hear that there will be lifestyle enhancements (doesn’t THAT sound like marketing?!) for you .. it will help.
Sending love for a peaceful weekend. – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
FRIDAY, AUGUST 01, 2008 10:47 AM, CDT
Dear Ray,
Great to hear you are home. I know that must be much better! Our team at MCA shares updates everyday on your progress and everyone sends positive thoughts and prayers. Keep the faith.
Always know that we are supporting ‘The Force” daily in your adsence!
All my best, Lefty
Lefty Novotny
THURSDAY, JULY 31, 2008 07:01 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
It is so nice imagining you at home rather than in the hospital. I know you feel better already. Sorry you have to spend Friday back at Emory. We are going back to the Shack this weekend. Kristina is taking over the next weekend because there is a Dave Mathews concert on Thursday night and a lot of her friends are going to it. I guess we will be on the boat!!!
I know you have to take it easy but I think it is good that you work a little too. It is nice keeping a hand on it and keeping your mind busy.
Has James fixed you that steak dinner?! Would like a description. Keep up the good work. Sounds like you are managing well.
Always in our thoughts. Tina
tina bonner
THURSDAY, JULY 31, 2008 06:07 PM, CDT
Dear Ray
I know the team missed you at NBTA, and according to Robyn, it was a very good tradeshow.
Just want to wish you get better soon and you are in my prayers. Forget about work … and take care of yourself.
Best regards
Winnie Kwok
THURSDAY, JULY 31, 2008 03:33 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I missed you at NBTA but I still remembered your “dos” and “don’ts” from last year! You are in my thoughts and prayers and I am thrilled to hear you are home. Wish you all that you would wish for yourself.
Channa Perera – LAX
Channa Perera channa.perera@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 09:55 PM, CDT
Ray,
You are home!! Your Crowne team has been thinking of you everyday and working hard to make you proud …”selling like crazy.” Your perseverance, determination, and positive outlook make you an inspiration to all that know you. Rest up and looking forward to speaking with you again soon.
Nathan Park
Baltimore, MD
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 09:18 PM, CDT
Hi Ray & Julie,
So glad to read you finally got to go home. It is hard to sit and wait and sit and wait when all you can think about is ‘Am I going home?’ Your own personal ‘there is no place like home’ ruby slipper moment. I was talking with Nancy earlier and she really encouraged me to read your journal. I am really glad I have. I am so proud of you and your courage and your attitude. I will continue to include both of you in my prayers and will check in regularly.
Ray…I am so glad I have the pleasure to know you and work with you. And I know all the do not work so hard messages will be appreciated for the sentiment and yet somehow I don’t believe that you will really follow the suggestions. So…don’t over do!
Bev
Beverly Meehan sales@cplakeoswego.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 04:23 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I’m going to send this to my nephew who was in stage 4 cancer in his lungs, stomach, back and lymph nodes. I think I mentioned before that his treatment was 5 days of strong chemo twice daily, two days off, then 2 weeks of lighter doses then back to the 5 days on, 2 days off, etc. (4X). The doctors gave my sister no hope of saving his life but they forgot to factor in prayer. Anyway, he was 20 and he’s now 25 so there you go :). I’ll let Mark tell you if there was anything else that happened to turn the tables.
Lots of love, prayer and best wishes,
Marilyn, CPRB
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill
Redondo Beach, CA
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 02:40 PM, CDT
Ray and Julie, welcome home…there’s no bed like your own…this includes a CP Sleep Advantage Bed!!! While we love reading your updates…take a day or two off from the emails to sleep and relax. Congrats on your success with round one of Chemo. Enjoy some junk food and the soap operas…as if! Take care of yourself and you too Julie.
Don/Astor CP New Orleans
Don Zimmer dzimmer@astorneworleans.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 02:00 PM, CDT
Sir Ray,
As I’ve told you many times, you are my Hero. Relentless perseverance, true grit and the inexhaustible ability to sport a smile are just a few of your benchmarks.
You have the determination of a Georgia Bulldog and the grace of a Tom Glavine change up. Your heart dwarfs the Georgia Dome. Your patience runs longer and wider than Peachtree St.
You’re the right guy to teach for our young sales managers, inspire the older ones like me and help lead the Crowne Plaza brand to success. With you on our team, Marriott, Hyatt & Hilton become obsolite. I book Crowne Plaza because of Ray Shepard.
Thanks for your support over the past several years. I’m anxious to start our next project. Hey, let’s get started on next year’s CP Showcase!
I’ll be back in touch soon. Welcome your call anytime.
Michael Joseph
Michael Joseph michael.joseph@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 12:08 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie – you have been in my thoughts and prayers Ray and I am delighted to know that you are finally home.
Continue to take care of yourself and I know you can out smart the cancer.
I miss working with you and the entire Crowne Plaza team.
Take care,
Matt
Matt Swanson matts@wiotel.com
San Jose, CA
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 11:32 AM, CDT
What a great morning Ray and Julie,
FINALLY home to relax and I know you want to work Ray. Got a project I want to talk to you about when you have time. Don’t push yourself back into the saddle too quickly, we want you around for along time. I know it’s got to be heaven to sleep in your own bed and listen to the birds singing outside. I’m sure that Julie enjoys the same and doesn’t have to look forward to the inflatable alternative for a few weeks. Sounds like you are doing as well as can be expected, with great Doctors. Thanks for giving us some awesome news out here. Enjoy!!!
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 11:11 AM, CDT
This is such fantastic news Ray and Julie! I am sorry I have not been writing as often as I truly wanted to but with all the bookings turning definite for CROWNE PLAZA via Merck, it has been tough. Ray, you made quite an impact on them…not a surprise and they are coming through and giving us opportunities all over the place so THANK YOU for making that trip with me.
You need to relax….just as important as the treatments is allowing your body to relax and repair itself before your next set of treatments. Of course I know you won’t take my advice and will continue on your Blackberry and no doubt, your laptop but I do hope that Julie will be able to convince you to take some time to repair and rejuvenate. What will Julie do without a pole on premises though for the next 2-3 weeks:))
I am so glad that you are feeling better. Did the doctor ever speak to you about treatments that can be taken along with the medical treatment that are more holistic in order to boost your immune system. Not to sound crazy but I know that Kambucha has worked well in the past with patients on Chemotherapy…but PLEASE ask your doctor as this is completely unsolicited information. I drink it myself every day – not tasty – if you can imagine what a foot would taste like, you’re getting close. Sorry to be so graphic but hey, what are friends if you can’t be straight with them, right.
Ray and Julie, you are always in my thoughts and in my prayers all day. I send you much love and await your next journal entry. It always lifts my spirit when I see that you have written to all of us again.
All my love and REST!!!!!
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 10:00 AM, CDT
Wonderful news you’re both home at last! Am so sorry your treatment is not friendly and your kidneys keep rebelling. Unfortunately, there are no easy treatments…… You ask for what others may have done. While my mother was battling ovarian cancer at MD Anderson, a research representative came by our treatment room and asked if we would be interested in trying a test treatment. We declined. I still wonder if that was the best decision because a year after my mother passed away, it was discovered that the chemicals were dramatically more effective in reducing ovarian tumors if introduced directly into the body cavity rather than through the bloodstream. Was that the test treatment we declined? Probably. If they offer a test treatment, ask for more information about it. Others I have known who were being treated outside of Houston made the trip here for a “second opinion” from MD Anderson on treatment options just to be sure what they were getting was the cutting edge treatment. I’m very happy to hear you are exploring options. I read a lot of research during that time about foods and teas. You may want to explore that as a little supplemental insurance. Meanwhile, prayers are at work for you and they produce amazing results. Have Julie buy you the book Happier than God. You know me—never remember the authors’ name but it’s all about manifesting outcomes in your life. It’s an incredible book—don’t let the title scare you away. It’s about working hand in hand with God. It has already made differences in my own life in just a matter of months! It’s where I got the quote “Name it. Claim it. Believe it. Receive it”. Once you read the book you’ll see how it can definitely be an option.
Much love
MCL
Mary Catherine Lamza
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 09:49 AM, CDT
Great news Ray – home is a wonderful place…. unless you have the Kyle living with you (just kidding, don’t repeat that, Mother will be upset with me!) – Take care and keep us posted. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner
WEDNESDAY, JULY 30, 2008 08:09 AM, CDT
Ray,
Just a quick note to say hello and send well wishes! Daniel Nelson is out at NBTA and has been keeping me updated on the conference and told me about this site. What a great way to keep in touch with everyone. You are blessed to have so many friends! Get well, because the image of you making balloon animals out of exam gloves is scaring me!
Regards,
Chris Zindash, GM CP Rockville
Chris Zindash christopher.zindash@cprockville.com
Rockville, MD
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 05:25 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
I finally got on to the caring pages. Malou sent me the email. Hope you are able to go home. We think of you everyday. I have the Springfield Dominican Nuns praying for you. They are the ones that taught my children at Holy Angles.
Just finished my 2 papers for the classes I took this summer. YEA!! now it is time to turn my attention toward Michigan and packing. I found the pictures of the 1988 visit. We were all a lot thinner! You and Julie were chasing flies. Do you remember that. The flies would come in everytime the kids went in and out of the door. We don’t have to worry about that now with the new place.
Keep up the positive healing. Liking and trusting your doctor is half the battle.
Love,
Sandy & Mike
Sandy Funkey
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 04:30 PM, CDT
Your energy sounded better, Ray – and the activities are “can’t be missed” ones. They really do all those for patients? Ok.. not the animals from surgical gloves maybe but the picnic on the roof?!
Is your doc’s patience rubbing off on Julie? YOU sound fairly patient .. knowing that they will do all they can to get your kidneys and other body functions ready for all the treatment.
Sending love from very hot Vegas where I did a session today for DMAI – one more tomorrow. – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 04:10 PM, CDT
Wow Ray…you’re back!! So great to hear your ‘voice’ again. I couldn’t agree more with your sentiment. It is so very important to have utmost faith in your doc. Makes the unbearable more bearable, yes? We miss you in Los Angeles. Had an earthquake a couple of hours ago. Adding to the excitement here! Keep us posted and hope you’re headed home very soon.
Susan Beadle
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 11:54 AM, CDT
Well I know I have some news you want to hear–Our booth traffic was great for the first few hours of the show (it slowed as we got close to the evening activities) and we got some AMAZING leads! Everyone was really excited about the quality of the leads that came in. As always, Global Sales came by with some clients and Mike/Susie stopped in as well and everyone was asking about you and sending prayers your way. All in all it was a great day on the tradeshow floor and I know you would be proud! We sure do have a great team with me…they are doing such an incredible job.
I know you hate still having to be there, but it was really good to hear your voice yesterday. It was just what I needed…it lifted the spirits of everyone in the booth when I said I had just talked to you…they were, as always, amazed at your resilence.
Take care today, I am so glad you got out to have that Starbucks- I mean, you are probably going through withdrawls not having at least 3 cups by 9am!
Miss you guys and wishing you lots of rest and relaxation today so those kidneys will get with the program!!!
stacie day
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 11:31 AM, CDT
Well…. I think I’ll fly in for the sunbathing on the roof! I’ll bring the champagne…. Sounds good to me! Glad things are getting better… Derry and I are madly working so we can have 2 days off next week for the beach. Mom and Dad, Missy’s kids, Billy, Vera, Kevin, the Kyle (the nephew who is living at 10 Ledge Lane), and Derry and I are going to lovely Padre Island on Friday – no hurricane predicted. so that’s good. But, the beach isn’t what it used to be, since we now lube up with 50+ sunscreen, stay under the tent and run from the tent to the inside…. oh well – it’s nice to look at the gulf! Keep us posted, we are always thinking of you all… Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 11:03 AM, CDT
Ray,
Just wanted to drop a quick note to let you know that I and the team here in Irvine are all thinking about you and wishing you a speedy recovery. Take great care!
Justin Gammon justin.gammon@ihg.com
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 11:02 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Still thinking about you and wishing you a speedy recovery. Sid Siddiqi, my GM, wanted me to send you his regards and prayers as well. All of us at the Crowne Plaza Houston River Oaks are anxious to be working with you so hurry up and get better. We should reflag very soon! The best to you family.
Debbie Hollier
Debbie Hollier
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 11:00 AM, CDT
Ray,
Congrats on winning your lap race just another sign that you are getting stronger. Hope to hear your going home soon…a great dinner is awaiting. Julie sorry to hear you lost your pole, but glad to hear it is gone.
All the best, Christine
Christine Mazzoli christine.mazzoli@ihg.com
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 10:55 AM, CDT
RAY,
It was REALLY good to hear from you. Glad your creatinine levels are going down and that you are slowly getting your strength back. I hope you get home soon because I think you will heal better at home. Sounds like you are getting good treatment and it means a lot if you like your doctor.
Hi to Julie and the boys. Our special love to you Ray.
Tina
tina bonner
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 10:53 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Glad you are feeling better today! I do hope you are headed home. It sounds like you have a special treat on the grill waiting for you.
A lot of people have been asking about you at the office and everyone sends their thoughts and prayers.
Continue to focus on getting healthy, Jen
Jen Franklin
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 10:50 AM, CDT
Ray,
I am so glad you had a Starbucks and I am so excited for you to go home! THANKS for the updates! Julie- you are Remarkable!
LIVE STRONG!
Kayce Boettcher
TUESDAY, JULY 29, 2008 10:28 AM, CDT
Ray, Hope this message reaches you at home today. Our prayers are with you. Hope energy returns and you can enjoy some well deserved time off.
Love always,
Malou and Sam
Malou Craven skip2malou04@aol.com
Houston, TX
MONDAY, JULY 28, 2008 08:30 PM, CDT
Damn Ray, you are one popular dude. It’s great to see all of the people you have touched staying on top of your “ordeal”. I hope you and Julie stay positive as it certainly beats the alternative.Thanks for keeping us informed about your health. Funnel that unique energy that you have and you will beat this damn thing.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
MONDAY, JULY 28, 2008 06:48 PM, CDT
Ray, I’m thinking about you and praying for you, Julie and the boys. I know the treatments can be rough (especially the side effects), but hopefully they’ll do what they’re supposed to…extinguish the cancer cells. I know you’re a fighter and you’ll continue on with determination! But, take time to rest and don’t worry about CP emails!
Stacy Bedsole
Atlanta, GA
MONDAY, JULY 28, 2008 06:34 PM, CDT
Hey Ray,
Just wanted you to know that people from my church have called, emailed and come up to me at church to let me know that they are praying for you . God has blessed you with such a positive attitude and I suspect that that, in turn, has had a positive impact on your other bouts with cancer. In addition to healing, I will pray that God gives you the strength to keep your positive outlook. You’re a very special person and much loved!
Marilyn
CP Redondo Beach
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill marilyn.atchue@ihg.com
Redondo Beach, CA
United Kingdom
MONDAY, JULY 28, 2008 06:23 PM, CDT
DO NOT tax yourself, Ray – this is a tough time and you need energy to help your body. Let us know if you go home or if you stay at Emory.
For now .. the rest is good .. even if it doesn’t feel like it for you.
Sending strength and love and prayers – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt
Washington, DC
United States
MONDAY, JULY 28, 2008 12:00 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
Hope you are on the way home and can rest. What sort of treatment plan is ahead of you. I guess it all depends on how you handle the treatment or shall we say, it handles you.
Charles Jr. is back at Kings Point. He did a 35 mile bike ride on Long Island this weekend raising money for wounded veterans.( two rides got $100,000.00) He did it which is good after having had Guillane Barre less than two years ago. Kristina went out to Va. Tech to visit friends and Charles and I were at the beach. Can you believe in Va. Beach in July, it was too cool to eat outside at nine p.m. We don’t get down until late on Friday and we had to eat inside!!! Didn’t last long.
I think Ray will mend better at home with a good home cooked meal!!
Greetings and love from Virginia. Tina
tina bonner
MONDAY, JULY 28, 2008 09:50 AM, CDT
Julie and Ray, I keep up with your news daily through Cyn. Soooo glad the kidneys are moving in the right direction again. Julie, I simply cannot believe you haven’t reorganized the hospital by now and have it running more efficiently. You know you could do it. My thoughts and prayers are with ya’ll daily. Love, Patty
Patty Scott pattybscott@gmail.com
Alexandria, LA
United States
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 07:33 PM, CDT
Hi Ray Ray and Julie,
Checking in from Vancouver – attending the CMP Conclave…need some of those Crowne Plaza CMP’s to attend…out of 250 CMP’s, I am the only one from the IHG family…put that on 2009’s list…
Anyway – hope that you are packing up for home tomorrow. Rest and be well – I’ll be thinking of you both!
Love, Anne
Anne Roth
Hagerstown, MD
United States
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 06:39 PM, CDT
Great news Julie! Keep us posted! Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 02:39 PM, CDT
Everything is in great hands and looks wonderful! Stacie is taking good care of us. We miss you. Get well!
Daniel Nelson daniel.nelson@cprockville.com
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 02:29 PM, CDT
Hey Ray Ray and Julie- got to LA this morning…you would be so proud, the booth looks amazing and set up all ready for tomorrow! I will take pictures and send your way as I can…Julie, house pictures are coming soon, I promise!!
I am at the Holiday Inn as your daughter (that is what I had to tell them to make sure they gave me your room- didn’t you say I always was?!)
In the resturant with some of the hotels and they have all asked about you and are sending you lots of well wishes…we know this show is not the same without you here leading the booth but I’m trying to make you proud every step of the way.
You really would be proud, I even walked to the convention center- I’m trying to do more of that like you to give me some “me” time on these trips.
Take it easy and eat lots of french fries if that’s the only thing you want! Just make sure you eat a ton of them and other stuff if you can. You have to keep up your energy!
Ok, off to the Pre-Con…Many many hugs coming towards you guys and let me know if there is anything I need to do!
Stacie
stacie day
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 02:09 PM, CDT
Going home means to rest and wait for the next treatment?
And you BOTH have every right to be incredibly frustrated! The medical system in this country is .. not so good.
btw: Aren’t french fries the answer to everything?! Ok… no .. I know they aren’t but I get it .. sometimes there are foods that just hit the spot when nothing else can.
Let us know what’s next – how long at home, when you go back to Emory and all that.
Sending love and HEALTH! – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 12:10 PM, CDT
Beautiful morning in Northern CA. Julie, your last update really hit home with me. A few years ago my husband, Mark was run down and not feeling well. We saw 4 Dostors and all of them said, no worries your as healthy as an Ox. Exercise, lose a few lbs and you will be fine. We have a massage therapist that comes to the house every so often. I called him and he spent 2 1/2 hours on Mark. Afterwards he said may I talk to both of you for a minute!!!! Get yourself to a cardiologist ASAP!! The next day I called a Doctor at Stanford and they said there was a 6 months waiting list. I was so persistent and said if you DON’T see him he may not be here in 6 months. Finally, they said come to the office and if someone cancels we will see him. Off we went to the office. Sure enough, almost 5 hours later someone no showed. Mark didn’t even last 2 minutes on the treadmill. Dr. Anderson said he was sure glad that I didn’t give up and just assume he was going to be OK because his left artery was 98% clogged. So after an angioplasty he has been fine. I agree, the entire Medical “SYSTEM” is awful. Too expensive, Staff overworked, and Doctor’s overwhelmed. I’m hoping you will go home today and enjoy the singing birds and your own space. Just know, we all care and hope your day is awesome.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 09:20 AM, CDT
Sorry to hear about the run around. I think we all know that it is all too common in our hospital systems and for what it’s worth, my brother in law in Germany experiences the same stuff. This is when it’s good to have a loving wife who won’t trade excuses for action !! Keep the faith you two.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 09:16 AM, CDT
Ray/Julie, it’s such a shame that when all your attention and energy should be devoted to dealing with the treatment, much of it must be devoted to demanding the proper care. Julie, you’ve got a tough job on your hands as well. Thank goodness you’re up to the task. Now you know ‘the lay of the land’ and you can deal with it accordingly. What do patients do when they don’t have smart and capable family members to advocate for them? I shutter to think!!
G-d bless you both.
Susan Beadle
SUNDAY, JULY 27, 2008 07:33 AM, CDT
Green today for life .. and hoping that this day is a better one. Know the frustration, Julie & Ray, of dealing w/ medical personnel who are overworked, underpaid and overwhelmed. HATE that you are dealing w/ this in addition to melanoma. It’s dumb that the hospital is not able to make it all work.
Hoping today that your body, Ray, is on the ‘mend’ and will be able to resume treatment. It’s that awful waiting that makes it worse.
To a better day.
Love – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
SATURDAY, JULY 26, 2008 08:44 PM, CDT
Ray/Julie, hang in there and know we’re all sending good thoughts your way. Hoping you’re out of there soon for some well deserved R&R.
Susan Beadle
SATURDAY, JULY 26, 2008 08:14 PM, CDT
Well, phooey! That explains no notes. Hope you are both resting .. and watching movies .. any movies!
Keep us posted, Julie – hate glitches .. but it’s for the best that your body, Ray, is letting you know what’s enough and what’s needed.
We’ll all do cheers to tell your body to do better!
Sending love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
SATURDAY, JULY 26, 2008 07:52 AM, CDT
Gorgeous blue sky here in DC today. It’s the 100th b’day of the FBI .. and since they are right across the street, I’m thinking of a sign in my office windown wishing them a very happy birthday! (Do you think that might warrant an investigation?! Hope not.)
Like others, I am sure we want to hear that things are hunky dory .. or if not, how things are and how you both are. One of the things I’ve learned about CB is that there is a sense of just hearing a bit of news .. esp. when there is treatment.
If you have a chance today, Sat. (hot and humid in DC despite the beautiful sky that fools you to thinking it’s not so hot!), let us all know how things are.
Sending love and healing – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 25, 2008 06:23 PM, CDT
Hey Ray and Julie,
Well it’s finally Friday. Just wanted you to know that this has been an awesome week. Lots to do and to follow-up on. I know you must be so glad that your treatment this week is almost over. I am so glad to hear that you have done so well. You have so much encouragement out here and everyone has been asking me abpout you, so I refer them to your website.
Catching up on good ‘ol Country Music songs I know was enjoyable. Can’t wait till you can relax in your own home. Wishing you good health and lots of good angels. All the best for you and your family.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 25, 2008 03:52 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and family,
We’re glad to hear you are doing relatively well. We just wanted you to know that we’re thinking about you and sending our well wishes and prayers. Have a wonderful weekend!
Warmest regards,
Crowne Plaza Cherry Hill
Romina Magana rominamagana@cherryhillcrowne.com
FRIDAY, JULY 25, 2008 03:37 PM, CDT
We want to take it that not hearing anything today means it’s a normal day, all systems “go” and all on track.
Sending love – and love the comment from Mary Catherine about the IV pole going home. THAT is what we must know.. or must buy for you Julie!
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
Washington, DC
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 25, 2008 09:07 AM, CDT
That must have been quite a talking-to you gave those kidneys! Good job, Raymond B!
Know you’re anxious to finish up and get home…… Is Julie taking the IV pole home??
Mary Catherine Lamza marycatherine.lamza@ihg.com
Houston, TX
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 06:35 PM, CDT
Just to clarify – we are looking for pictures of Julie pole dancing, not Ray Ray…teehee!
Glad you like the music – it always helps lift my spirits when I’ve got a rhythm to beat to, I hope it does yours too.
I’ll be thinking of you tonight and sending good wishes for another successful treatment!
Ciao for now, Anne
Anne Roth anne.roth@ihg.com
Hagerstown, MD
United States
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 04:49 PM, CDT
WOOHOO!
Thrilled to come back from a long day of client meetings to see you and your kidneys are back on track, Ray! WHAT good news!
Danielle and all – It was such a pleasure to share this site with Ray and Julie – I’ve used it for nearly 1.5 years as I’ve gone through treatment and it’s a G-d-send. Tell others you know about it .. it helps. (And remember to go to the right of the guestbook and DONATE to CB so it keeps going. Nice to do for Ray and for the rest of us!)
Ray and Julie – to a good night – to another treatment under your belts (so to speak) and to some rest.
Julie – you know you CAN post photos on this site – I think we’d all agree we’d like to see the pole-dancing ones. Not as good as a video but .. good.
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 04:08 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
I am loving reading all your notes – you two are fabulous and you have the best lines – Julie, we have not met, but can’t wait to meet you and learn the pole dance myself and Ray – you are the best talker I know….keep giving feedback to the kidneys and the doctors….you know best. Spent the night at Crowne Plaza O’hare last night – thought of you the entire time. Be well….lots of love….Cindy Novotny
Cindy Novotny cindynovotny@masterconnection.com
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 03:29 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
I am so glad you created this site and are keeping us to update with your treatment progress. You have been on my mind, so it’s great to keep up with you. What would we have done without the Internet?!?!
I am so glad to hear that your treatments are going relatively well. If you or Julie need anything – I really mean anything – please let me know. I would be happy to help out. And if you need any extra reading material to help pass the time… you know where to find a golf magazine!
My best to you, Julie and the boys,
Jen
Jen Franklin
Atlanta, GA
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 02:16 PM, CDT
Hi Ray, thought I would check in and see how things are going. Glad to hear that you are tolerating the treatments so far. The hospital food is pretty good huh…yikes…we need to get you out for some real food! Stay positive and keep fighting…we are all pulling for you. Take care.
dan morreo
bristol, RI
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 12:26 PM, CDT
Danielle…
Send Ray some pole-dancing cow GIRLS!
Lu
Lu Sadler l.sadler@naplesbeachhotel.com
Naples, FL
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 12:05 PM, CDT
Hi Ray and Julie,
I am glad that your kidneys listened up and started to “join the group”, now back on track. I do though keep envisioning Julie around the IV pole and it makes me laugh – thanks for the giggle this morning:))
I am so glad that you enjoy the music. Like I said in an earlier entry, when you have had enough of good looking cowboys, just give a loud YEEHAW and we can send you some more.
I can’t wait for the day when we are out on the road together again, crankin’ up some country tunes! That will be special:)))
Keep the faith, you really are such an inspiration and this site is just incredible – thanks Joan…
Thinking of you both and the boys all the time…
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 11:56 AM, CDT
HOORAY !! We are so happy to hear you are progressing through the treatment well. Keep your sunny disposition…it is truly an inspiration to all of us out here !!
Be well and don’t give those nurses a hard time !! I got such a laugh at Julie’s IV pole dancing routine !! I got such a visual…LOL
ALL OUR BEST RAY…..Shawn and Mark at the Crowne Plaza Orlando Airport
Shawn Maxwell
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 11:02 AM, CDT
Good hearing from you Julie – Mom and Dad are here until this afternoon and then back tomorrow… they have a deacon’s retreat. Mom felt sorry for Kyle and went to the commissary to buy him food (since he won’t buy his own) and then I think we will go to lunch at the place he waits tables! Yikes! Take care and we are thinking of you and Ray…. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 10:31 AM, CDT
Hi Julie and Ray,
Julie, I remember how you kept your humor during all those moves you made with Ray. Glad to see it is still there!!! We have just finished up a 36 hour ( extended a little) visit from Charles. He is packed and is heading north to New YOrk. He is going to stop at Billy’s tonight. They are going to a wine tasting together. I would like to be a bug on the wall for that one. Then on Friday he will head to Sag Harbor where his girlfriend’s family have a house and then report to Kings Point on Sunday morning. He is absolutely dreading going back to school at the moment. Kristina arrived home after a wonderful trip to Colorado so we had the kids together for awhile. It has been so much fun. But today, Charles leaves and life returns to the life we have made for ourselves without kids. But we have the shack and love our weekend visits there. Last year we enclosed the screened porch so the house seems a lot bigger even though it is not.
Just want to know that we are all thinking of you and are glad tohave this web site to keep in touch and feel more apart of Ray’s healing process. Hope the kidneys do o.k. Do you have a special Mantra we should be saying for those kidneys? Glad you are feeling o.k. Ray. When do you leave the hospital?
Give our love to the boys and our special hugs and love to you both. Tina
P.S. Julie, where are you staying?
tina bonner
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 10:13 AM, CDT
Good Morning Ray!
Saw Julie’s note this am and glad to hear you two are making this a bit of a theme party…
Cindy stayed at a Crowne Plaza last night when she got stuck in Chicago due to a weather cancellation of her flight. So do not worry, we are definitely supporting the Brand!
Keep the positive attitude and good humor and know everyone at MCA is concerned, inquiring about your status and is sending good thoughts and prayers.
All my best, Lefty
Lefty Novotny
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 09:35 AM, CDT
Good Morning Ray;
Sending extra love to those kidneys today. Thinking of you (and your family) everyday. Julie we have never met, but the pole dancing comment tells me we would get along just great. : )
Humor helps heal!!!
Charlene
Charlene Tierney charlene.tierney@ihg.com
Boston
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 09:27 AM, CDT
Hey Ray- site visit is going well…although I am giving Stacey a hard time with our back to back schedule! So far I’m so impressed with the vendors we are meeting though! The 4th/2nd Annual Sales Summit is going to be an amazing adventure for all of us!
Dinner at “Wish” last night on South Beach (of course we had to try one of the proposed “dine around” places, right?) and it was wonderful. Stacey and I toasted you for choosing this site- you always know the right thing to do…
Well, about to have our second vendor meeting- lots of luck with the treatments today!!! Kidneys-stop acting up and get with the program!
Stacie
PS- Mike’s comment about trying to find your site to the FM site cracked me up!!
stacie day
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 09:16 AM, CDT
Loved the pole dancing line! Thanks for the smile this morning.
I’m so pleased to hear you are doing so well. Just goes to show the power of prayer.
Love this website and the ability to check on you without having to bother you. I have a bunch of People and Golf magazines we can start sending you if you get tired of pole dancing.
Now go get some rest and tell those kidneys to deal with it and move on!
Gina LaBarre
Gina LaBarre gina.labarre@ihg.com
Atlanta, GA
United States
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 08:09 AM, CDT
Good Morning, Ray and Julie! Those darn kidneys think they rule. Just give them a good talking to (like you used to lecture me way back when) and they’ll back down and start behaving. Wow! CW music, a personal pole dancer, and free-flowing coffee! Never realized how much fun one could have in a hospital! Only you two could make it a party
So nice to start my day with a smile instead of worry for you two. Hoping those kidneys shape up and you can get back on track today. Hugs to you both.
Mary Catherine Lamza marycatherine.lamza@ihg.com
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 07:17 AM, CDT
Ray, I have lots of my hotel DOSs asking about your status…all your firiends from CP and HI. The kidney thing is a pain but yet among the many challenges I’m sure you will face and overcome. I’m glad to see so many well wishers in your guestbook….you’ve touched and inspired a lot of people, Ray.
mark ladd
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 07:12 AM, CDT
Hi Julie and Ray,
Julie thanks so much for letting us know how Ray is doing. Ray – you better start talking to those kidneys!
We had absolutely no idea of which artists you prefer but I do recall some great days listening to good ‘ole country music in June!!!! Since then I have been listening to more country – you would be so proud…even sing along now! Of course in New Jersey, you do get some stares but if they don’t know good music, then shame on them!!!
Thinking of you today.
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 06:15 AM, CDT
Julie – I am SURE the hospital workers also love the pole dancing! GOOD for you!
Ray: do lots of self-talk with your kidneys today – and maybe Julie can do some “RAH RAH KIDNEYS” cheers.
Know that a missed treatment means a delayed one .. at the same time, let your body rest a bit.
Sending love to you both .. and thanking you, Julie, for a marvelous sense of humor! Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 05:47 AM, CDT
Goodmorning Ray and Julie– SO HAPPY to hear the coffee is flowing– I lost my cup in the house and will go find it after my message! All seems to be going well– minor hurdle, truly minor hurdle with the latest treatment. (the PCMR program was a bigger battle for you! haha!) You are both lifted in prayer again today in my home. Know that your recovery is one step closer today. hugs–carla c.
carla cannonito
THURSDAY, JULY 24, 2008 03:39 AM, CDT
Good Morning Ray –
I should have known I’d find you on yet another website. Funny thing is I spent 10 minutes this morning looking on the field marketing web site for the hyperlink to get to you!
Just know that I’ve been keeping you and Julie in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike –
Mike McCarthy mike.mccarthy@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 08:17 PM, CDT
First to Kimmie and Derry .. hope you are safe. Sounds like Dolly was moving your way. Let us all know.
Ray .. by now you are ready for the last treatment of the day. That makes it a full cycle – and after 10 tonite, that’s 4 down. Hope you are still feeling good .. or at least decent…and getting foods that are good and good for you.
Julie – hope you slept and made the hospital behave and pay attention.
Sending love on this stormy DC night. – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 06:14 PM, CDT
Ray,
Glad to hear you still have your sense of humor. You’re too stubborn to let this get you down. All the Crowne’s in Texas need you! You’re in my thoughts and prayers. All the best from Texas!
Mike Tilley mikeatilley@hotmail.com
Dallas, TX
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 05:01 PM, CDT
Kimmie and Derry here – well that’s great news! We are waiting for lots of rain from Hurricane Dolly – hope we get some – as I’ve told people before, I never imagined I’d be so interested in rain, but once you own property, that’s all you think about! Mom and Dad are supposed to come spend the night tonight, Daddy has something in SA tomorrow – I am leaving Kyle’s room just as it is, so they will see it and hopefully, will finally believe me! Take care. Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 03:17 PM, CDT
Dear Ray & Family:
Warm wishes to you today from Wisconsin; you are in our thoughts & prayers.
Speaking of warm, it’s kind-of a strange day here in Milwaukee; while I was out visiting Briggs & Stratton, the temp got over 75 degrees !
Hang in there.
Tom
tom gale tom.gale@ihg.com
racine, WI
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 02:05 PM, CDT
Fantastic news Ray. I know you can beat this thing……It sounds like Julie is doing a wonderful support effort. Keep up the strength.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 01:29 PM, CDT
Hi Ray-Wanted you to know it was not the same without you at the CP Western Showcase. You were definitely missed! Stay strong and positive. Praying for you and your family.
Best,
Ashley
ashley james ajames@meetingadvice.com
New York, NY
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 01:14 PM, CDT
Hey Ray, I did a road warrior visit to our New England properties yesterday. Everyone sends their prayers and positive vibes to you. We are all here for you!
Christine Mazzoli christine.mazzoli@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 11:53 AM, CDT
Hi Ray Ray!
By now you are probably not feeling so great – but you are one step closer to the cure! Kudos to you for that, I know it must be hard but we need you to stay strong and positive so that we can enjoy many more years of Crowne Plaza excellence with you at the helm! And, more importantly, we can enjoy your friendship…
Also – you will have gotten a small package today from Danielle, Joan and myself – music to take you away, I hope you will enjoy! Note – I totally guessed at what artists you would enjoy…hopefully we hit a few good ones for you with the mix. As far as the copied CD’s, they are from my Itunes – you got all my Buffet and anything that rolled into the “country” section – which admittedly was wide and varied…so have fun with it!
My Prayers and thoughts continue to be with you Julie and the boys.
Love, Anne
Anne Roth anne.roth@ihg.com
Hagerstown, MD
Ukraine
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 11:35 AM, CDT
What great news, Ray! And of course Julie is talking with others – no doubt becoming an advocate for many!
It is so lovely to read the notes to you and to be connected to such a caring community of friends.
Keep at this .. we all are hopeful that it will WORK!
And to all – you might consider making a donation, in Ray’s honor, to CaringBridge. See .. over there .. on the right? It will help this great site keep going – they do depend on our donations.
Love to you, Ray, and to Julie – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 10:14 AM, CDT
Hey Ray! The Astor gang says hi! I see a lot of people are staying in touch. Probably beacuse you are so special to IHG and the rest of the world for that matter. Hang tough and rest well.
Don Zimmer dzimmer@astorneworleans.com
New Orleans, LA
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 10:00 AM, CDT
Hey Ray …thinking of you today and sending you lots of positive energy. You are in my families thoughts and prayers. I promise to “sell like crazy” in the meantime!!
Nathan Park
Baltimore, MD
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 09:06 AM, CDT
Hi Ray! I’m so glad to know that you are doing well – you’ve been on my mind this past week and I hope that all of our prayers are helping you through your treatment. PLEASE remember that your number 1 priority is to get better (not to worry about Crowne Plaza). This is such a neat site to keep up with communication, Stacie just sent it to me. Also, please let me know if there’s anything I can do to help out here while you are recuperating. Keeping you and Julie in my prayers!
Kristen
Kristen Pardo kristen.pardo@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 09:00 AM, CDT
Hey Ray Ray! Things are going well on the site visit here in Miami! I have a Starbucks gift card with your name on it that they asked me to forward on to you so I know that will make you happy!!
Its not the same doing all this without you but I hope I am making you proud. Stay strong and I love getting your emails…even though its work, its just great hearing from you!
Julie, I asked Brenda to send you a sleep kit! I know you miss that lavender spray so we are getting it to you!
Love you both,
Stacie
Stacie
stacie day stacie.day@ihg.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 07:09 AM, CDT
Ray-
Thinking about you today. Keep that positive attitude. I know you can do it.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
WEDNESDAY, JULY 23, 2008 07:06 AM, CDT
Morning Ray,
A simple hello to let you know we are all thinking of you here in Alexandria! Warm thoughts and many prayers are always with you.
Donna
Donna DeClementi donna.declementi@ihg.com
TUESDAY, JULY 22, 2008 10:56 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
I am always awestruck and inspired when I see the number of postings just growing and growing – a tribute of how wonderful a person you are.
Was in touch with Stacie today and she is doing a GREAT job at holding down the fort. We don’t want you to worry about a thing, just GET BETTER!!
I am thinking of you as you began your first treatment about 2 hours ago.
Please let us know how you are feeling and as much as you enjoy receiving our notes of caring and prayers, so do we enjoy receiving the updates that you send to us as I am sure all of us are thinking about you each day and wishing you good thoughts, good health and peace of mind. If there is anything you are missing at the hospital – certain food, magazines, etc….just send a shout out. Judging from the lengthy messages you have been receiving one of us will make sure you have what you need!
My regards to Julie. You are amazing. All of these healing thoughts are also sent your way. We are all here for you! Lean on us when you need to.
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 22, 2008 07:36 PM, CDT
Hey Ray and Julie,
Can’t believe that you are starting your program tonight. There isn’t a moment in the day that you are not in my prayers. You have so many friends and colleagues out here that keep asking about you. I know you can FEEL the strong vibes. Last week was amazing. Stacie, Allison and Ashley did an outstanding job. You were missed but talked about alot!!! Working on a 23 team Collegiate Travel Schedule for the University of California in Irvine, CA. Should keep me out of trouble for awhile…….. So at 7:00PST if you feel strong vibes it’s me gathering up all good angels to assist you with this process. All the best for Julie and the boys.
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 22, 2008 05:57 PM, CDT
Oh my God, Ray, this has touched my heart. I have been following along over the years through the grapevine but not a direct route to reach out to you-until now. You are blessed to have Julie by your side through this. I have been through a road myself but on the sidelines as the caretaker and cheerleader myself. Yes, God is our strength through difficult times. He has known us from the day we were conceived.
Yes, I am still in the hotel biz, actually I am with Crestline Hotels and Resorts. I have 2 Oceanfront Holiday Inns and a Staybridge Chespaeake in my cluster, as “get this” Area Revenue Manager.
My thoughts will Continuously be with you and Julie and your family. You are a strong man, Ray. This will be tough on you physically and mentally. Ask for strength and courage and you shall receive.
I am only sorry this circumstance is the ony way to reach out to you- better times on the horizon!
Sincerely
Kathi Giller
Kathi Giller kgiller@cox.com
Chesapeake, VA
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 22, 2008 05:03 PM, CDT
UPDATE!
Just talked w/ Julie & Ray and here’s what I know:
1) I want Julie to be MY patient advocate! WOW!
2) They have had quite an adventure in hospital land! Ray is calm; Julie has been fabulous about getting the attention of all the people who need to pay attention.
3) Treatment begins TONITE (7/22) at 10 p.m. I learned that it ALL happens in the room – and Julie is staying there too. (All Emory rooms are private. YEA!)
4) Their internet access is intermittent so I will post when I hear if they can’t.
5) NO FLOWERS are allowed in the room. Edible Arrangements in Decatur is the closest one and Julie’s sister is sending some for 7/23. My guess is it’s best to send cards – the address for those who don’t have it is:
Ray Shepard, c/o Emory Hospital, ROOM 615 East, 1364Clifton Road,NE Atlanta,Georgia 30322. Not sure what his schedule is for staying or going home.
7) A great gift I learned from a friend some years ago when I had back surgery: send some food treats to the NURSES – you can say “Nurses station nearest 615E” – and it makes a difference. Say they are from friends of Ray Shepard’s and you want him treated REALLY well! Pizza or deli for lunch – or even an edible or cookie arrangement for them.
Here’s to Ray and good health! Here’s to Julie who is amazing!
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, JULY 22, 2008 01:27 PM, CDT
Hello, Ray…
I was in South Carolina over the weekend for Marlo Willis’ (CPHHI) baby shower. We didn’t talk about work at the shower, but Marlo called me today and for some reason, I asked her about you. You have been on my mind lately – and I happened to catch Joel Osteen on TV this weekend, too, which made me think of you.
You and I talked about him during a conversation out by the pool – I think it was the CP in Clark, NJ. It was during one of my first Field Marketing trips with you and to this day, I always think of you when I see him on TV.
So I wasn’t surprised when Marlo said that you were getting treatment for melanoma. I can just see Danielle (Baruch) rolling her eyes right now ’cause she knows that’s just how it goes.
I am happy to hear that you are getting treatment. Is this an interferon or interleukin treatment?
One of my best friends, Tessa, was diagnosed with Stage IV Melanoma a few years ago when she was 40. She had surgery and was told the cancer was gone, but it came back in her breasts. She chose not to have the interferon because her daughter was getting married and Tessa wanted to feel well for the wedding. She admitted, though, that she was terrified of interferon. When the melanoma was discovered in her lungs, I wish now that she had undergone the treatment – no matter how difficult it would have been.
I know that melanoma patients have had success with aggressive treatments so no matter how tough this course of treatment may be for you, I am sure you will see results.
Life is good in Naples. It’s been almost two years since I arrived at this wonderful resort on the beach. The property is owned by the Watkins family and has been for 60 years. Mike Watkins, grandson of the founder, is the president of the resort and he is a terrific guy. Mike is in his late-40s and is a five-year survivor of brain cancer. He had surgery in Houston back when he was diagnosed and is doing extremely well. He’s at work every day and has a bit of trouble with his short-term memory, but he knows the name of every employee at this resort. And trust me, he is as sharp as he can be when it comes to budget time!
I am happy to say that I made my revenue goal my first full year – and traveled a total of 14 days during that year! Sure beats being on the road 100 days out of the year like I was when I was traveling the Northeast. Not that I didn’t enjoy every single trip with you – missing those exits and getting lost – or sitting on the NJ Turnpike for hours!
When you are feeling better, if you and Julie want a getaway to a relaxing spot, there are lots of non-stop flights from Atlanta to Ft. Myers. Let me know.
Since you “turned me on” to Joel Osteen, I want to share with you the Daily Word from Unity. I just looked at today’s Daily Word and it is so appropriate to wrap up my letter to you today:
Daily Word – Tuesday, July 22, 2008
PROTECTED
Secure in God, I am surrounded by love and in harmony with life.
Wherever I am and wherever I go, I am one with God. Nothing can remove me from the presence of God. The Life that created me guides me through my day, whether I am working or playing, at home or in an unfamiliar place. My awareness of Spirit deepens as I pray, and I have a greater understanding of divine guidance. As I pray for loved ones, I affirm divine guidance for them as well. I know that they, too, live in the shelter of God’s presence and that they are guided, safe and secure, along their pathways in life. I give thanks that good judgment and compassionate understanding radiate from us as we trust God to guide us through every condition and situation of life. ” ‘I will now rise up,’ says the Lord; ‘I will place them in the safety for which they long.’ ” Psalm 12:5
Lu Sadler l.sadler@naplesbeachhotel.com
Naples, FL
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 22, 2008 09:36 AM, CDT
Kimmie and Derry here – we love Joel Olsteen – he is amazing. Let us know how you are doing after your first few days. Keeping you and the family in our thoughts and prayers. Cousin Kimmie and Derry
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 08:27 PM, CDT
“T(reatment)” minus 35 minutes.
Been thinking about you all day. Hope you got checked in and are relatively comfortable at Emory.
I’ve been watching the clock and wondering where you might be. (Joel, my husband, said they were allowing you to watch “The Closer” before treatment! I wish.)
Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you, Ray, for an easy time of this stuff. Julie – do all you can to keep YOUR strength up for yourself, Ray and for your sons.
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 03:00 PM, CDT
I have you in my thoughts especially today. I pray you have the strength to get through these next few months. I also pray for your wife and family.
Please let me know what I can do to assist you in any way.
Gina
Gina LaBarre gina.labarre@ihg.com
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 02:34 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Just wanted to let you know (as if you didn’t) that you’re not alone today. You will be in my heart and prayers all day long and I am sure that God knows who Ray Shepard is!! The Redondo Beach gals will all be along for the ride in the next chapter of the story of Ray’s book of life and know that with God as the author, it will be a wonderful story.
Love and warm wishes,
Marilyn
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 11:31 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Just wanted you to know that you are in our special prayers today as you travel to Emory and begin your treatment that will lead to your recovery. We have been thinking about you a lot reminiscing about old times when the kids were young and we visited you in D.C., Princeton, Arlington etc.. We are now awaiting a visit from Charles. He has been in New York this summer but he left a few things at home so he has to make a 24 hour trip to retrieve all his things for school which starts this weekend.How sometimes we wanted just a moment free from the kids when they were little and now we are happy with just a 24 hour visit. Kristina has been working in Richmond this summer but took a week vacation to Colorado. Went to visit a friend in Boulder and went to Vail and did some hiking. A little different than in the winter. Charles and I have been at the Shack on weekends. Just the two of us. Life sure changes. I know your life is changing now too but we are all still here for you and praying for your recovery.
I am glad that you have this website and we can keep up with your progress.
Love to Julie and the boys and our special love to you.
Tina
Charles and I decided that your doctor must be a vampire. Starting the treatment at 10 P.M. !!!! Interesting…..
tina bonner
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 10:03 AM, CDT
Ray,
I wanted to wish you the best as you begin your treatments and let you know that I will be praying for you as you proceed on the road to recovery. Our WASHV team are all thinking about you and know you will get through this difficult time so that you can move on and enjoy the next 30 years!
All the best,
Sharon Cummiskey
sharon cummiskey
Herndon, VA
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 09:57 AM, CDT
Go get ’em Ray….attack this as you have attacked all our our needs whenever we have called on you. You will surely win my friend.
Shawn Maxwell
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 09:28 AM, CDT
Ray,
Best of luck today and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers today at ATLPF. Again, please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Hugh Anderson
Hugh Anderson
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 09:14 AM, CDT
Hey Ray Ray- just a note to tell you that you and Julie are in my thoughts today! I’ve got you covered this week so just concentrate on getting through this round so you and I can meet back up next week and I can tell you how great Miami went!! We have a lot to look forward to you know…
Lots and lots of prayers,
Stacie
P.S.- how DO you travel like this? Now I know why you drink so much Starbucks!!!
stacie day stacie.day@ihg.com
MONDAY, JULY 21, 2008 08:32 AM, CDT
Hi there! Just dropping in to let you know I’m thinking of you today. I am so grateful that you have this wonderful web site so we can keep up with your progress! Praying today that all goes well with your first treatment and that it will be kind to you as it does it’s work. Also praying that the food it good at the hospital. If it’s not, call me and I’ll get you a room at MDAnderson—-they have 24 hour room service and FABULOUS food!
Mary Catherine Lamza
SUNDAY, JULY 20, 2008 06:33 PM, CDT
Finish packing…don’t worry about not having stuff. I am sure Emory will have what you don’t and if not, someone will run it over.
10 p.m. seems so late for treatment! UGH! But maybe that means you can sleep immediately after.
Julie – if you or your sons can, let us know late tomorrow or on Tues. how you all are.
Ray – G-d is looking out for you .. and we’ll all continue the prayers to get you to the next 30 or more years.
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SUNDAY, JULY 20, 2008 12:53 PM, CDT
Good Morning Ray and Julie,
You both have been in my prayers so much lately. I must be honest with you Ray, YOU have been my best boss ever. I have learned so much from you and I know I will continue to do so. YOU work harder than 4 people and are always grounded. Working on so many projects will keep your mind busy and “youthful”. I know next week will be challenging but if anyone can beat this sickness it is YOU. Don’t worry, I will keep Selling, Selling, Selling just for the success of your Regional Sales team. Sending you and your family tons of good health angels
Nancy Estelle
San Jose, CA
United States
SUNDAY, JULY 20, 2008 10:56 AM, CDT
Hey buddy, see you’re going in tomorrow and hoping that this weekend of rest and relazation will help prepare you for the challenges ahead. I know it will be tough on you but also know your desire to beat this damn thing and come out on top as you have with everything that you take on. I hope my prayers help at least a little.
mark ladd mark.ladd@ihg.com
SATURDAY, JULY 19, 2008 09:07 PM, CDT
Thanks Ray for telling all of us your thoughts. It means a great deal to us as well. Sending you good thoughts and waiting for your next journal entry….thinking of you and glad you are taking a relaxing weekend for yourself, Julie and the boys.
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
SATURDAY, JULY 19, 2008 02:22 PM, CDT
Chuckled, Ray, at the note about looking forward to grandchildren! You could be a Jewish (or Catholic or any kind of) father in a heartbeat – no guilt at all!
Glad you and Julie are taking it easy this weekend. I gather that Monday is a “go” for checking in and beginning treatment. Hoping Julie or the “boys” can update all of us on how things go.
Sending calming and healing thoughts. – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SATURDAY, JULY 19, 2008 11:54 AM, CDT
Isn’t it amazing that the older you get the more those little things just make you happy! Like spending a quiet weekend – Nephew Kyle is in Austin for the weekend, so Derry and I have 10 Ledge Lane to ourselves – too much work to go to el rancho! We love him, but wow, what do you do with a 23 year old boy…. We are thinking about you guys – I was reading some of your messsages and I read the one about taking everything offered for any discomfort—- I believe that. When Derry had his colon surgury last year, the Doc explained that the body heals faster and generally works better when it doesn’t have to concentrate on pain… so when you are not in pain, the body is happy and when the body is happy—- it heals. Made sense to me! Tell Julie and the boys hello! Cousin Kimmie and Derry from Texas….
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio , TX
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 18, 2008 03:26 PM, CDT
Ray, I work for MCA and met you while you were in the office meeting with Lefty and Renee. I am so very sorry to hear about your cancer returning but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Renee tells me that you are still working and that she has just received 9 emails from your in the past hour! I guess it is best to keep busy!
Kelly Doba – MCA
Kelly Doba
Spring, TX
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 18, 2008 02:05 PM, CDT
Ray – I just heard about your cancer. I am so very sorry — you are in my thoughts and prayers – I haven’t known you long but long enough to know you are a fighter! Praying for you and your family!
Jeananne Hawking – Crowne Plaza Little Rock
Jeananne Hawking
Little Rock
FRIDAY, JULY 18, 2008 12:56 PM, CDT
Dear Ray,
Just a note to let you know that you asre in my thoughts and prayers and I look forward to seeing you in a short few weeks.
All the best
Kevin Porter
Kevin Porter
Toronto , ON
Canada
FRIDAY, JULY 18, 2008 10:46 AM, CDT
Ray –
We are praying for you everyday. I know you will overcome and prevail. Don’t worry about the shows – we got you covered
Carlos Quinones
Display America
Carlos Quinones carlos@displayamerica.com
Atlanta, GA
FRIDAY, JULY 18, 2008 09:14 AM, CDT
Ray,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Please rest and take care of yourself!
Live Strong!
Kayce Boettcher
FRIDAY, JULY 18, 2008 08:09 AM, CDT
Sending good thoughts and vibes for today and a weekend of rest as you (hopefully!) get ready for treatment next week, Ray. And Julie? You too .. rest, relax, find time to just “be” this weekend so that you will have strength for you next week.
Love, Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, JULY 17, 2008 08:42 PM, CDT
There is something about knowing .. that you will now move forward. YEA! It’s also good news that your “systems” are ready to do this.
I let out a HUGE sigh of relief and we’ll await news from you or Julie, here, about how next week goes.
Sending you strength! I concur w/ JJ – give ’em hell – be angry at those dumb cancer cells and talk to them – tell them to just move on!
Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
THURSDAY, JULY 17, 2008 05:38 PM, CDT
Ray, I’ll be sending good thoughts your way next week!!! My advice, (and the advice my doc gave me) is willingly except everything they offer for discomfort. There’s no prize for suffering in this gig. You’ll do great!!!
Susan Beadle
THURSDAY, JULY 17, 2008 05:19 PM, CDT
Great news Ray!!!!! Kimmie and Derry from the great state of Texas [where it’s 100 degrees] !
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
THURSDAY, JULY 17, 2008 03:45 PM, CDT
Ray-
Knew you would be strong enough for the treatment. Good luck and give’em hell!
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
THURSDAY, JULY 17, 2008 01:10 PM, CDT
Hi Ray-
I am just back from maternity leave and was saddened to hear this news.
I wish you all the best with your treatments and recovery.
Look forward to seeing you back at IHG!
all the best…
Rebecca Plaut
WEDNESDAY, JULY 16, 2008 08:38 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie: Caring Bridge is a godsend to keep people updated and to let you know you both are surrounded by love and prayers. It was a lifeline for Paul and I. Your many friends and loved ones will be traveling this journey with you. May you be sustained by the many who care for you. Jan
Jan Day Gravel
McLean, VA
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 16, 2008 05:41 PM, CDT
Ray – this is Aunt Dee [through cousin Kimmie]. I am visiting Mom and Dad for a very short 24 hours… and we logged on to see what was happening. Thanks for keeping us updated and of course we are thinking and praying for you all… keep sending us updates. Kimmie and Aunt Dee
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
WEDNESDAY, JULY 16, 2008 02:34 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Thanks so much for keeping in touch and for keeping all of us up to date on your treatments. I am sure I am one of many that think about you, pray and wait for the next “entry”.
I am happy to see that other tests were good and that you can move forward with treatment.
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Until your next journal entry….
Danielle Baruch
Closter, NJ
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 16, 2008 02:07 PM, CDT
Thank you, Ray, for the acknowledgement – I am thrilled you are using CaringBridge – it is a true lifeline for any of us who need it. For all those who visit, consider donating – see, there, over on the right – it says “Make a donation”? Do it .. CaringBridge truly has kept many (of us) alive and kicking bec. of the interaction with so many.
Now.. about patience .. I confess to chuckling, in a kind way, at what you are going through Ray! For any of us who are Type As, used to going and doing and getting it DONE, this waiting nonsense seems so useless.
At the same time, I am convinced that it also means more time to breathe deeply, spend time with Julie and your kids, and learn…well, patience!
Sending love and good thoughts – Joanie
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
TUESDAY, JULY 15, 2008 10:55 PM, CDT
Ray,
It is Lori Wilson-Lowry. I found you two years ago and looks like I found you again. I wanted to take this time to tell you what your friendship, guidance and mentorship has meant to me in my career and in my personal life. As you know, as we worked at the Radisson in downtown Norfolk, your faith in my ability, guidance and love from not only you, but your family I think about every day. As I battled cancer myself, your courage and empathy at that time in my life I would not change for anything in the world. Where I am today, is from your patience and confidence in me as a person, at the time I did not see. I am back in sales and top sales manager, confidence and lack of ability kept me out of sales for many years. I want to thank you for guiding me and making me the better person I am today. Julie, the boys for the friendship and companionship through the years in Norfolk. I always hoped our paths would cross again someday, well, they have. Someone that has been through cancer twice, I am always a call or email away. You are a “Rayl” of sunshine and the best boss and friend anyone could ever have. If you need anything, I will be on a flight or in the car in a heart beat for you and Julie. You have always been in my heart and prayers and will continue to be. Take care of yourself, Ray! Love and best wishes, Lori
Lori Lowry lorenelowry@yahoo.com
Norfolk, VA
TUESDAY, JULY 15, 2008 05:20 PM, CDT
Ray,
I will miss seeing you at the NBTA this year, but my thoughts and prayers go out to you each day. Your strength is truly an inspiration, thank you for being such a blessing!
Denise Halliwell-CP-San Diego
Denise Halliwell
San Diego, CA
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 15, 2008 04:05 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
We all wish you the best from the Crowne Plaza Orlando Airport. Please let us know if there is anything we can send…oranges…sunshine…rockets….mickey mouse…etc.
Take care…all our prayers are with you.
Shawn Maxwell smaxwell@columbiasussex.com
TUESDAY, JULY 15, 2008 09:24 AM, CDT
Hi Ray,
Although we have only met in person the one time when you were in Louisville for the TEAMS convention, you have been a fantastic resource for me as we convert to a Crowne Plaza this year. Anytime I have emailed or called, you have been right there with all of the answers. You are a person of integrity and strenghth and I’m sure you will battle through this with prayer. Keep the faith and I will see you sometime this fall.
Kevin
Kevin Beckman kbeckman@cplouisville.com
Louisville, KY
United States
TUESDAY, JULY 15, 2008 08:10 AM, CDT
Hey Ray!
This sucks. No other way I can put it. I know you are a strong person and can beat this again. Please lean on all the wonderful people who care about you when you need a break. I am here for you.
JJ DeBrosse jdebrosse@genhotels.com
Indianapolis, IN
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 08:41 PM, CDT
Hi Ray,
What a bummer!! You’ve been looking so good lately that I thought you were over and done with cancer for good. Definitely count on prayers from my neck of the woods (the prayer chain gets very large so watch out!!). Without a doubt prayers work! You may remember that my nephew was in the advance stages of cancer (very fast moving) in his stomack, lungs, back and lymph nodes with no hope by the doctors of saving his life. He was 20 then and we just celebrated his 25th birthday last weekend…. cancer free.
All of us will miss seeing you at the call programs and tradeshows, but this forced “respite” is, I’m confident, God’s way of saying “Slow down my child. I’m going to take care of you now”. Please let Him do that as we want to see your smiling “healthy” face one day soon.
With lots of love and prayers,
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill
Marilyn Atchue-Zuill marilyn.atchue@ihg.com
Redondo Beach, CA
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 05:08 PM, CDT
Hi Ray, its Lisa StJohn from Valley Forge PA, your truly favorite hotel – of course I should not share that with everyone, just kidding, but I know it certainly is one of your favorites !
I had to send you a note to say hello, I did not realize all that you have going on the next few months, and wanted to reach out and wish you the best during this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts as we have worked together for quite some time so I am used to having you there when I need to send out a quick email question etc…I will try not to bug Stacie too much in your absence. Take it easy and don’t worry about work too much…it will all be there for you when you are feeling better ! Chat with you later, Lisa
Lisa StJohn lstjohn@cpvalleyforge.com
King of Prussia, PA
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 04:33 PM, CDT
Hi, Raymond B.! Al forwarded me your e-mail and Julie let me know as well. I was disappointed that you have to fight the fight yet again. I’ve known you for 30 years now, RBS. You have the willpower of 10,000 men so I know you’ll kick this. Glad to hear you’ll be able to work even with the treatments—-and extremely glad I’m not your admin! Be your positive self and all will be well. You’re in my prayers, my thoughts and my heart. Motto for you:
Name it, claim it, believe it and receive it.
Hugs and much love to you, Julie and the boys. I’m cheering you on!!! MCL
Mary Catherine Lamza marycatherine.lamza@ihg.com
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 03:27 PM, CDT
Hi Ray. We are wishing you a speedy recovery and know that you will ,once again ,beat it! Our prayers and hopes are with you. Be very good in hospital! They could serve you some really mean jello!! Thinking of you. All our best, Diana and Trenner
Diana Dowdy
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 02:54 PM, CDT
Hey Ray. All of us here at the Crowne Plaza Denver are pulling for you. I pray for a speedy recovery and I look forward to being in one of your seminars very soon.
Dan DeHerrera
Denver, CO
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 12:53 PM, CDT
Dear Ray; I will miss you at NBTA this year- I have learned alot from you since I have been with IHG at the CP Cleveland Downtown hotel. My thoughts and prayers are with you- until next time, Barb Yeater
Barbara Yeater
Cleveland, OH
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 11:15 AM, CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your spirit is remarkable. May you draw on the love of your friends and family in the days of treatment ahead.
Celeste Castillo ccastillo@chateaulacombe.com
Edmonton, AB
Canada
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 10:51 AM, CDT
Ray – hang in there buddy, I know you can beat this – my thoughts and prayers are with you and I am counting on seeing you in LA in September. If there is anything we can do for you in Houston please let me know.
Tom Mathews tom.mathews@ihg.com
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 10:20 AM, CDT
Ray, All of us here at the Hamilton send you their best wishes. I am glad we had a chance to see you in the past few weeks. We know you will beat this the third time around.
All the best
Ralph
Ralph Polanec
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 10:16 AM, CDT
Ray, Am I the only person who hasn’t met you at a Crowne Plaza Hotel or Event?? We can certainly arrange that, honey!! I am thinking and praying daily for you, Julie, and the boys for special grace to face your road to recovery that is ahead.
Patty Scott pattybscott@gmail.com
Alexandria, LA
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 09:38 AM, CDT
Ray – You are so courageous and as always are attacking this as you do everything in life, with vigor and positive energy. My thoughts and prayers will certainly be with you and your family as you battle to beat this again. If anyone can do it, you can.
Lori Collins lcollins@sanantoniocp.com
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 09:28 AM, CDT
Ray – cousin Kimmie and Derry from the ranch in Texas. We are on our way back to San Antonio for a while – it’s hard to get Derry off this place… you and your family are in our prayers. I have no idea how I would deal with this, but this guestbook is a great way to help… what a great idea! Much love and prayers! Kimmie and Derry and my four greyhounds…
Kimberly Gardner kdgardner84@sbcglobal.net
San Antonio, TX
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 09:09 AM, CDT
Greetings Ray,
You are a Man of True Courage. My prayers are extended daily for you and your family for the Strength to handle all treatments successfully over the upcoming months.
Kevin L. James – IHG, CP Atlanta NW
Kevin L. James kevin.james@ihg.com
Atlanta, GA
United States
MONDAY, JULY 14, 2008 07:49 AM, CDT
Ray,
From your friends in Valley Forge…you are in our thoughts and prayers always. Keep pushing and driving…your positive attitude, high energy and faith will get you through this again!!!
Bob McGowan
SATURDAY, JULY 12, 2008 07:46 AM, CDT
Ray,
You will be in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you a speedy recovery.
From the staff of the Crowne Plaza Memphis
JaNae Cook
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 08:13 PM, CDT
Dear Ray and Julie,
It looks like the CP and IHG family are already rallying around you in support. Lean on us all often and let us help where we can – that is what friends and family do.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you at all times…and we look forward to hearing that you are in full remission!
Love, Anne
Anne Roth anne.roth@ihg.com
Hagerstown, MD
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 06:49 PM, CDT
Ray, we’re in San Francisco at the BTAB/MAB and missing you! The CP team did a great job today but know that you were missed. Your IHG family has you in our thoughts and prayers. My only question is, what ARE those projects you’re pulling together to complete during treatment??? I hope, hope, HOPE you’re going to take it easy a bit, yes?? Hugs to you my friend. SB
Susan Beadle
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 04:39 PM, CDT
Ray,
I’m so sorry to hear the news, but I will definitely put you in my prayers for a speedy recovery!
God Bless!
Robin Ptak
CP Englewood, NJ
robin ptak robin.ptak@crestlinehotels.com
Englewood, NJ
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 04:35 PM, CDT
Ray,
We almost didn’t recognize this site as yours as it isn’t in Power Point! All kidding aside, we were shocked and saddened to hear the cancer has returned. You and your family are in our prayers in the difficult road ahead. Hope, faith, and love are very powerful, and we know that you have all of those alive in your daily walk. If you need anything, we are here for you.
Kathyrn Burton & The Team at the Crowne Plaza Columbus Downtown
Kate Burton
Columbus, OH
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 04:14 PM, CDT
You are in our thoughts and prayers here at the CP Houston Downtown.
And no worries, I will make sure everyones shirt is tucked in at NBTA! 😉
Laura Cole lcole@cpdowntown.com
Houston, TX
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 03:57 PM, CDT
Ray – The management and staff of the Crowne Plaza Meadowlands send you our prayers. You will be in our thoughts and prayers daily. Stay strong and believe.
Joanne Montenegro – Crowne Plaza Meadowlands
Joanne Montenegro jmontenegro@rosdevhotels.com
Secaucus, NJ
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 03:47 PM, CDT
Ray, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Praying your treatments go well and your recovery is fast one! Will be thinking of you and wish I could be bringing you those daily Starbucks! Stay positive we need you!!
Donna DeClementi donna.declementi@ihg.com
Alexandria, VA
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 03:41 PM, CDT
Ray: I’m sure you do not remember me but we sat together at the awards lunch in Dallas last year. I’m a crusty old GM that like you has battled and beaten cancer twice. You and I know how to do it. Your focus and perserverance makes the difference. Its wonderful to have the support groups and the family love but your mind set is the reason we survive cancer. God Bless you Ray and keep up the winning fight, I for one will be in your corner with prayers and confidence.
Bill James miaum@aol.com
Miami, FL
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 03:39 PM, CDT
Hello Ray,
I am still fairly new working with Crowne Plaza. I tell everyone that works with me what a remarkable person you are and how you are organized, passionate, dedicated you are. My prayers will be with you and your family. I look forward to many years knowing you and working with you.
Warm regards,
Debbie Hollier
Debbie Hollier
Houston, TX
Uganda
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 03:08 PM, CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have been so inspired by your incredible work ethic and positive attitude. We’re all here for you, rooting for another victory!
Cami Beck-CP San Diego
Cami Beck cbeck@cp-sandiego.com
San Diego, CA
Uganda
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 03:02 PM, CDT
Hey, Ray!
I met you last time you were at the CP in Madison, WI.–Just wanted to say, you’re not in this alone. Along with all your other supporters I will keep you in prayer for God’s healing, strength, and hope. Stay positive, you will beat this thing once again!
Karen Thomas
Madison, WI
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 02:57 PM, CDT
Ray,
I may be one of a very few who didn’t know…although I’m still fairly new to this company. During the times I’ve met you, you’ve certainly never portrayed any concerns or thoughts for yourself – only for the success of the event you were working on and for the resulting success of the attendees. Your hard work and dedication to the company and your job is an inspiration; and I know you’ll apply that to getting through whatever it takes to get well. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family, along with the many, many co-workers and friends who share the circle around you.
Diane Calire, CP Cleveland Airport
Diane Calire d.calire@cpclevelandairport.com
Middleburg Heights, OH
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 02:55 PM, CDT
Ray,
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Keep up the positive attitude, it truly helps during stressful times ahead. You are a great leader and so many of us are keeping you in our prayers to recover quickly.
Jennifer Fanara sales03@cpcns.com
Mundelein, IL
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 02:46 PM, CDT
Ray, I had no idea until just now. I don’t know you that well but my impression of you is that you have a great attitude, you have a lot of drive, and you enjoy your work! After reading your e-mail about your situation it sounds like I hit the nail on the head. Those inherent qualities are going to get you through these tough times.
Robert Caltabiano
Houston, TX
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 12:50 PM, CDT
Ray~
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this challenging time. You are a strong man Ray, and with much love and support from family & friends coming your way, this will only make you stronger!!! Hugs from Boston to you and your family!!
Charlene Tierney-Global Sales
Charlene Tierney charlene.tierney@ihg.com
Boston, MA
United States
FRIDAY, JULY 11, 2008 11:38 AM, CDT
Ray,
Your strength, fortitude and conviction will see you through this. I am praying for you, Julie and the boys and are honored to leave this on your Guestbook. I hope you know how many of us love you and are praying for you every day. I will check your website often to see your progress throughout the next few weeks.
You are an inspiration Ray and we are all pulling for you.
Danielle Baruch danielle.baruch@ihg.com
Closter, NJ
United States
THURSDAY, JULY 10, 2008 08:25 PM, CDT
Ray, Julie and Boys– i’ve signed onto your site for the 1st time. How incredible that you will know the friends you have that will support you and await the progress and success of your treatment. Know that you are loved and supported and most important- prayed for each day! (as i’m writing this message, Eye of the Tiger is playing on tv– how fitting for Ray Shepard!) Hugs– Carla C
carla cannonito carla.cannonito@ihg.com
springfield, VA
United States
WEDNESDAY, JULY 09, 2008 10:36 AM, CDT
Waiting .. it’s what we cancer patients know so well, eh? I of course want there to be a miracle and them to tell you the last reading was WRONG and you do NOT have more cancer.
Tell others about your site – invite them in – it will be a good place for all of us to be supportive.
Anxiously awaitng the results with you. Love – Joan
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com
SUNDAY, JULY 06, 2008 04:00 PM, CDT
Just seeing this home page reminded me of our drive up the west coast 3 years ago…what a cool boss I have to have taken me on that trip- and splurged on McDonald’s for me!! Thank you for sharing this site with me so I can walk this walk with you and Julie, I know its hard but if there is anyone in this world who has taught me to “fight” its you Ray.
RAY SHEPARD
Peachtee City, GA
United States
SUNDAY, JULY 06, 2008 03:52 PM, CDT
Dear dear Ray – Your candor is so appreciated and yet, reading it all again, made me cry. YES.. you are going to do all you can to feel better and be better. Julie – we are all with you and Ray in this. Sending love – will write often. Keep us posted. And LOVE your background! Joan E.
Joan Eisenstodt eisenstodt@aol.com